If you are working in a company, your boss also thinks he knows everything.Originally posted by Omniknight:plus also think they know everything
what to do?
Lots of wrong assumptions here from this fool.Originally posted by Bontakun:At least they know more than you. Sure~ At times they are naggy, but only because they loved you. If they do not love you, why they bother to nag?
Imagine you have 101% freedom. No nagging, no inteferences, no help. You can do what you want. Then comes the time when you did something wrong: be it got into a fight, lawsuit, crashed a car or committed a crime. Who would support you from behind? Your friends? Your GF? Your lawyer???
Sure~ you think that would NEVER happens. Then picture this: when your wife-to-be is walking down the aisle towards you, the groom, you do not see your parents by your side. How you feel? When you have your first born and your parents are not with you, who share your joy? You in-laws only? When you need financial backing to fund a small business and you got all the help from friends, loans and morgages and still not enough. You r parents are not there to help you. How you like it?
If you do not know how to love your parents, how can you love your partner when she knows you are not a family-oriented person?
Originally posted by Bontakun:YEAH sure they know more than me when they think that my adaptor cannot detect my router's network I should bring my computer to HP because it is under warranty.
At least they know more than you.
Sure~ At times they are naggy, but only because they loved you. If they do not love you, why they bother to nag?Nag at the wrong places? Dont even know the full situation and start nagging, is that help or harm? Love is not everything - when love is mixed with stupidity it becomes useless nuisance.
Imagine you have 101% freedom. No nagging, no inteferences, no help. You can do what you want. Then comes the time when you did something wrong: be it got into a fight, lawsuit, crashed a car or committed a crime. Who would support you from behind? Your friends? Your GF? Your lawyer???I already have 101% freedom.
Sure~ you think that would NEVER happens. Then picture this: when your wife-to-be is walking down the aisle towards you, the groom, you do not see your parents by your side. How you feel? When you have your first born and your parents are not with you, who share your joy? You in-laws only? When you need financial backing to fund a small business and you got all the help from friends, loans and morgages and still not enough. You r parents are not there to help you. How you like it?Firstly I am never getting married, or marry but not having kids. Secondly even in kindergarten whereby other kids were crying for their mothers I was shooing my mother away from the window where she was peeking at me.
If you do not know how to love your parents, how can you love your partner when she knows you are not a family-oriented person?I love everyone equally. My parents do not get special treatment. I only see them as another human being.
Originally posted by Omniknight:I love everyone equally. My parents do not get special treatment. I only see them as another human being.
I am more of gaming oriented rather than "family oriented" or "outside oriented".
We are supposed to be grilled in NS.Originally posted by ispyyy:Another person need to be grilled in NS ... lol![]()
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Why do it the hard way when I can just have my parents' spies here go talk to my parents?Originally posted by zeny:If you are working in a company, your boss also thinks he knows everything.
Why do you still work under him? Cos he pay your living expense.
If you are not happy with your parents, go out and work and earn your own living. If not LLPL.
I have already been grilled liao...Originally posted by Omniknight:We are supposed to be grilled in NS.
is generation gap the prob here? my mama is the same, too!Originally posted by Omniknight:plus also think they know everything
what to do?
Originally posted by Ristar:how about including more details about your parents and wat they did?
Originally posted by Chin Eng:I am what my parents mold me into, am I right?
omniknight doesn't want advice.... he just want to let off steam.... just let him rant....
....but that doesn't hide the fact that you are a piece of ingrate sh[b]it[/b]
fool. literally. i think your mental capacity is rather low. no rational person has actions like you , fool.Originally posted by Omniknight:I love everyone equally. My parents do not get special treatment. I only see them as another human being.
I am more of gaming oriented rather than "family oriented" or "outside oriented".
No. Your parents have significant influence on you but ultimately: you are what you make yourself out to be. You CHOSE to be you.Originally posted by Omniknight:I am what my parents mold me into, am I right?
You can choose to be anything but you just have the consequences to bear.Originally posted by Bontakun:No. Your parents have significant influence on you but ultimately: you are what you make yourself out to be. You CHOSE to be you.
The above message is not just meant for OmniKnight (I do not care if he bother to listen) but also to other readers who find their parents a nuisance.
Cherish your family. They may be flawed, but they gave you life.
nice 1.... you can't change parents. but you can be at yr bestOriginally posted by Bontakun:At least they know more than you. Sure~ At times they are naggy, but only because they loved you. If they do not love you, why they bother to nag?
Imagine you have 101% freedom. No nagging, no inteferences, no help. You can do what you want. Then comes the time when you did something wrong: be it got into a fight, lawsuit, crashed a car or committed a crime. Who would support you from behind? Your friends? Your GF? Your lawyer???
Sure~ you think that would NEVER happens. Then picture this: when your wife-to-be is walking down the aisle towards you, the groom, you do not see your parents by your side. How you feel? When you have your first born and your parents are not with you, who share your joy? You in-laws only? When you need financial backing to fund a small business and you got all the help from friends, loans and morgages and still not enough. You r parents are not there to help you. How you like it?
If you do not know how to love your parents, how can you love your partner when she knows you are not a family-oriented person?
You can change your parents behaviour.Originally posted by relax_crown:nice 1.... you can't change parents. but you can be at yr best![]()
I chose to be the person, whom you call a fool, I am to be.Originally posted by Omniknight:You can choose to be anything but you just have the consequences to bear.
I am not gonna bear with them not giving me help but criticize brainlessly when I try to solve my problems.