How to overcome your fear....
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Just now I outside leh I shopping lor at the computer games leh then hor in the friday night everyone should be out with their gf and bf mah... but I single you see.... abit sad leh... then hor see this uncle also shopping for PC games leh... look like a dork... then hor I realised actually I also quite like a dork leh.... so the main question comes that.. if hor I want to hook up girls hor.... you know I want to get to know girls leh, and also ask for telephone number that kind you know!? I am quite good and talking but the thing is that when I approach them hor I will shutter.... and don't dare to even talk to them leh... You people how can teach me how to overcome this fear? Make me invincible like Spartan like that super strong !!! can go infront and say "THIS IS MY NUMBERRR!!!!! But hor just kidding leh don't want scare the girl away. I want to know her leh how to overcome the fear!? Very scare to tok to pretty girls...
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right.
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having an orgasm
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I am very thick skin now..
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pI76dslo9z4Originally posted by banzie:Just now I outside leh I shopping lor at the computer games leh then hor in the friday night everyone should be out with their gf and bf mah... but I single you see.... abit sad leh... then hor see this uncle also shopping for PC games leh... look like a dork... then hor I realised actually I also quite like a dork leh.... so the main question comes that.. if hor I want to hook up girls hor.... you know I want to get to know girls leh, and also ask for telephone number that kind you know!? I am quite good and talking but the thing is that when I approach them hor I will shutter.... and don't dare to even talk to them leh... You people how can teach me how to overcome this fear? Make me invincible like Spartan like that super strong !!! can go infront and say "THIS IS MY NUMBERRR!!!!! But hor just kidding leh don't want scare the girl away. I want to know her leh how to overcome the fear!? Very scare to tok to pretty girls... -
Dont bother walking up to girls. Honestly. Girls who give numbers, are usually superficial. So if you are good looking or hot, they give. If you are not, they wont.
Then good girls wont give their numbers no matter what. So either case, I suggest you dont. -
What then!? Does that helps to overcome fear?Originally posted by FireIce:having an orgasm -
Then how to know girls on the street.?Originally posted by strado:Dont bother walking up to girls. Honestly. Girls who give numbers, are usually superficial. So if you are good looking or hot, they give. If you are not, they wont.
Then good girls wont give their numbers no matter what. So either case, I suggest you dont. -
grow a sac and fill it with balls. if it's too much for you, try hitting on girls you know, not on total strangers.
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Originally posted by banzie:
you mean stutter.
Just now I outside leh I shopping lor at the computer games leh then hor in the friday night everyone should be out with their gf and bf mah... but I single you see.... abit sad leh... then hor see this uncle also shopping for PC games leh... look like a dork... then hor I realised actually I also quite like a dork leh.... so the main question comes that.. if hor I want to hook up girls hor.... you know I want to get to know girls leh, and also ask for telephone number that kind you know!? I am quite good and talking but the thing is that when I approach them hor I will shutter.... and don't dare to even talk to them leh... You people how can teach me how to overcome this fear? Make me invincible like Spartan like that super strong !!! can go infront and say "THIS IS MY NUMBERRR!!!!! But hor just kidding leh don't want scare the girl away. I want to know her leh how to overcome the fear!? Very scare to tok to pretty girls...
go and get the girl's number in a group lah. with ur friends etc. join ur friends in outings etc to meet more girls. personally, i feel that asking number from girls is an act of desperation. i'll think that the guy is desperate to know girls. -
Kick them and shout
"THIS IS MY NUMBAAAAAAAAAH!!!" -
talk and write in a more decent way first
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Tell them you're millionaire.. The reaction from them will be different.
If you say you're a millionaire in sgForums, you're likely to get a 4 letter reply.. -
and then kick them in the Uterus.Originally posted by aku1b0d0:Kick them and shout
"THIS IS MY NUMBAAAAAAAAAH!!!" -
Just do it.
seriously
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I'm a millionaire.Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:Tell them you're millionaire.. The reaction from them will be different.
If you say you're a millionaire in sgForums, you're likely to get a 4 letter reply..
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humm..i saw this gal in my class quite good looking ..then also those very cute cute type 1..but my case different from urs..i got her number =D but got number also hard to get her.. cos cannot suddenly just send an sms saying..hey u attached??
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NPNTOriginally posted by Ito_^:I'm a millionaire. -
you must have a thick skin and faces..and dont be afraid...just sincere ask for the gal for her number or pass her your number...and think soon she will msg you or call you...think at 1st you can ask her gal will you want to be my friend? then dont so fast ask her contact...must wait check till she willing to leave you her contact number or ask for your contact number...then you just give her ur contact number....ok tats all i can teach you...wish u gd luck!
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go city harvest church to make more friends.... be involved in christianity n then join a cell group n make ur move from there.
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fix ur speech impediment first then u would be coherent enough for the girls to understand that ure asking for their number then at least its possible for the girl to give it to u however small that chance may be.
either that or go to a bar and buy some girl a drink or go to a club and dance with someone or strike up a conversation. -
approach the girl and ask them for the nuimber BRAVELY!!!
if not , ask ur friend to help u... =p
jia you! 
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Do a major overhaul in your presentation first. Get a friend who is fashion up-to-date and learn how to talk to a group or single in presentation to beef up your guts.
The rest is up to you liao. -
Make sure your first appearance doesn't scare her or you know make her go ewww...
Your speech is very important...sound sincere and at the same time sound confident...
Eye Contact is very important...and please no staring...lol...
Good Luck dude...
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jus do more...approach more and refine ur techniques then u will get better
i can approach anyone anytime anywhere without fear cos i have done it so many times before...