How do you all deal with rich and spoiled kids
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I just scolded my cousin..too spoiled already
then he cried and cried..and I thought it would wake him up or something..
no man
when his mum came..cos he is living with us temporaily..he complained to her mann
no effect
so how do you all deal with these kind of kids
any experience?
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Give them one tight slap.
no la. if they demand stuffs which are not reasonable, explain to them why they cannot have it. If they continue to be unreasonable, just ignore them.
Show them who is the boss around. -
it won't work on him..cos demanding unreasonable things for him is already like a habit liao
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slap!
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nowadays the young kids....haizzzzzzz
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send him to boot camp
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not ur own kid, mai huan lo so much.
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then make sure he wont be able to practice his habit in your house. Give him a reality check. Outsiders wont go easy on him if he is to be unreasonable outside the comfort of his home.Originally posted by Diehard_89:it won't work on him..cos demanding unreasonable things for him is already like a habit liao -
Originally posted by FireIce:not ur own kid, mai huan lo so much. I wouldn't if he doesn't live in my house
and display that attitude to me
have to put yourself in other's shoes -
I think it might depend on how stubborn a kid is: I would suggest explaining your reasons for your suggestions. Since they are younger, they are most likely open to your suggestions if you can communicate clearly the pro's and con's of one actions.
If they are not willing to accept your reasoning, you have to be a little more harsh and put them in a situation that condones your reasoning. The reason that people (not only kids) act rich and spoiled is because they are in their comfort zone. Once your remove them from that comfort zone and remove all the power they think they have - you're on the upperhand. It is at this point when they are most susceptible to suggestion. At this point, you must also be a guide for them. You have to be clear on what you're trying to express to them. Don't confuse them with the theory, instead, use "cause and effect" examples.
I don't have any kids of my own, however, I work with kids and stubborn people on a daily basis.
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Removing comfort zones arh..I can say his comfort zone is removed partially liao
from semi-detached to HDB..somemore here got construction work..ping ping piang piang everyday
but we don't seem to have the upperhand cos he would keep on whining and the maid and my parent will give into him
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kids like tat ought to be taught a heavy lesson.
slap him or beat him.
most of my cousins scare of me coz im a little tigeress.
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Everyone talks about slapping children to straighten them out... that might have worked on people that are our age when we're young...but what one forgets is that children are smarter these days. In addition, they are given more opportunities just because of the advancements in society (communications, technology, social services etc etc).
I don't think such liberal views are as effective as when we were young. Kids are beginning to learn more things at an earlier age. In addition, they are developing their opinions at a much earlier age.
I think I might a little more detail before continuing.
What do you mean by his mom will "give in?"
How long has he stayed with you?
How long will he stay with you? -
Throw him down the block.
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give in is obviously I think lah..satisfy his demand lor..he could get whatever he demands..if his mum couldn't, then he would be whining
how long arh..I think 1 month already
for how long arh..soon liao..until his personal third-floor room is built completely -
hmM~ suck thier money lor..
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continue ur scolding
slappings oso can -
smack the little bugger. he needs a reality check.
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What I do to brats is to totally ignore them or give them the eye. They usually back away at the sight of the eye.
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wad he needs is a real bad experience he will remember 4ever in his life..that's his turnin point..
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muahahaa... hang them upside down on the tree...
Then, used rubber band to shoot them... muahahaa....
Provided I m bigger and stronger lah .... -
y stay wit u?
no money stay in hotel? -
Pls, a slap wont do much. If you cant change them, leave them alone, or you will exacerbate things.
Pple wont change so easily you know. Alternatively, you can try the cold-shoulder method. Just dao him. -
great minds think a likeOriginally posted by Darkness_hacker99:hmM~ suck thier money lor..