friendship probs..are they worth it?
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hmm..i believe everyone have meet lots of friendship in life..i have a qn for u guys..u noe when we were young,we tends to create 'enemies' within the circle of our friends..hmm..but now we have grown up..and u meet them in life..would u go to them and restart the friendship with them?or juz leave things as it is?
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For me I'll hate them even more. Challenge everything in life with them.
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how young? what kinda problems? all depends, right?
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hmm..sry..didnt phrase the qn properly..wad i mean is that when u're in ur sec sch life,u creates some 'enemies'..and now when u grow older..how wld u face them?Originally posted by ChingAlvin:how young? what kinda problems? all depends, right? -
It just can't be bother to make enemy..
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well, yes n no.
my 4 buddies used to be my enemies.
its thru rough time tat we know we can actually be best frenz out of it.
but some ple are reli not worth even as an acquaintance. -
Originally posted by soulwinner:It just can't be bother to make enemy..
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see whether u and the friends are fated to be friends lah!
anyways it is secondary school!
i have this problem too when i was in secondary.
it is the question u have to ask urself...
whether u can trust this friend again.... how is this friendship going?
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enemies within friends? this is deep, let me go meditate upon this wisdom.Originally posted by kenizaton:hmm..i believe everyone have meet lots of friendship in life..i have a qn for u guys..u noe when we were young,we tends to create 'enemies' within the circle of our friends..hmm..but now we have grown up..and u meet them in life..would u go to them and restart the friendship with them?or juz leave things as it is? -
sometimes leopards can't change their spots, if they do, i will be pleasantly surprised
if they didn't, i would just treat him as a normal friend. -
never bothered me & never will
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I am quite okay with my friends....my usual clsoe friends, we always get into quarrels, but next day okay liao.
Those not-so-close... I am okay with them, but I do not know what they think of me la, maybe in my back, they are saying how bad I am.
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you'd be surprised at how well u can get along with ex "enemies" of secondary school sometimes. When ur young its circumstances and not the person's character that leads to people becoming " enemies ". of cause, people mature over time too. so dont view secondary sch "enemy status" too seriously lah, see the other person's reactions. i believe ur "enemy" would want to patch up too and put last time sillyness behind.
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I just close one eye towards such people.
I pretend that they do not exist and they treat me the same way.
Well water not offending the river water.
Peace is foremost. No point feuding anymore. Sometimes just too tired. -
Yeh.Originally posted by teraexa:I just close one eye towards such people.
I pretend that they do not exist and they treat me the same way.
Well water not offending the river water.
Peace is foremost. No point feuding anymore. Sometimes just too tired.
But of cos', sometime its better to have friends than enemies.
Everyone have their own shortcomings. If can't see eye to eye on a certain issue, then better avoid conflict of the issues that are sensitive.
Its also not really about close one eye shut another also.
Its about understanding.
If you know that person has a flaw, of cos' you expect them to change but, if you put yourself in their shoes, you can't change, means you can't change. Its best to avoid sensitive issues.
Unless the person is a charlie bravo or a bustard. Then consider all out war. -
always give it more time, if its not you then its them. be matured enough to make your own decisions.