Originally posted by applesweetgirl:
but you all are really attention seekers what.
aiya. can tell who are attention seekers and who are real goths la.
there are more poseur attention seekers than real goths in my opinion.
and i find that those attention seekers are the ones who always go forums and complain about ppl staring at them or laughing at them one.
i've never tried full goth before. but i was more into gothic lolita last time when it wasn't so popular yet( 2 years ago ). no one laughed at me ar. true la, got stares. of course will stare one what. let them stare la. the costume so expensive and beautiful. people like to stare at beautiful and unique things what. you can't expect yourself to dress up like that, and having no one look at you in small Singapore right. and you know that you enjoy it too somehow, right?? ( don't lie. )
it's a way of expressing oneself. so it's really ok when ppl look, i think. and i received many smiles and kind words and some admiration. never been jeered or laughed at before. if ppl jeer or laugh at you, i think it's either you are really really good at it, so good that normal ppl cannot accept, and that's why they laugh because they are not used to seeing such things. or that you really cannot make it.
and there is no dare or no dare kind of situation ba. if you really love a certain style (not only pointing to goth here), you just wear it. and you feel comfortable with it because it's YOU. you don't feel things like, "oh..i'm so brave to wear this." so nonsense kthxbye.
ya~~ I wear goth often, so i dun feel uncomfortable walking anywhere..
Besides, im not those category u mentioned abv, abt attention seeker. that complain abt people staring or laughing at them.. I also did received nice comments from others when they walked past me.. They ask me where can they buy these gothic's stuff too. they say i look good and ask how much did i pay for that.
(not attention seeker) stating what happened.. maybe, someday wear ur Goth- lolita again, then me n my goth friends , we all can meet up tgt.. hopefully....
