What say you.

• Xephone_xenon

  29 Aug 07, 18:58

  So can some wise guy help me define concisely whats a constructive life?
  Cause its like my friend has always been saying "Aiya, you and your friends have no life la."
  
  Going to clubs,Chilling with friends,Doing sports,Having a wide circle of "healthy" friends = Got life?
  Watching anime,Collecting figurine,Going online all the time,Having a wide circle of online and gaming friends= No life?
  
  I seriously dont know.
  Is there something wrong with my mentality. Or is there something wrong with my friends.
  Have been trying to contemplate this "life" thing for quite sometime.
  And whenever i do, my mind would just boil everything down to, "As long as you enjoy yourself = Got life"
  
  So what say you?
  Is my mentality morbid? Or is my peers mentality morbid?
• selfobliged

  29 Aug 07, 19:02

  To me it's normal. Perhaps the one who commented has a different socialising technique. So I don't see it as a problem. But it will change as time goes by.
• RsSDumbSteR

  29 Aug 07, 19:20

  depends mah
  
  Going to clubs,Chilling with friends,Doing sports,Having a wide circle of friends => Extrovert
  
  Watching anime,Collecting figurine,Going online all the time,Having a wide circle of online and gaming friends=>Introvert
  
  But why bother about all this?
  It's your life. How your life looks like is how you mold it out
• relax_crown

  29 Aug 07, 20:43

  Originally posted by Xephone_xenon:

  So can some wise guy help me define concisely whats a constructive life?
  Cause its like my friend has always been saying "Aiya, you and your friends have no life la."
  
  Going to clubs,Chilling with friends,Doing sports,Having a wide circle of "healthy" friends = Got life?
  Watching anime,Collecting figurine,Going online all the time,Having a wide circle of online and gaming friends= No life?
  
  I seriously dont know.
  Is there something wrong with my mentality. Or is there something wrong with my friends.
  Have been trying to contemplate this "life" thing for quite sometime.
  And whenever i do, my mind would just boil everything down to, "As long as you enjoy yourself = Got life"
  
  So what say you?
  Is my mentality morbid? Or is my peers mentality morbid?

  Do what you like?Some people is like that,don't like to go out while some like?Everyone is make differently.Most importantly,is you enjoy what you do?
  cheers Don't care too much other say la.
• relax_crown

  29 Aug 07, 20:44

  Originally posted by RsSDumbSteR:

  depends mah
  
  Going to clubs,Chilling with friends,Doing sports,Having a wide circle of friends => Extrovert
  
  Watching anime,Collecting figurine,Going online all the time,Having a wide circle of online and gaming friends=>Introvert
  
  But why bother about all this?
  It's your life. How your life looks like is how you mold it out

  Then,I must be Introvert and alittle extrovert lo. but don't like too wide circle of friends though. haha
• The man who was death

  29 Aug 07, 20:46

  my idea of a constructive life is something like u do things that gives u a sense of satisfaction and meaning....
• Meia Gisborn

  29 Aug 07, 20:58

  Originally posted by The man who was death:

  my idea of a constructive life is something like u do things that gives u a sense of satisfaction and meaning....

  BINGO!
  
  Why judge your life by others' "standards"? If you're happy doing what you're doing, and you're not annoying or endangering other people or running afoul of laws in the process, you shouldn't have to worry about what they think of your activities or lifestyle.
  
  
• relax_crown

  29 Aug 07, 21:07

  Originally posted by Meia Gisborn:

  BINGO!
  
  Why judge your life by others' "standards"? If you're happy doing what you're doing, and you're not annoying or endangering other people or running afoul of laws in the process, you shouldn't have to worry about what they think of your activities or lifestyle.
  
  

  TOTALLY AGREE!!!You don't keep caring about what people think about you.It might be something good not that bad afterall?Because nowadays,people so stressed up!Where got time to care about you?It is your life.Not other in control of your life?People say you listen one ear in and out la!
  
  
• de_middle

  30 Aug 07, 09:16

  Originally posted by Meia Gisborn:

  BINGO!
  
  Why judge your life by others' "standards"? If you're happy doing what you're doing, and you're not annoying or endangering other people or running afoul of laws in the process, you shouldn't have to worry about what they think of your activities or lifestyle.
  
  

  yup, perception is individual
• Zarks

  30 Aug 07, 11:02

  Originally posted by Xephone_xenon:

  So can some wise guy help me define concisely whats a constructive life?
  Cause its like my friend has always been saying "Aiya, you and your friends have no life la."
  
  Going to clubs,Chilling with friends,Doing sports,Having a wide circle of "healthy" friends = Got life?
  Watching anime,Collecting figurine,Going online all the time,Having a wide circle of online and gaming friends= No life?
  
  I seriously dont know.
  Is there something wrong with my mentality. Or is there something wrong with my friends.
  Have been trying to contemplate this "life" thing for quite sometime.
  And whenever i do, my mind would just boil everything down to, "As long as you enjoy yourself = Got life"
  
  So what say you?
  Is my mentality morbid? Or is my peers mentality morbid?

  if u alive , that means life lor !! simple thing also dono haiya !
• latenightmonster

  30 Aug 07, 16:57

  "clubbing = got life
  
  no clubbing = no life"
  
  Quoted from club de lao bans.
• BlackSnow

  30 Aug 07, 17:02

  Yeah xenon… I know what u mean. I keep getting that kinda “eh you no life siah!” kinda comment from people. Hmm my policy is – the words of people who do not matter, do not matter. Thankfully, folks who do matter to me wouldn’t even come up with that kinda statement of me having no life in the 1st place. Itz like… so what if I don’t go clubbing these days & instead hole myself up @ home playing some mmorpg or the PS2? Itz MY life manx. MY rules.
  
  In short – YOUR life, do whatever you want with it.
  
• theSquelch

  30 Aug 07, 17:05

  it depends, despite spending all your time indoors do u bother to bathe occassionally and change ur clothes? maybe that is what ur friend is worried about, u spending days on end in your jammies
  

  Originally posted by Xephone_xenon:

  Watching anime,Collecting figurine,Going online all the time,Having a wide circle of online and gaming friends= No life?

• gigabyte14

  30 Aug 07, 17:15

  Originally posted by Xephone_xenon:

  So can some wise guy help me define concisely whats a constructive life?
  Cause its like my friend has always been saying "Aiya, you and your friends have no life la."
  
  Going to clubs,Chilling with friends,Doing sports,Having a wide circle of "healthy" friends = Got life?
  Watching anime,Collecting figurine,Going online all the time,Having a wide circle of online and gaming friends= No life?
  
  I seriously dont know.
  Is there something wrong with my mentality. Or is there something wrong with my friends.
  Have been trying to contemplate this "life" thing for quite sometime.
  And whenever i do, my mind would just boil everything down to, "As long as you enjoy yourself = Got life"
  
  So what say you?
  Is my mentality morbid? Or is my peers mentality morbid?

  clubbing doesn't mean got life la
  although many idiots in singapore think otherwise
• EarlNeo

  30 Aug 07, 17:20

  It really depend on ur age and ur real social circle.. not just those virtual worlds' mate!! Do call someone who stuck themselves in their room 24/7 doing thing that they like as having a LIFE?
  
  Dont ask me wat constitute having a life? Coz i dun really know.. juz that we need to balance thing out in life.. and do different thing and have different priority at different stages of our life.
• Dead_Man_Inc

  30 Aug 07, 17:34

  he's trying to influence u his way of life