mother and son relationship
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have u noticed that mothers prefer sons to their daughters and always pamper them.
it becos sons are males considered an asset ? -
no. i dun think so.
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Originally posted by FireIce:no. i dun think so.
end of discussion.
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anyway, son like u is a liability
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in before the lock
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as long as its their kids, they pampere. dun say as if your mum dun pamper you last time.
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In a normal family relationship.Originally posted by JayJay3335:have u noticed that mothers prefer sons to their daughters and always pamper them.
it becos sons are males considered an asset ?
Mothers tend to pamper their son, and fathers dote on their daughters.
Sons are assets .. yes in the old days when sons are the retirement insurance.
Not anymore in modern context, because parents rely on their own retirement nest eggs. -
ppl say fathers dote on daughters .. because most believe tat duaghters r the father's lover in the last life
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Not really. Is the son like to talk to the mother because more things to say even though his mother may nag a lot.Originally posted by JayJay3335:have u noticed that mothers prefer sons to their daughters and always pamper them.
it becos sons are males considered an asset ? -
If I got children I will sure treat all equally
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I don't think so.Originally posted by JayJay3335:have u noticed that mothers prefer sons to their daughters and always pamper them.
it becos sons are males considered an asset ? -
well in the past when farming was the main form of survival..then the son can help with the work..thats why they are all called with crappy names while the daughters are called with beautiful cos they believe that the gods will take (donno 1 or what) a child and thus the parents would hope that the daughters get chosen for their beautiful name and leave the hardworking son behind
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x 2Originally posted by FireIce:anyway, son like u is a liability -
um, I think it works this way...
the mother once was a little girl, yeah?
so she'll tend to compare her daughter with herself [sub-consciously], and will perhaps expect the daughter to live up to certain expectations or fulfill certain dreams that she had when she was a little girl.
also, the mother, having once been a young girl, also believes that she has experienced more than her daughter, and thus tries to implement more rules to prevent her daughter from making the same mistakes that she has made.
[you can also replace the words 'mother' with father and 'daughter' with son, but if you change one you must change the other xD]
but then, the mother was never a little guy.
she does not expect guys to behave in a certain way or develop at a certain stage [because she herself was never a guy].
when the little boy makes a mistake, she'll simply think, "oh, guys are like that." as opposed to "when I was little, I didnt do that."
so there's less stress in the relationship xD.
and come on, all females dote on little boys. -
It's just like how mothers tend to pamper boys more while fathers tend to pamper girls more yeah? No one loses out afterall...
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dunno leh....
only know that my mum used to "soot" me & my younger brother very hard..leaving alot of "kway tiao" marks....never had a sister...so, dunno wat's the difference of treatments.. -
No wonder my dotter & hubby always hold hands outsideOriginally posted by hao_hao:ppl say fathers dote on daughters .. because most believe tat duaghters r the father's lover in the last life
I always want a son but can't
But my only dotter I also pamper like princess
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not for me, maybe cos 3 brothers excluding me and no sister for my family
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Originally posted by FireIce:no. i dun think so.
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the reaon why there are modern day terms like:
Daddy's Girl
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Mummy's Boy -
No lah. TS thinking too much........
In what year and age do we live now?
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last time, maybe ba
now, boys or girls are all the same