Problem With Colleague...............
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This guy....He is not a good person. Beep me if you want an in depth analysis of his character.Originally posted by ButterCake:I have been with this company for 2 months, in a male environment.
But i am okay with working with guys as my outside frns are mostly male.
All ok lah, used to the crude words and dirty jokes they say, guys mah
All quite ok lah, sometimes make fun of me as i am new but i take it easy
but got one guy he from my 1st day always scold me liao, not in fierce way but ..dunno how to describe, like always want to be very cool in front of me so always try 2 find my mistakes and if there are, will say i stoopid brainless in front of others.But is always in brotherly way scold.at first i juz laugh laugh loh.new person mah so muz try 2 maintain better human relations.
But today, during lunch , i dunno why i burst out.he was saying i brainless blah blah and i walked away angrily and went back office on my own.
No one mentioned this after lunch but i was so bad mood i took leave.
The job itself is ok, but dunno how 2 face them tomorrow.
That guy i know is not a bad person, juz that so many people but he only treat me that way!
should i resign... -
Originally posted by crosshairs:This guy....He is not a good person. Beep me if you want an in depth analysis of his character.
BEEP U AH? ooOOOOoooooOOOooOOooo -
maybe he's in a way jealous of you lor. maybe u more handsome he jealous want put u down. anw what kind of job got all male one. o.o
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Agree...Originally posted by BeautifulBetty:Maybe he actually interested in you?
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i think the TS is a girl right?
wowowow.
i must say, your situation very much like my situation in my first full time job. i quitted because of that guy because it's really sucky to be listening to his bo liao insults every single day!!!!
he like to bo dai bo ji come and say me. not his business he also want to care. then whatever i do, he like to come over and look and then give some bo liao comments. very freaking irritating lor! saiiiii!
i 'ren' for 9 months leh! but i really couldn't take it anymore la. i also got cry before because he was really very unreasonable. when we are alone, and i cry, he will say, "eh..sorry la..i say you a bit only ma...why you cry..sorry la.."
but when the other guys are around, he will become like, "cry, cry lor!!!" (like ur situation right. hahaa!)
i wonder if we are from the same company. hahaha!
anyways, after i quitted, i heard from my colleagues that he was always mentioning about me. i think he miss having someone to scold ba. hahaha! WHATEVER. i'm not born to let him scold de lor. -
Not an isolated case.Originally posted by ButterCake:I have been with this company for 2 months, in a male environment.
But i am okay with working with guys as my outside frns are mostly male.
All ok lah, used to the crude words and dirty jokes they say, guys mah
All quite ok lah, sometimes make fun of me as i am new but i take it easy
but got one guy he from my 1st day always scold me liao, not in fierce way but ..dunno how to describe, like always want to be very cool in front of me so always try 2 find my mistakes and if there are, will say i stoopid brainless in front of others.But is always in brotherly way scold.at first i juz laugh laugh loh.new person mah so muz try 2 maintain better human relations.
But today, during lunch , i dunno why i burst out.he was saying i brainless blah blah and i walked away angrily and went back office on my own.
No one mentioned this after lunch but i was so bad mood i took leave.
The job itself is ok, but dunno how 2 face them tomorrow.
That guy i know is not a bad person, juz that so many people but he only treat me that way!
should i resign...
What you should do is to smile as he scolds and point middle finger where he can't see.
Don't bother about such hopeless cases. No use getting angry over.
I should know better.
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sue him..why he insult your intellect.
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Seriously this might be true as this may be a guy who want to get your attention but end up offending you.Originally posted by BeautifulBetty:Maybe he actually interested in you?
As you have said earlier, you laugh it off whenever he 'scolds' you. So he may foolishly thought that this is making your laugh and thus entertaining you. -
give him a slap in front of every1 show him u r not to be trifled with
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he gay ar..he jealous u get all the guys attention isit.
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so how was work for u today?Originally posted by ButterCake:i think after the incident 2day, the comments from him will stop..
Problem now is i feel pai seh going 2 work tmr as every one give me the look as if i am petty type.............................how to face them..
don need to paiseh lah.
he shld be the one to paiseh for being so ungentlemanly.
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well, he tried to mend the bridge by asking me to go for lunch ....Originally posted by zodi:so how was work for u today?
don need to paiseh lah.
he shld be the one to paiseh for being so ungentlemanly.
crude boar. -
Lol that is one way to get a date or just to buy a ger lunch without having to be seem as a buaya...Originally posted by ButterCake:well, he tried to mend the bridge by asking me to go for lunch .... -
so did u?Originally posted by ButterCake:well, he tried to mend the bridge by asking me to go for lunch .... -
the other day i scold a ger at work... next two days she take mc.. wtf kids nowadays ...
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people are different nowadays mah. maybe the ger is really sick leh. give the ger the benefit of doubt la.Originally posted by crazy monkey:the other day i scold a ger at work... next two days she take mc.. wtf kids nowadays ... -
no lah she throwing tantrumsOriginally posted by rlsh07:people are different nowadays mah. maybe the ger is really sick leh. give the ger the benefit of doubt la. -
Well i did not ..Originally posted by zodi:so did u?
but the next day i asked him out (as a group) for lunch as i believe things muz be forgave and anyway he sort of made the 1st move liao. No choice as i believe i will be staying there for some time -
i can gues the environment TS working in some company very small so any new ppl jopin everyone feels trethen will try any means to make the new ppl resign look aorund your company did u notice many need ppl join they come an dthey go?Originally posted by ButterCake:Well i did not ..
but the next day i asked him out (as a group) for lunch as i believe things muz be forgave and anyway he sort of made the 1st move liao. No choice as i believe i will be staying there for some time -
Originally posted by kcockicht:
i can gues the environment TS working in some company very small so any new ppl jopin everyone feels trethen will try any means to make the new ppl resign look aorund your company did u notice many need ppl join they come an dthey go?
quite a possible scenario
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Originally posted by newcomer:
it seems the whole office is kinda “against” you. it may not be the truth but perhaps the problem lies in you? no offence meant.
since when in my post did i ever mention i dun get along with anybody else in my company???
maybe you should learn 2 read carefully before suggesting something ?
i click with everyone here, from the foreign workers to the recept to the managers(except that guy). We get along fab.