Btw forgot to ask.Originally posted by miss_gal96:Can all man out there tell me if there are actually any man who can remain faithful to their wife for the whole of their life?![]()
btw, define faithful...Originally posted by miss_gal96:Can all man out there tell me if there are actually any man who can remain faithful to their wife for the whole of their life?![]()
But when woman strays, they are unforgivable by the men and the society and will be condemned. Whereas for men, it's the opposite. Just unfair lor!Originally posted by Xephone_xenon:Knowledge +1
Thanks!
To TS: So what are you trying to prove? That females are the more ethical gender when it comes to handling relationship?
I can be if he is faithful as well. Doesn't have to be handsome, rich or knows how to sweet talk. Vice versa, if the man isn't faithful, then likewise I won't be faithful!Originally posted by zeny:Btw forgot to ask.
1) Can you be faithfull to your man.
2) If yes, what kind of man is he?
a) handsome?
b) rich?
c) knows how to sweettalk?
Never do anything that's physically sorry to wife. Nothing sexual with other womanOriginally posted by bladez87:btw, define faithful...
Can all women out there tell me if there are actually any woman who can remain faithful to their husband for the whole of their life?Originally posted by miss_gal96:Can all man out there tell me if there are actually any man who can remain faithful to their wife for the whole of their life?![]()
well, my girfriends all are faithful wives...but the guy friends that I know, half of them are straying.....so the statics just tells us......Originally posted by racingmafia:Can all women out there tell me if there are actually any woman who can remain faithful to their husband for the whole of their life?
well now its not jus abt men...we commonly see women cheating nowadays. And when women cheats...we all knw...i tik this question has no end answer or a wrong or correct answer. I tik the most important thing is to knw how to matain your relationship to keep each other by their side.![]()
i wld ask how wld u knw all ur gf are faithful...no offence...some things are not wad we see. Well not all women nag , grumble and complain. if they do that it jus simply means youare not mataining it well. its not easier said than done, its as easy as saying it. Its jus that do u bother to do it. Ppl think its hard to do cos they simply thinks that its hard. y? becos their seeing things happening ard them too much. Don't compare. When u start to compare all problems starts to surface. Jus plan how are you going to matain you relationship. how?Originally posted by miss_gal96:well, my girfriends all are faithful wives...but the guy friends that I know, half of them are straying.....so the statics just tells us......
Maintaining the relationship.....err...I think is easier said than doneThink women always nag, grumble and complain ya? Will this keep the man away?
agreedOriginally posted by sillyme:Has anyone not made errors in judgements before?
There are plenty of faithful men and women. Just that the society pounce on juicy news on infidelity.
I jus hope I am not living in a world of dream....Originally posted by racingmafia:i wld ask how wld u knw all ur gf are faithful...no offence...some things are not wad we see. Well not all women nag , grumble and complain. if they do that it jus simply means youare not mataining it well. its not easier said than done, its as easy as saying it. Its jus that do u bother to do it. Ppl think its hard to do cos they simply thinks that its hard. y? becos their seeing things happening ard them too much. Don't compare. When u start to compare all problems starts to surface. Jus plan how are you going to matain you relationship. how?
You sound very confident and seems like you can maintain your relationship well. Care to share? Cos i've experienced a failed marriage before, even when I trusted my hubby sooo much. Then came across so many guys all had sex with other woman even when they are married. I was thinking their wives must be thinking they are faithful husbands. What is happening around me just didn't give me the confidence in life or in another new romance.Originally posted by racingmafia:agreedand the "plenty of faithful men and women" are people who has sucessfully understand their other part of their life and knw how to matain their relation.
well...i tik wad i can share is u must have a very strong understanding power. Cos "understanding" is a very important part to matain human relationship rather than jus love relationship. To be frank i have lots of frd who are lik the guys u knw... and they all have their own excueses. Most that iv notice is that they find that their wife are not acttractive as b4. Same that iv GFs doing that to their husbands too due to same reason. U must knw wad is ur other part of life wants, not jus on bed but of cors in hes life style. For me i will always try to make new surprises for my fif and i wld do simple things like asking "Baby hows ur day?, Baby had lunch? Baby u need a massage?" i find that alot of ppl dun even bother to do such simple things at all...i wld say it make a big diff in life.Originally posted by miss_gal96:You sound very confident and seems like you can maintain your relationship well. Care to share? Cos i've experienced a failed marriage before, even when I trusted my hubby sooo much. Then came across so many guys all had sex with other woman even when they are married. I was thinking their wives must be thinking they are faithful husbands. What is happening around me just didn't give me the confidence in life or in another new romance.
That is always the excuse men give when they stray. Tink of it the other way. If a woman strays and quote that as an excuse, will the society and the family forgive her?Originally posted by FocusPoint:TS, you sounded very negative about the opposite sex. And you definitely sounded very insecure with big self inferiority complex and with a suspicious character and mind too. So I suggest to you NOT TO get married. Otherwise, you will get divorce sooner than you think. Moreoever you will only give unnecessary stress to your future husband and I would pity the fellow who married you. So, spare the men their agony and stay away from them![]()
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By the way I've been married for eighteen years to a very wonderful woman who has full confidence in me and for that I thanked her.
Just saw a reply from you that you were once married before and got divorced. But that is beside the point. Please don't lump all the men into your ex-husband category that is - unfaithful. Instead of asking why men or should I say your ex-husband were unfailthful why don't you do some reflection. Search yourself and ask yourself have you been the wife he deserved? Did you live up to expectation? Of course you would answer yes to my query but the truth is only you yourself know. Many a times a man became unfaithful was due to the unnecessary pressure from the wife.