Women are the Masters
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You know, guys, sometimes we strut around with our girlfriends as if we own them when it's really the other way around.
Sometimes I feel so masculine and I wish to assert myself in my relationship with my girl. I am, obviously, an alpha male, and she should acknowledge her inferior position and acknowledge me as the patriachal dominant in our pairing. Or so goes my wishful thinking.
But all she has to do is glare at me and there I melt away meekly, cowering, blubbering all my "Yes dear", "So so sorry sayang", "Alright darling..".
Ninabu! Whenever I kena sound by her I always panic.
Any empathising brudders out here agree with me?
We always think we have them under our fingers but we are virtually under theirs. -
you will be too stupid to allow woman to be the master of your life -
I must stress do not, under any circumstances allow any woman to control you. You must have married the wrong woman.Originally posted by iSpeak:You know, guys, sometimes we strut around with our girlfriends as if we own them when it's really the other way around.
Sometimes I feel so masculine and I wish to assert myself in my relationship with my girl. I am, obviously, an alpha male, and she should acknowledge her inferior position and acknowledge me as the patriachal dominant in our pairing. Or so goes my wishful thinking.
But all she has to do is glare at me and there I melt away meekly, cowering, blubbering all my "Yes dear", "So so sorry sayang", "Alright darling..".
Ninabu! Whenever I kena sound by her I always panic.
Any empathising brudders out here agree with me?
We always think we have them under our fingers but we are virtually under theirs.
And it does not seem right that a man will bow down to a woman. Not only will this lose respect, but will also be bad for the relationship.
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How is it bad that a man bows down to a woman?Originally posted by dokono:I must stress do not, under any circumstances allow any woman to control you. You must have married the wrong woman.
And it does not seem right that a man will bow down to a woman. Not only will this lose respect, but will also be bad for the relationship.
doko
I think it is only bad when he bows down even when it's not his fault. TS, you should bow down only when it's merited, not simply just to appease your girl. If you bow down only to appease her instead of solving the problem and asserting yourself when you are right, then dokono is right in saying that it is unhealthy.
No matter for men or women, they need valid reasons to bow down. It's not so much of a gender problem but whether it is reasonable or not.
Find your courage! -
ying xiong nan guo mei ren guan mah..
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Mutual respect but then again, egos are in the way...
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sounds like fedom here...
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Sounds like you're being treated like a pet dog.
Get her a dog. That's what she needs. -
Strangle them, cut them into pieces and dump the pieces into the kallang river.
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Originally posted by ditzy:Strangle them, cut them into pieces and dump the pieces into the kallang river.
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Originally posted by iSpeak:You know, guys, sometimes we strut around with our girlfriends as if we own them when it's really the other way around.
Sometimes I feel so masculine and I wish to assert myself in my relationship with my girl. I am, obviously, an alpha male, and she should acknowledge her inferior position and acknowledge me as the patriachal dominant in our pairing. Or so goes my wishful thinking.
But all she has to do is glare at me and there I melt away meekly, cowering, blubbering all my "Yes dear", "So so sorry sayang", "Alright darling..".
Ninabu! Whenever I kena sound by her I always panic.
Any empathising brudders out here agree with me?
We always think we have them under our fingers but we are virtually under theirs. u mean all guys think this way? they wan their gf to allow themselves be twirled around by their bf? -
hong yan huo shui...nv hear before ar...dont want to end up like tt, dont get gf lor...
or go for arrange marriage. heard tt most of the time it works out very well. and the man retains their masculinity. -
bow at the right cause. but no MCP, please.
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lol..apologise yes because it takes courage to admit mistakes but bowing down?Originally posted by Slipshade:How is it bad that a man bows down to a woman?
I think it is only bad when he bows down even when it's not his fault. TS, you should bow down only when it's merited, not simply just to appease your girl. If you bow down only to appease her instead of solving the problem and asserting yourself when you are right, then dokono is right in saying that it is unhealthy.
No matter for men or women, they need valid reasons to bow down. It's not so much of a gender problem but whether it is reasonable or not.
Find your courage!
No man, in my opinion, should ever do it unless they have no 'gu qi' as a man?
Can you imagine our leader bowing down to his wife everytime he's in the wrong? If so, what kind of a man is that?
Not controlling the wife but never bow down. Your mum will be proud of you.
doko -
u forgot to cook in curryOriginally posted by ditzy:Strangle them, cut them into pieces and dump the pieces into the kallang river. -
So you are not an alpha male afterall. You are in fact a beta male.
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TS, I dont understand why you said your gf has an 'inferior position'.
In what way is she inferior to you, may I ask? Just because she's born with a v.agina?
Sorry for my crude language, but SERIOUSLY, all these ridiculous threads abt women having to be 'controlled', 'mastered' and whatever else is just plain RIDICULOUS! -
u forgot to put in the food processorOriginally posted by ifish:u forgot to cook in curry -
Whatever happened to equality?
I'm gonna nail the problem straight to the point.
In the 1st place, is because TS tried to dominate his gf then he got backfired.
But if you treat her with respect and all for fuk she glare u and all?
Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you!
Savvy?
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each ppl take 1 step bak, the sky is bright again!
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Most women quite fierce. Your mother not fierce meh? Yes, yin siong nan guo mei ren kwan.
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what's alpha male?Originally posted by iSpeak:You know, guys, sometimes we strut around with our girlfriends as if we own them when it's really the other way around.
Sometimes I feel so masculine and I wish to assert myself in my relationship with my girl. I am, obviously, an alpha male, and she should acknowledge her inferior position and acknowledge me as the patriachal dominant in our pairing. Or so goes my wishful thinking.
But all she has to do is glare at me and there I melt away meekly, cowering, blubbering all my "Yes dear", "So so sorry sayang", "Alright darling..".
Ninabu! Whenever I kena sound by her I always panic.
Any empathising brudders out here agree with me?
We always think we have them under our fingers but we are virtually under theirs. -
and women should bow down to man?Originally posted by dokono:lol..apologise yes because it takes courage to admit mistakes but bowing down?
No man, in my opinion, should ever do it unless they have no 'gu qi' as a man?
Can you imagine our leader bowing down to his wife everytime he's in the wrong? If so, what kind of a man is that?
Not controlling the wife but never bow down. Your mum will be proud of you.
doko -
no that's not what I mean la...Originally posted by Ito_^:and women should bow down to man?
both gender should not make use of each other.
doko