useless, crappy parents
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Very sensible reply from Bontakun.
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If you are working in a company, your boss also thinks he knows everything.Originally posted by Omniknight:plus also think they know everything
what to do?
Why do you still work under him? Cos he pay your living expense.
If you are not happy with your parents, go out and work and earn your own living. If not LLPL. -
lets see what the TS will do when he becomes a parent.
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Lots of wrong assumptions here from this fool.Originally posted by Bontakun:At least they know more than you. Sure~ At times they are naggy, but only because they loved you. If they do not love you, why they bother to nag?
Imagine you have 101% freedom. No nagging, no inteferences, no help. You can do what you want. Then comes the time when you did something wrong: be it got into a fight, lawsuit, crashed a car or committed a crime. Who would support you from behind? Your friends? Your GF? Your lawyer???
Sure~ you think that would NEVER happens. Then picture this: when your wife-to-be is walking down the aisle towards you, the groom, you do not see your parents by your side. How you feel? When you have your first born and your parents are not with you, who share your joy? You in-laws only? When you need financial backing to fund a small business and you got all the help from friends, loans and morgages and still not enough. You r parents are not there to help you. How you like it?
If you do not know how to love your parents, how can you love your partner when she knows you are not a family-oriented person? -
Originally posted by Bontakun:
YEAH sure they know more than me when they think that my adaptor cannot detect my router's network I should bring my computer to HP because it is under warranty.
At least they know more than you.Sure~ At times they are naggy, but only because they loved you. If they do not love you, why they bother to nag?
Nag at the wrong places? Dont even know the full situation and start nagging, is that help or harm? Love is not everything - when love is mixed with stupidity it becomes useless nuisance.
Just like what you are doing now.Imagine you have 101% freedom. No nagging, no inteferences, no help. You can do what you want. Then comes the time when you did something wrong: be it got into a fight, lawsuit, crashed a car or committed a crime. Who would support you from behind? Your friends? Your GF? Your lawyer???
I already have 101% freedom.Sure~ you think that would NEVER happens. Then picture this: when your wife-to-be is walking down the aisle towards you, the groom, you do not see your parents by your side. How you feel? When you have your first born and your parents are not with you, who share your joy? You in-laws only? When you need financial backing to fund a small business and you got all the help from friends, loans and morgages and still not enough. You r parents are not there to help you. How you like it?
Firstly I am never getting married, or marry but not having kids. Secondly even in kindergarten whereby other kids were crying for their mothers I was shooing my mother away from the window where she was peeking at me.If you do not know how to love your parents, how can you love your partner when she knows you are not a family-oriented person?
I love everyone equally. My parents do not get special treatment. I only see them as another human being.
I am more of gaming oriented rather than "family oriented" or "outside oriented". -
I pity you pathetic fool.Originally posted by Omniknight:I love everyone equally. My parents do not get special treatment. I only see them as another human being.
I am more of gaming oriented rather than "family oriented" or "outside oriented". -
Another person need to be grilled in NS ... lol
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We are supposed to be grilled in NS.Originally posted by ispyyy:Another person need to be grilled in NS ... lol -
Why do it the hard way when I can just have my parents' spies here go talk to my parents?Originally posted by zeny:If you are working in a company, your boss also thinks he knows everything.
Why do you still work under him? Cos he pay your living expense.
If you are not happy with your parents, go out and work and earn your own living. If not LLPL. -
I have already been grilled liao...Originally posted by Omniknight:We are supposed to be grilled in NS.
Once cooked cannot be uncooked ...
lol.. so, I cant share the same views as u >< -
is generation gap the prob here? my mama is the same, too!Originally posted by Omniknight:plus also think they know everything
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omniknight doesn't want advice.... he just want to let off steam.... just let him rant....
....but that doesn't hide the fact that you are a piece of ingrate shit -
Originally posted by Ristar:how about including more details about your parents and wat they did?
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Originally posted by Chin Eng:
I am what my parents mold me into, am I right?
omniknight doesn't want advice.... he just want to let off steam.... just let him rant....
....but that doesn't hide the fact that you are a piece of ingrate sh[b]it[/b] -
immature idiot. grow up. learn to respect your parents. after all they sacrificed so much for you.
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fool. literally. i think your mental capacity is rather low. no rational person has actions like you , fool.Originally posted by Omniknight:I love everyone equally. My parents do not get special treatment. I only see them as another human being.
I am more of gaming oriented rather than "family oriented" or "outside oriented". -
the comp you're using, the internet you're using, all paid for by whose money? if its your parents then by making these angsty comments you're the useless crappy one.
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No. Your parents have significant influence on you but ultimately: you are what you make yourself out to be. You CHOSE to be you.Originally posted by Omniknight:I am what my parents mold me into, am I right?
The above message is not just meant for OmniKnight (I do not care if he bother to listen) but also to other readers who find their parents a nuisance.
Cherish your family. They may be flawed, but they gave you life. -
You can choose to be anything but you just have the consequences to bear.Originally posted by Bontakun:No. Your parents have significant influence on you but ultimately: you are what you make yourself out to be. You CHOSE to be you.
The above message is not just meant for OmniKnight (I do not care if he bother to listen) but also to other readers who find their parents a nuisance.
Cherish your family. They may be flawed, but they gave you life.
I am not gonna bear with them not giving me help but criticize brainlessly when I try to solve my problems. -
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nice 1.... you can't change parents. but you can be at yr bestOriginally posted by Bontakun:At least they know more than you. Sure~ At times they are naggy, but only because they loved you. If they do not love you, why they bother to nag?
Imagine you have 101% freedom. No nagging, no inteferences, no help. You can do what you want. Then comes the time when you did something wrong: be it got into a fight, lawsuit, crashed a car or committed a crime. Who would support you from behind? Your friends? Your GF? Your lawyer???
Sure~ you think that would NEVER happens. Then picture this: when your wife-to-be is walking down the aisle towards you, the groom, you do not see your parents by your side. How you feel? When you have your first born and your parents are not with you, who share your joy? You in-laws only? When you need financial backing to fund a small business and you got all the help from friends, loans and morgages and still not enough. You r parents are not there to help you. How you like it?
If you do not know how to love your parents, how can you love your partner when she knows you are not a family-oriented person?
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Bontakun seems to be having trouble imagining a family different from his.
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You can change your parents behaviour.Originally posted by relax_crown:nice 1.... you can't change parents. but you can be at yr best -
those who thinks that anything done by our parents can be forgiven , obviously never experience what is it like to be treated like shit by their own parents.
im not here to support the TS because i don't know how extreme his case were , but i know some parents in this world deserves this kind of cursing , for example , my mother. but i do have a lot of respect for my father though . -
I chose to be the person, whom you call a fool, I am to be.Originally posted by Omniknight:You can choose to be anything but you just have the consequences to bear.
I am not gonna bear with them not giving me help but criticize brainlessly when I try to solve my problems.
You chose to be who & what you want to be.
We reap what we sow.