Do you think your friends will always stick with u together
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I dun really think so
because when they grow older
each need to have their own families
so dun really have time for friends
busy with wife and kids
anyone encounter that?
they normally will tell you have to accompany wife
lor must brings kids out ....
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im still young
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ger and ger friendship more fragile. Got boyfrens liao all no time go out w u le.
Guys still can meet up during their.. say weekly soccer session -
U already know the answer,why ask?Originally posted by noahnoah:I dun really think so
because when they grow older
each need to have their own families
so dun really have time for friends
busy with wife and kids
anyone encounter that?
they normally will tell you have to accompany wife
lor must brings kids out ....
Not really la. But u must mentally prepare for such scenarios
They got their wife and children to take care. U cannot blame them for putting u as secondary. But with so many single and unmarried,such statement might be overrule soon... -
i used to have a girl-friend
funny thing she married liao still call ppl to go out
then i asked her how come
she told me her husband treat her like dirt
ended up split so saddddd -
And they piss off their girlfriends at the same time for not spending enough time with them.Originally posted by motoway:ger and ger friendship more fragile. Got boyfrens liao all no time go out w u le.
Guys still can meet up during their.. say weekly soccer session -
been ter..
all buddies are married..
but truly, family is far more impt than anything, so i understand.. -
They only spend less time together,doest mean they not good friend anymore.they been your best friend for many years,now priority goes to family,as a good friend u should be happy to see they happy with family.
when come times u need friend the most,ppl who cares are more important then ppl who's around u all the times but doesnt care. -
I always believe there wont be forever friends or enemies,so i'm not really sad when i don stick with my friends anymore,but i always make the effort of asking them out over for a cup of coffee.Can't bear to part years of friendship
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Sometime when I am not with my friends, they will call me and tell me they miss me, do I need map go to their house, do I need pickup, etc.
Really hard to put in words. -
u feeling lonelyOriginally posted by noahnoah:I dun really think so
because when they grow older
each need to have their own families
so dun really have time for friends
busy with wife and kids
anyone encounter that?
they normally will tell you have to accompany wife
lor must brings kids out .... -
friends come and go.
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Friends are the "lubrication" much needed in this F***ed up life
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u all will always be with me, right ?
u all wont forget me, right ? -
Friendship. Maintaining it all boils down to effort lah - coz arranging meet-ups and all even between friends takes a lot of planning, with everyone having different schedules & their own commitment [obviously family has come before friends, for me that is]. *shrugx* Idk about others, but I find myself hanging out with different people during different periods of time… itz like… hang out with 1 group - then subsequent weeks/mths with them… then after awhile, switch group… etc. What someone mentioned to me is pretty true to a certain extent - u tend to be closer to those who are “convenient” to you.
Am thankful though, that I do have a bunch of friends whomÂ… well if thereÂ’s anyone whoÂ’s gonna be friends with me foreverÂ… those are the ones. We donÂ’t really meet up on a super regular basis - at times itz months in-betweenÂ… but somehow, the friendship still exists. -
Friends are merely a part of human socialisation, it is an interactive of human in term of having the same nature. U do not need to be too emotionally involve. Those that can click with you tends to be having a same ideologic and personnalities as you do, but that does not mean that they will alway help and be with you.Originally posted by noahnoah:I dun really think so
because when they grow older
each need to have their own families
so dun really have time for friends
busy with wife and kids
anyone encounter that?
they normally will tell you have to accompany wife
lor must brings kids out ....
Some people due to their inward personalities, find no friend around them and some rather befriend a dog or cat than their own kind.
Family is different, it's a lifetime committment, a duty of human kind to produce as all creature do, you cannot compare friends and families. As a friend, you should alway bless or help your friend and his/her family all the best.
There are many other relationship by which most of us have mistaken it as friends which is actually not, such as classmates, colleagues and teammates. Friend in one way or the other, is your private matter. In losing or accepting a friend, you should be a judge of yourself, but when the time comes, you hv to let them go as they too have to let you go. -
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Simply put,its everyone for themselves.
People are ard me for a reason.
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Very good friends will, whom you can hang out once in a while but you can't expect them to have the same energy and time dedicate for friendship as they used to.Originally posted by noahnoah:I dun really think so
because when they grow older
each need to have their own families
so dun really have time for friends
busy with wife and kids
anyone encounter that?
they normally will tell you have to accompany wife
lor must brings kids out ....
When some of my friends start working and some even got married, it becomes very hard for us to meet up. Some drift away and some still keep in contact. Only the very good ones treasure the friendships. If they remember your friendship in the heart, it is fine that we don't see one another there much.
Family is a responsibility.
However, i could advocate not to forget to have a life outside the family. Friendship can be a emotional therapy too, when you need someone to talk to, other than your hubby. Esp when u have problems that u can't speak to.. even to your hubby, u can always count on friends.
Don't take friends for granted too.... i think this one is rather hard. -
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no la.. friends wont stick to u one la.. if not u masturbate also they wan stick meh
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wtf... this is MADNESS..Originally posted by noahnoah:i used to have a girl-friend
funny thing she married liao still call ppl to go out
then i asked her how come
she told me her husband treat her like dirt
ended up split so saddddd
Then why marry him !! -
not true la. my dad and his poly classmate are so close, we're practically family.
every week we'd also meet up. their kids are like my cousins, we get along very well. always have fun wan. go each other house relax, go eat dinner together, go malaysia together etc.
then the husbands all hang around talk about business, and new lcd tvs and surround sound speakers, the wives all talk about cooking and baking and kids
the kids talk about video games and warcraft 3 etc.
lol. me? i join the kids group -
no ideaOriginally posted by Zarks:wtf... this is MADNESS..
Then why marry him !!
she always changed bf one also
so not really suprise if marriage dun work out -
no...
not to say when they have families...
my case is,
i got this friend of mine, very very close... let him be W.
me and W were very good friend when we were like sec 1 or sec 2.
at sec 1 october lidat, he scolded me very very seriously for just playing with him, he even threw my bag out of the classroom..
later on, he keep saying i am his true friend cuz after that incident he could hardly have ppl to help him, cuz i am always the one beside him when he needed help.
but sadly.... he was always beside me when i needed help, but not to help me, instead he rub on to the wounds....
i am sad.. very sad... later on i try to patch things up... try to change his characteristics...
after few months, which was like february... he finally changed to a better person....
but now...
he can throw me aside and go with ppl who can give him fun...
but ppl who obviously he noe that hate me...
our friendship just ended because of him wanting more fun...
actually there was chance of patching up...
i tried to patch things up, make our relationship closer by asking him out for dates and so on...
he still give me that fuking attitude as if i need him, if not i will die...
he keep taking me forgranted...
and i noe i am tired, i give up....
so i am going to say,
no true friends in the world..
the best man is a human too,
human are all too self-centered...
IA -
Friends come and go..
A good friend ....