Originally posted by choco B:
Depends how old you both are and what stages of life. Nothing wrong with working hard really. If she is the needy clingy type then it's tough on everyone. Best if she is busy with her own stuff to do. Not so good to keep cancelling dates but maybe arrange to meet at night or weekends.
Nothing wrong with working hard really? But I think u need to strike a balance between yr gf and yr work. U can't just for the sake of working hard for future and totally ignore yr gf. I bet yr gf would rather suffer a little bit in material wise luxury in future home than not able to pour out her feeling and seeing u a few moment during the courtship!
Spare a thought for her too. This is not the way in r/s!