What to say

• Darkness_hacker99

  21 Sep 07, 20:55

  What to say to her.
  
  She's one of my friend. Normal friend. Didn't chat with each other for 3 years plus already. Soon will be her birthday.
  
  What should I say to her? Happy Birthday? Then?
  
  Maybe someone can suggest some small topics to update each other's life?
• Nobunaga Oda

  21 Sep 07, 20:57

  Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:
  What to say to her.
  
  She's one of my friend. [b]Normal friend. Didn't chat with each other for 3 years plus already. Soon will be her birthday.
  
  What should I say to her? Happy Birthday? Then?
  
  Maybe someone can suggest some small topics to update each other's life?[/b]

  just say happy bdae to u lor.
  then just say erm.
  hows school?
  wad have u been up to lately?
• MyPillowTalks

  21 Sep 07, 20:59

  long time no chat le, here to wish u a happy bdae...
  
  can liao
• mancha

  21 Sep 07, 21:12

  Say Hi first.
  If she say something, let her say it, then go from there.
  If she hesitate, then say "How are you?
  
  Keep it simple.
• Darkness_hacker99

  21 Sep 07, 21:15

  
  
  Thanks for the suggestion. Yar, maybe should keep it short..
• gigabyte14

  21 Sep 07, 21:16

  got interest then say la
• Darkness_hacker99

  21 Sep 07, 21:17

  Originally posted by gigabyte14:

  got interest then say la

  Like I said, it's normal friend already!
• pokkagreentea

  21 Sep 07, 21:19

  
  aiya, normal friend can say anything one mah.
  
  just wish her a happy birthday and ask how's life and everything.
• MohamedF

  21 Sep 07, 21:22

  Come up a list of you're interests and in conversation, do a precess of elimination to see which topic will click...
  
  Start with football....
• pokkagreentea

  21 Sep 07, 21:22

  Originally posted by MohamedF:

  Come up a list of you're interests and in conversation, do a precess of elimination to see which topic will click...
  
  Start with football....

  football later she nth to say liao (unless she's the soccer type).
• Darkness_hacker99

  21 Sep 07, 21:23

  Originally posted by pokkagreentea:

  aiya, normal friend can say anything one mah.
  
  just wish her a happy birthday and ask how's life and everything.

  The thing is, she's a very very busy person. I guess it'll be difficult to get 5min from her.
  
  What makes me afraid is the cold silent when I ran out of topics.
• MohamedF

  21 Sep 07, 21:23

  Originally posted by pokkagreentea:

  football later she nth to say liao (unless she's the soccer type).

  joke...
• Darkness_hacker99

  21 Sep 07, 21:24

  Originally posted by MohamedF:

  Come up a list of you're interests and in conversation, do a precess of elimination to see which topic will click...
  
  Start with football....

  Football? No. She doesn't play that.
  
  

  Originally posted by pokkagreentea:

  football later she nth to say liao (unless she's the soccer type).

  Yar.
• yiha093

  21 Sep 07, 22:23

  y muz talk?!
  i feel its better to juz enjoy the silence man....
• Darkness_hacker99

  21 Sep 07, 22:25

  Originally posted by yiha093:

  y muz talk?!
  i feel its better to juz enjoy the silence man....

  That silent is the awkwardness leh.
• Darkness_hacker99

  25 Sep 07, 22:27

  bumps.. urgent..
  
  please. I need more suggestion.
• browniebaobao

  25 Sep 07, 22:29

  juz received a festive sms from my 'buddy' today.
  
  we never talk for slightly more than 6 mths le..
  
  i never reply her..
  
  actually i also think of her.. coz we used to play candles at the playground when we were still kids..
  
  somehow.. i feel that im happier without her in my life for these 6 mths..
  
  sometimes we juz have to let go.