Originally posted by noahnoah:
I dun really think so
because when they grow older
each need to have their own families
so dun really have time for friends
busy with wife and kids
anyone encounter that?
they normally will tell you have to accompany wife
lor must brings kids out ....
Friends are merely a part of human socialisation, it is an interactive of human in term of having the same nature. U do not need to be too emotionally involve. Those that can click with you tends to be having a same ideologic and personnalities as you do, but that does not mean that they will alway help and be with you.
Some people due to their inward personalities, find no friend around them and some rather befriend a dog or cat than their own kind.
Family is different, it's a lifetime committment, a duty of human kind to produce as all creature do, you cannot compare friends and families. As a friend, you should alway bless or help your friend and his/her family all the best.
There are many other relationship by which most of us have mistaken it as friends which is actually not, such as classmates, colleagues and teammates. Friend in one way or the other, is your private matter. In losing or accepting a friend, you should be a judge of yourself, but when the time comes, you hv to let them go as they too have to let you go.