Hmmm is it really important to be yourself? No matter what?
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Yeah TS remember to keep it real!
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haha yeah keep it real dawg!!
hmm maybe i'll just smile more and think before saying stuff,hope tt works..
actually i have more problems conversing with guys than girls..btw im a guy,and im not saying im good with girls,just that im BETTER..
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Yes, It is also called playing a role. But it can be a real role, as real as you want.Originally posted by FireIce:when u behave differently, they are not called masks
it is not telling u to fake
u are still real, just tt it's another side of u
For example, If you are a General Manager, you have to behave as one.
When at home, hey, you are either a mom or dad. As a daughter or son, you also play another role. When with friends, you are not any of these roles, you relax and be friendly.
There are many roles we take on in life. They can be very real, or some people can fake it, Then it becomes a mask.
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very true , i dont know why but , when im with group A of friends , i can joke all the way , can chat anything under the sun . but when im with group B of friends , im juz like an anti-social idiot.Originally posted by FireIce:other than yourself, you will have social selves
ur attitude and behaviour will be different when u are with diff groups of ppl
like at home, in school, at forums outing, at fren's BBQ, in NS, dating the girl u like..... -
There's a limit to everything.
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No matter how low profile type you are.Originally posted by kb24:ok i have this problem. Being myself means that i will tend to talk very little,i will be quite boring and just a low profile type of person.
All these qualities are'nt really good when it comes to meeting new friends and gatherings among old friends.
So my query is,should i maintain being myself,which is extremely boring and risk making less friends; or pretend to be some1 else so i can seem more interesting and outgoing,and hopefully end up making more friends?
This is really hard to decide so any1 can help?
When you are in good company, it does not matter even if you are quiet.
Most self confessed quiet boring people, are in the wrong company of friends. -
The world is a stage. Ok thanks bye.Originally posted by kb24:ok i have this problem. Being myself means that i will tend to talk very little,i will be quite boring and just a low profile type of person.
All these qualities are'nt really good when it comes to meeting new friends and gatherings among old friends.
So my query is,should i maintain being myself,which is extremely boring and risk making less friends; or pretend to be some1 else so i can seem more interesting and outgoing,and hopefully end up making more friends?
This is really hard to decide so any1 can help?