for RSAF, u have to put up with those COCs, SAF day, Mess events etc etc
for commercial, i tink the max is DnD with a couple more company events
BTW, when u join RSAF there is no confirmation of wat aircraft u are flying. u may wanna fly a aeroplane, but they give u Super Puma.
but if u join a commercial airliner, one thing for sure is u are going to fly their fleet of Airbus/Boeing
despite all those, one good route is from RSAF fly for couple years for that experience and move on to commercial. i believe u have that advantage over non-RSAF applicants
