I must stress do not, under any circumstances allow any woman to control you. You must have married the wrong woman.Originally posted by iSpeak:You know, guys, sometimes we strut around with our girlfriends as if we own them when it's really the other way around.
Sometimes I feel so masculine and I wish to assert myself in my relationship with my girl. I am, obviously, an alpha male, and she should acknowledge her inferior position and acknowledge me as the patriachal dominant in our pairing. Or so goes my wishful thinking.
But all she has to do is glare at me and there I melt away meekly, cowering, blubbering all my "Yes dear", "So so sorry sayang", "Alright darling..".
Ninabu! Whenever I kena sound by her I always panic.
Any empathising brudders out here agree with me?
We always think we have them under our fingers but we are virtually under theirs.![]()
How is it bad that a man bows down to a woman?Originally posted by dokono:I must stress do not, under any circumstances allow any woman to control you. You must have married the wrong woman.
And it does not seem right that a man will bow down to a woman. Not only will this lose respect, but will also be bad for the relationship.
doko
Originally posted by ditzy:Strangle them, cut them into pieces and dump the pieces into the kallang river.![]()
Originally posted by iSpeak:You know, guys, sometimes we strut around with our girlfriends as if we own them when it's really the other way around.
Sometimes I feel so masculine and I wish to assert myself in my relationship with my girl. I am, obviously, an alpha male, and she should acknowledge her inferior position and acknowledge me as the patriachal dominant in our pairing. Or so goes my wishful thinking.
But all she has to do is glare at me and there I melt away meekly, cowering, blubbering all my "Yes dear", "So so sorry sayang", "Alright darling..".
Ninabu! Whenever I kena sound by her I always panic.
Any empathising brudders out here agree with me?
We always think we have them under our fingers but we are virtually under theirs.![]()
lol..apologise yes because it takes courage to admit mistakes but bowing down?Originally posted by Slipshade:How is it bad that a man bows down to a woman?
I think it is only bad when he bows down even when it's not his fault. TS, you should bow down only when it's merited, not simply just to appease your girl. If you bow down only to appease her instead of solving the problem and asserting yourself when you are right, then dokono is right in saying that it is unhealthy.
No matter for men or women, they need valid reasons to bow down. It's not so much of a gender problem but whether it is reasonable or not.
Find your courage!![]()
u forgot to cook in curryOriginally posted by ditzy:Strangle them, cut them into pieces and dump the pieces into the kallang river.![]()
u forgot to put in the food processorOriginally posted by ifish:u forgot to cook in curry
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what's alpha male?Originally posted by iSpeak:You know, guys, sometimes we strut around with our girlfriends as if we own them when it's really the other way around.
Sometimes I feel so masculine and I wish to assert myself in my relationship with my girl. I am, obviously, an alpha male, and she should acknowledge her inferior position and acknowledge me as the patriachal dominant in our pairing. Or so goes my wishful thinking.
But all she has to do is glare at me and there I melt away meekly, cowering, blubbering all my "Yes dear", "So so sorry sayang", "Alright darling..".
Ninabu! Whenever I kena sound by her I always panic.
Any empathising brudders out here agree with me?
We always think we have them under our fingers but we are virtually under theirs.![]()
and women should bow down to man?Originally posted by dokono:lol..apologise yes because it takes courage to admit mistakes but bowing down?
No man, in my opinion, should ever do it unless they have no 'gu qi' as a man?
Can you imagine our leader bowing down to his wife everytime he's in the wrong? If so, what kind of a man is that?
Not controlling the wife but never bow down. Your mum will be proud of you.
doko
no that's not what I mean la...Originally posted by Ito_^:and women should bow down to man?