Can a person ideal girlfren/boyfren change?

• NeverSayGoodBye

  8 Jun 07, 13:32

  .....Often times you hear guys said my girlfren must be shorter than him, slim looking, earn less than you, lower education than you.....etc
  
  .....Or the girls said the guy must be taller or bigger size than her to feel protected, must have a car, got a degree.......etc
  
  Will all these ideals change?
• gigabyte14

  8 Jun 07, 13:33

  the sad truth is, yes.
  
  kou shi xin fei
• NeverSayGoodBye

  8 Jun 07, 13:35

  Originally posted by gigabyte14:

  the sad truth is, yes.
  
  kou shi xin fei

  .....why so sad? should be good right?
• Ferret

  8 Jun 07, 13:36

  all the time.
  
  
• Patrik

  8 Jun 07, 13:39

  Of course...
• allentyb

  8 Jun 07, 13:40

  
• Ferret

  8 Jun 07, 13:40

  Originally posted by allentyb:

  

  
• dinky1409

  8 Jun 07, 14:03

  Originally posted by Ferret:

  

  
• NeverSayGoodBye

  8 Jun 07, 14:30

  Originally posted by Ferret:

  all the time.
  
  

  ..... someone you like then you change your ideal for him/her? or you can't find your ideal boyfren/girlfren then you change your expectations?
• Ferret

  8 Jun 07, 14:30

  Originally posted by dinky1409:

  

  dont anyhow anyhow
• NeverSayGoodBye

  8 Jun 07, 14:31

  Originally posted by Patrik:

  Of course...

  .....what will make you change your ideal girlfren?
• Ferret

  8 Jun 07, 14:33

  Originally posted by NeverSayGoodBye:

  ..... someone you like then you change your ideal for him/her? or you can't find your ideal boyfren/girlfren then you change your expectations?

  people change, ideals change.
  
  Change is a constant.
  
  
• Kuali Baba

  8 Jun 07, 14:34

  When you someone who makes your heart flutter, all the preconceived notions go out of the window.
• Slipshade

  8 Jun 07, 14:37

  Originally posted by Kuali Baba:

  When you someone who makes your heart flutter, all the preconceived notions go out of the window.

  I agree with this. You will really never know lor.
• de_middle

  8 Jun 07, 15:39

  Originally posted by NeverSayGoodBye:

  .....what will make you change your ideal girlfren?

  u say leh
• Darkness_hacker99

  9 Jun 07, 20:49

  Possible.
• KrenByte

  9 Jun 07, 20:52

  Yep. Many times, people find that their ideal partners are rare if not impossible. But no matter how much they change, ultimately it's up to the feelings to decide.
• Patrik

  9 Jun 07, 21:01

  Originally posted by NeverSayGoodBye:

  .....what will make you change your ideal girlfren?

  To an ideal boyfriend.
  
• Deino

  9 Jun 07, 21:29

  Originally posted by NeverSayGoodBye:

  .....Often times you hear guys said my girlfren must be shorter than him, slim looking, earn less than you, lower education than you.....etc
  
  .....Or the girls said the guy must be taller or bigger size than her to feel protected, must have a car, got a degree.......etc
  
  Will all these ideals change?

  no one in this world can get everything they want in reality....
  
  
• darkhour

  9 Jun 07, 21:41

  yep it will change...trust me...first hand information lol...
• NeverSayGoodBye

  10 Jun 07, 11:51

  Originally posted by KrenByte:

  Yep. Many times, people find that their ideal partners are rare if not impossible. But no matter how much they change, ultimately it's up to the feelings to decide.

  .....can elaborate "rare if not impossible."?
• NeverSayGoodBye

  10 Jun 07, 11:52

  Originally posted by darkhour:

  yep it will change...trust me...first hand information lol...

  .....why not share some of your first hand informations?
• NeverSayGoodBye

  10 Jun 07, 11:54

  Originally posted by Patrik:

  To an ideal boyfriend.
  

  .....you must be popular with the babes?
• NeverSayGoodBye

  10 Jun 07, 11:56

  Originally posted by Kuali Baba:

  When you someone who makes your heart flutter, all the preconceived notions go out of the window.

  ..... provided the person is not anxious to find a partner or else he/she will wait for the ideal one?
• missqi

  10 Jun 07, 12:17

  ideals are ideals, sadly.