love vs lust

tykui

20 Aug 07, 20:22

what's the difference? does a guy get turned on by any sexy girl who does some sexy pole dance around him? does he get turned on by any girl willing to strip in front of him? if he gets turned on, does it mean he is being disloyal to his wife? or do u think love and lust are two comletely different feelings?

Kenashi

20 Aug 07, 20:24

Originally posted by tykui:
what's the difference? does a guy get turned on by any sexy girl who does some sexy pole dance around him? does he get turned on by any girl willing to strip in front of him? if he gets turned on, does it mean he is being disloyal to his wife? or do u think love and lust are two comletely different feelings?

if u love someone, u learn to control yr lust
getting turn on doesn't meant u have to do something immoral, it is all about self-discipline

sEphIrOth

20 Aug 07, 20:24

dont tell u Cool

tykui

20 Aug 07, 20:27

is it natural for a guy to get turned on by sexy girls even thou he is the most honest guy on earth?

aiglosicicle

20 Aug 07, 20:28

if i love someone i wont lust for her and vice versa. dont know if it applies to other guys though Laughing

20 Aug 07, 20:29

Whether getting turned on by other girls means being unfaithful to your wife depends on each different individual's definition of faithfulness. Some are strict with themselves whiles others are more liberal so no hard and fast rule on this one lor....... Laughing

caleb_chiang

20 Aug 07, 20:30

Originally posted by tykui:
what's the difference? does a guy get turned on by any sexy girl who does some sexy pole dance around him? does he get turned on by any girl willing to strip in front of him? if he gets turned on, does it mean he is being disloyal to his wife? or do u think love and lust are two comletely different feelings?

love is wanting to have the person fully, body and soul but lust only wants the body.

Any normal guy would get turn on by sexy girl who does some sexy pole dance around him.

It would depend on the person. For me, not everyone who strip in front of me stand a chance... Laughing

Some people would just go for anyone but not me.

Being turned on doesn't mean disloyal unless actions follows...

Yes, lust and love completely different.

^mR.yellow^86

20 Aug 07, 20:30

of course they are different thing....love =! (not equal) lust.
for me, turn on physically is something that u cannot control.
but does that mean, if u turn on if front of the girl who strip naked in front of u, u must go and have sex wth her? having self control is what make us different from the uncivilized.

tykui

20 Aug 07, 20:33

Originally posted by aiglosicicle:
if i love someone i wont lust for her and vice versa. dont know if it applies to other guys though

haha.first time i heard this theory.how come?

tykui

20 Aug 07, 20:39

Originally posted by caleb_chiang:
love is wanting to have the person fully, body and soul but lust only wants the body.

haha.that makes alot of sense.thanks!

silly0ne

20 Aug 07, 20:50

Originally posted by tykui:
what's the difference? does a guy get turned on by any sexy girl who does some sexy pole dance around him? does he get turned on by any girl willing to strip in front of him? if he gets turned on, does it mean he is being disloyal to his wife? or do u think love and lust are two comletely different feelings?

Well everyone have the freedom to lust, but love is only dedicated to the special some. But it all goes down to how much u trust the guy. To me both are a different world but the distance is only measured by the trust betwwen both of you Wink

de_middle

21 Aug 07, 09:24

Originally posted by Kenashi:
if u love someone, u learn to control yr lust
getting turn on doesn't meant u have to do something immoral, it is all about self-discipline

x 2

boka

21 Aug 07, 09:25

Lust?what lust?

I only lust after power.

Fatum

21 Aug 07, 09:27

keep it simple bros ....

lust = you want to bonk with her ...

love = you want to breed with her ...