significance of sleeping over at bf's house.
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no leh.. i at any age still think of the ultimate right thing onlyOriginally posted by 4794:Actually it also depends on the age
If they are like 15 or 16 than got something wrong but if they are in their twenties than is ok,afterall they are sensible enough to know what is wrong or right
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18 and above = nothing, just for convenience
under 18 = wait 9 months
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no money to book hotel, go bf house lor. Also can get to know future in-laws better ya.
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Isn't this an integral part of the process of finding out if the other partner is "the One" for you?
It'll be thoroughly embarrassing if you find out only after your wedding day that you've married a butch or a transformer
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At first is two people sleeping.
Moments later it'll become one person.
Nine months later it'll become three people. -
What's a butch or a transformer?Originally posted by :Isn't this an integral part of the process of finding out if the other partner is "the One" for you?
It'll be thoroughly embarrassing if you find out only after your wedding day that you've married a butch or a transformer -
There are a few valid reasons:
1) Sg is way too small, where can a couple go after few yrs of r/s??
2) Staying at bf's hse, u can get to see his behaviour at hm (know him better)
3) Needs to hav create better r/s wif future in-laws(like do hsework, etc)
4) Convenience - best if bf stay near town (can go hm in cab = cheaper!)
5) Of coz S3X is unavoidable but however u will be surprised if nothg happens.
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whats the ultimate right thing?Originally posted by smartboy4:no leh.. i at any age still think of the ultimate right thing only -
A man that cannot erect is call a butch.Originally posted by annoy-you-must:What's a butch or a transformer?
A man that change sex to become a gal, like gay is a transformer.
Must test first ya -
Once u get to a certain age... sex is pretty much a package u get when u r in a r/s. Dun think too much on it. U'll b surprise to find out that u can actually know alot more indepth abt ur bf just by staying with him over a couple of weekend at his place.
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Doesn't necessary mean that the girl is easy-going
I have slept over at my dear's place for a few times now, cos of convenience and of cos can spend more time together. Usually I stay over if I have to go somewhere in Singapore until very late, or I have to go somewhere very early the next day...but so far nothing out of control has happened yet...Both of us trust each other not to go beyond each other's limit... -
Sleep over because more convenient e.g. closer to other friend's place, shopping places.
Or sometimes too late at night already and too tired. -
Uh...noOriginally posted by angel7030:A man that cannot erect is call a butch.
A man that change sex to become a gal, like gay is a transformer.
Must test first ya
A manly-looking girl is a butch.
And sleeping over at ur bfs house doesnt mean a thing, if they do have sex however then well good for them. -
But a by the look u should be able say she is a batch liao, why need to have sex then know.Originally posted by jondizzle foshizzle:Uh...no
A manly-looking girl is a butch.
And sleeping over at ur bfs house doesnt mean a thing, if they do have sex however then well good for them.
My opinon is better to have sex before marriage so that you know who you married to in term of sex performance and other physical attributes.
If you wait until first nite of marry day to discover she is infact a gay or he cannot do it, too late liao. -
what do your parents say?Originally posted by rainee:Doesn't necessary mean that the girl is easy-going
I have slept over at my dear's place for a few times now, cos of convenience and of cos can spend more time together. Usually I stay over if I have to go somewhere in Singapore until very late, or I have to go somewhere very early the next day...but so far nothing out of control has happened yet...Both of us trust each other not to go beyond each other's limit...
cas i am surprised that some parents are perfectly fine with that.. -
To find out:
1. If yr partner has any bad habits out of his daily lifestyle you may not tolerate in future when married. Eg: dont bath/dont brush teeth/dont tidy his room & bed/wear 1 underwear for 3 days etc.
2. How he treats his family members. Is he the same person you know when he is at home? Or behaves differently, eg: talk back at parents.
3. If he is a good lover who can please his wife at the right spots at the right time. Dont have to worry abt not enough time at his house. Also, does he snores, farts or have regular norturnal emissions?
4. To see if he really is as morally upright as he perceives himself to be. Can see who contacts him on weekends?
5. To watch TV togr and cuddle up. More for the homely couples.
6. To play Xbox/PS 2 all night. -
Hmm, at first they do not allow as well, but after they have met my dear and also my dear's parents, now they never said anything much le...Originally posted by S2K4:what do your parents say?
cas i am surprised that some parents are perfectly fine with that..
Of course cannot do it too often like everyday also sleep there...once in a while is okie esp if got good reason... -
lol i didnt say that u needed to have sex to know if shes a butch or notOriginally posted by angel7030:But a by the look u should be able say she is a batch liao, why need to have sex then know.
My opinon is better to have sex before marriage so that you know who you married to in term of sex performance and other physical attributes.
If you wait until first nite of marry day to discover she is infact a gay or he cannot do it, too late liao. -
ok, ok, me sori lah, later kenna scold by you again for stupid posting.Originally posted by jondizzle foshizzle:lol i didnt say that u needed to have sex to know if shes a butch or not
smile ya -
i found out alot of things when i slp over
alot of shyt
but she also found out alot of things when she came over -
adulthood maturity end of puberty.
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can intro ur student?
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ya la. if a couple wan to have sex, dey can do it anywhere liao wad.
ok leh, but some grls whose mums are v conservative, dey wont allow one.
but as wad i said, if dey wan to have sex, dey can do it anywhere.