Is the "nice guys finish last" theory applicable to pampered

• Marco_Simone

  19 Jan 08, 21:57

  Topic as above.
  
  We all know that guys shouldnt be too nice to gals and should play it a little cool when trying to woo them.Dont try to buy her heart through expensive gifts and meals too often.
  
  But I am wondering,does this apply for those gals who like guys to pamper them?
• FireIce

  19 Jan 08, 23:20

  know when to be nice, know when to be notti
• Xcert

  20 Jan 08, 11:02

  Originally posted by Marco_Simone:

  Topic as above.
  
  We all know that guys shouldnt be too nice to gals and should play it a little cool when trying to woo them.Dont try to buy her heart through expensive gifts and meals too often.
  
  But I am wondering,does this apply for those gals who like guys to pamper them?

  yes.
  
  There is a limit to pampering.
  
  U can throw away the limit...but U have to bear the consequences later yourself.
• ShrodingersCat

  20 Jan 08, 11:07

  Originally posted by Marco_Simone:

  Topic as above.
  
  We all know that guys shouldnt be too nice to gals and should play it a little cool when trying to woo them.Dont try to buy her heart through expensive gifts and meals too often.
  
  But I am wondering,does this apply for those gals who like guys to pamper them?

  nice guys finish last only if every thing they do is calculated to get a positive response.
  
  the REALLY nice and wise guys know that you can't force love.