No ones blaming the girl.Originally posted by choco B:Don't blame the girl if you got no balls to approach her first ok
I wouldn't say all guys would like the girls for sure... but I tell you Majority of the guys don't have a thing in the brain... What comes for them and they see good they take.. Serious... Its harder for guys to go after girl than girls to go after guys... unless of coz this guy is really handsome or rich, or have some qualities to choose usually in a higher probability girls stands better chances.Originally posted by starblue:will you treat a gal differently if she approached you first, or if you approached her first?
do guys really like a gal to approach them first?
like u have said. i think many girls here think that if they approached a guy first, then they can never be sure if the guy really likes her for who she is, or likes her just cos she made the first move... i think the mentality is this: guys will take any girl who approaches him as long as she is not horrible looking and he is not attached....Originally posted by banzie:I wouldn't say all guys would like the girls for sure... but I tell you Majority of the guys don't have a thing in the brain... What comes for them and they see good they take.. Serious... Its harder for guys to go after girl than girls to go after guys... unless of coz this guy is really handsome or rich, or have some qualities to choose usually in a higher probability girls stands better chances.
Girls particularly who knows the art of seduction works better. I used to have someone whom I didn't love at first but she got near me... we went out but it didn't end up well becoz of certain reasons. But if does eventually I think I'll stick to her also.
Yes and no...Originally posted by starblue:like u have said. i think many girls here think that if they approached a guy first, then they can never be sure if the guy really likes her for who she is, or likes her just cos she made the first move... i think the mentality is this: guys will take any girl who approaches him as long as she is not horrible looking and he is not attached....
Sound like yr type of singapore gal (very xiao jie type leh)Originally posted by banzie:Yes and no...
if the guy likes you there are signs.... maybe you appear to be interested abit first. Then after which then you approach... During appearing interested, the guy will show if he is interested or just want to get attached.
Too passive no good... I guess its mutual... both side msut do something... if all the guys do... kaoz... guys also scare one leh...Originally posted by Cool-gal:im stil the conservative type.
i'd rather missed the boat than risk my pride.
sorry.