Originally posted by XiaoAi_1985:I have been working for a company for about a month now.
I have been close with co-worker X. She entered the company the same day with me.
Everything was fine and i really like her.
But something happened which made me question if I should be caution of her in terms of office politics
We were sorting out the documents with a Senior Z.
When one of the documents was misplaced,
Senior Z assumed it was me who misplaced it since I was standing the nearest to the documents shelf at that point.
I know it wasn't me because that day the documents were only about 2-3,
so I remembered which r those I filed.
I told Senior Z that it wasnt me and she 'joking' saying "Liar".
When I asked my co-worker X did she handle the misplaced document,
Senior Z interrupted 'joking' saying 'you always bully her'.
To my surprise, my co-worker X replied ' Yeah Lor, Dao Yan ( Disliked)'
1st of all, I know I did not bully my co-worker AT ALL.
I even helped her when she couldn't finished her workload.
I also know that just because I alway helped her, doesnt mean I can treat her like she own me anything and I didn;t treat her that way. Which is why it is kinda SHOCK when she replied that.
Here are some of the conclusions I have come up with (on my own and with some of my friends)
1. Since she is a newbie, she has to agree with whatever the Senior says. (Boot licking)
2. The truth - She really doesn't like me. ( I have to start be careful of her )
3. I am being sensetive ( well, I am a woman )
Should I tell her how I feel about this incident? (my friends said don't cos we don know each other well n she may turns her back on me one day and use this incident against me. Saying I m a petty person who can't take a joke)
So, tell me what are your conclusion of this matter n if possible, some solutions...
Thx
she more friendly and more sociable then you?so she have more backup higher people like her then u she backstab you lo it is a dog eat dog world.
eh no matter how much you think your co-worker or colleague likes you,you cannot totally trust on them.you need to take precautions one you know.cuz outside world all working adults (mostly i think),for their own benefit,they would protect their ricebowl one lo.be a smart guy,do what you're supposed to do,don't get involved in any of those office conflicts.outside working world is really complicated.might get backstabbed by those evil people....
anyway,what angel7030 said is very true.....learn.
Grow up.. lol
er... i dunoe but she sounds like she is joking to me.