Originally posted by Zarks:
Very normal ma dear, you wan normal life, of course u dont have to struggle so much.
Some ppl just want to get what they want and they know its a tough road out there so some willing to struggle so much but of course not too much until u ignore your own happiness. They still enjoy free and easy life but will be less compared to normal ppl la.
Successful is not meant to grab it easily. There are always something u need to sacrifice for greater goal
So be it, i rather not suffer myself in striving for success, pick up a few good hobbies like travelling, read books, play games and past my life to golden age gracefully.
To be success, u need to be abit cruel ya, the success ladder can only accomodate few, therefore you may have to lose your consciousness and ethic to throw those above you down and kick those below you lower before you go to the top. And I can assure you that once you are successful, your personality and characteristics changed, you are no more yourself.