how to add some spice to a long term r/s

• tykui

  10 Sep 07, 22:15

  for those in a long term r/s, how do u keep the flames of love burning? P.S. pls don't suggest anything unpure (e.g. sex)
  
  do u feel that at some point, u will become bored of putting in effort to surprise your gf (for guys)?
• freakass

  10 Sep 07, 22:17

  You can actually try to bring back those moments of initial courtship. Although it may seem stupid doing things tht you have done before, your gf may find it sweet
• sEphIrOth

  10 Sep 07, 22:18

  kill her
• pokkagreentea

  10 Sep 07, 22:19

  
  
  study the art of flirting.
• oOprinceOo

  10 Sep 07, 22:19

  buy something for ur laopo lo. a surpise n stuff. mayb a few mths one surprise n etc enuff liao. or go for a romantic dinner. how old u ?
• gigabyte14

  10 Sep 07, 22:19

  to speak the truth, it's sex.
• venny

  10 Sep 07, 22:20

  bring her on honeymoon....
• tykui

  10 Sep 07, 22:21

  Originally posted by oOprinceOo:

  buy something for ur laopo lo. a surpise n stuff. mayb a few mths one surprise n etc enuff liao. or go for a romantic dinner. how old u ?

  still studying..buy things need $$$, go out need $$$, and gals like things made with effort! (: but still need $$$
• sEphIrOth

  10 Sep 07, 22:21

  going nice places like parks lor
• de_middle

  11 Sep 07, 09:05

  how long is ur long
• ispyyy

  11 Sep 07, 09:09

  Physically add some spice to yrself
  Physically add some spice to her
  
  The hug her...
  And tell her " I hope to add some spice to our long term r/s"
  
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• mochou

  11 Sep 07, 09:24

  when you two are close enough, you two will end up either being with others(your fren/family and her fren/family) most of the time, and even you two are alone, mostly it's staying at home or keep going to the usual places.
  
  Try going for a tour, just the two of you. Walk at different streets, go different places doing different things with her only. That should ease the boredom that you two have been always doing the same things in Singapore.
• dbowie

  11 Sep 07, 09:25

  Paprika will do.
• StarPuppy

  11 Sep 07, 09:26

  learn a new hobby together..sure got spice de
  
  
• noopi

  11 Sep 07, 09:29

  Originally posted by tykui:

  still studying..buy things need $$$, go out need $$$, and gals like things made with effort! (: but still need $$$

  that's why studying dun follow ppl hv bf gf............
  
  students go east coast parkway pick coconut lah.....
• pokkagreentea

  11 Sep 07, 11:40

  
  
  then study together la. then make this bet lo. if u score A for ur test, then the gf must kiss you 100 times.
• FireIce

  11 Sep 07, 11:43

  why is s3x unpure?
• noopi

  11 Sep 07, 13:05

  Originally posted by FireIce:

  why is s3x unpure?

  they are just students
• ispyyy

  11 Sep 07, 13:10

  Different people have different views wat....
  if ts think it is unpure, it is unpure lor...
  
• kiss_my (_i_)

  11 Sep 07, 13:43

  wat u mean by sex is unpure?
  
  
• CannyOng

  11 Sep 07, 13:50

  Maybe they consider sex before marriage is unpure?
  
  Yes.. everything needs money! But with enough put in by u. U still abt to get things at little price. Look around and ask around.
  
  I was dine in at Goodwood park of dinner buffet at $15each(including GST and service charge) with my ger. Great food and great place!
  
• tykui

  11 Sep 07, 22:46

  Originally posted by CannyOng:

  Maybe they consider sex before marriage is unpure?
  
  Yes.. everything needs money! But with enough put in by u. U still abt to get things at little price. Look around and ask around.
  
  I was dine in at Goodwood park of dinner buffet at $15each(including GST and service charge) with my ger. Great food and great place!
  

  serious?that place looks damn ex! ok.i shall go there sometime (: cool. thanks!