Marriage & Love
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How many actually can marry the person u love most in ur Life?
sumtimes, we hv no choice. Agree? -
I don't think I will marry her if I don't love her the most.
If you don't love somebody the most, aren't you being unfair to her?
Well okay... I'm not so experienced this field, but ideally I won't. -
marry the one u think u can spend the rest of ur life with
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Originally posted by sunny6110:
hMM~ I don't know. I think the probabilty is less than 0.01.
How many actually can marry the person u love [b]most in ur Life?
sumtimes, we hv no choice. Agree?[/b] -
I am not married yet but I can say that I may not marry the person I love most. Love in marriage is optional to me. As long as I think you are suitable for me, can live with me through thick and think, you can be my wife.
Let me give real-life example:
X = A man
Y = A woman
X finds Y attractive and open-minded.
Y finds X charming and witty.
They started dating each other.
X and Y fall in love with each other, thus decided to get married.
A few years after marriage, they start to find faults with each other.
X accused Y of being unfaithful, flirt wife.
Y accused X of being irresponsible, gambler husband.
Thus, they filed for separation and then a divorce.
And that is the end of their relationship.
However, one important point to note is that X already knows Y is a flirt and Y already knows X is a gambler BEFORE marriage. Both X and Y did not change much, yet the same person that they once love, they despite one another in the end. Somewhat ironic isn't it.
Summary:
A decision to marry a person you love but cannot live with = Big mistake (or more like a disaster)
A decision to marry a person you do not love but can live with = Minor mistake
A decision to marry a person you both love and can live with = Ideal case -
If you truly love that person, why won't you be able to live with that person?
True love is unconditional. -
yup the vows that u take are meant to be seriously taken, soOriginally posted by FireIce:marry the one u think u can spend the rest of ur life with
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get real man. marriage is just like an investment a contract. choose well and u reap its dividends.
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singaporeans only marry to buy hdb bah...no love
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I beg to differfor the following reasons:-
At all times, all of us have the freedom to choose whomsoever we marry.
Even if the person you love most is already a married woman, what's there to stop you from marrying her? You can still do it if you are prepared to commit bigamy lor......
or even if you've been match-made by your paents with someone you have no feelings for, you can refuse, can't you? At most kena disowned only lor......... -
Originally posted by sunny6110:
people nowadays marry not because of love but of monkey love.....
How many actually can marry the person u love [b]most in ur Life?
sumtimes, we hv no choice. Agree?[/b]
but for a successful marriage to take place, its best that you know the person well or at least try to communicate more...you dun really have to love someone completely to have a happy marriage....the quality both parties must have most is understanding....if both parties accomplish this.....their marriage could be well happy.....but if you're a cheating bastard then dun get waste other's precious time..... -
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Blog material!Originally posted by SoulDivine:I am not married yet but I can say that I may not marry the person I love most. Love in marriage is optional to me. As long as I think you are suitable for me, can live with me through thick and think, you can be my wife.
Let me give real-life example:
X = A man
Y = A woman
X finds Y attractive and open-minded.
Y finds X charming and witty.
They started dating each other.
X and Y fall in love with each other, thus decided to get married.
A few years after marriage, they start to find faults with each other.
X accused Y of being unfaithful, flirt wife.
Y accused X of being irresponsible, gambler husband.
Thus, they filed for separation and then a divorce.
And that is the end of their relationship.
However, one important point to note is that X already knows Y is a flirt and Y already knows X is a gambler BEFORE marriage. Both X and Y did not change much, yet the same person that they once love, they despite one another in the end. Somewhat ironic isn't it.
Summary:
A decision to marry a person you love but cannot live with = Big mistake (or more like a disaster)
A decision to marry a person you do not love but can live with = Minor mistake
A decision to marry a person you both love and can live with = Ideal case -
There is no such thing as "I have no choice"
People have a choice. It's just that often, we are scared.. of differences, of unknowns, etc... it's this fear that often makes us make the wrong choices, and we spend the rest of our lives trying to convince ourselves that it was for the better. -
Love + responsibility = Good Marriage
Pure Love = That moment of greatest only. -
Originally posted by sunny6110:
definitely agree !!
How many actually can marry the person u love [b]most in ur Life?
sumtimes, we hv no choice. Agree?[/b]
the one that leaves the most beautiful memories ( i.e. the one u love most) may not come into ur life when u r ready to get married, e.g. 30.
But then again, marriage is to protect women, isn't it? -
no lahOriginally posted by maxtor:definitely agree !!
the one that leaves the most beautiful memories ( i.e. the one u love most) may not come into ur life when u r ready to get married, e.g. 30.
But then again, marriage is to protect women, isn't it?
divorce is to protect women
marriage is to bind men
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Never really thought of that... oops.
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Originally posted by sunny6110:
i can't decide who i love the most!!
How many actually can marry the person u love [b]most in ur Life?
sumtimes, we hv no choice. Agree?[/b]
I love all the gals that i love equally
hence, if i managed to marry one of them, can i say that i married the one i love the most?
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In wedding vows, you vow to love the one you marry.
It's not about marrying the one you love. -
I think many of us...will never marry the person you love most...rather you marry to a person who love you the most...
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Sunny's in love
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with you?Originally posted by pervertboi:Sunny's in love u closet.. -
tao yan...Originally posted by Ito_^:with you? u closet..