how true is tis:" It is better to be love then to love"
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wat you ppl tink?
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this is just comforting urself lah.......
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y so many ple post repeated questions wan?
of course it will be best to love and be loved lah! -
sometimes kena loved by someone you don't love can be quite irritating.
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hmm.. it's kind of blessing but then u urself would not be complete though
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Used to think that way too. Now I realize it has to be mutual.
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Kena loved by someone u dun like is scary...
But loving someone who dun like u is tormenting...
So if the one u fancy dun like u then think of the first sentence to make yourself feel better -
To be loved is so much less stressful to love.
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it's true for only for girls .... and definitely not true for guys ..... -
hmm when u feel love, u will also tend to love more... no ?
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takes two hands to clap.
one love, another dont, very tiring and suffering..
both dun love, easy and carefree.
both very in love, suffocating yet loving.. -
Originally posted by Isis:
hmm when u feel love, u will also tend to love more... no ?
very debatable leh.. -
being love and loving both are good to me...................both equal
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Whether being love or love, it must be a two way concept that reciprocate each other, otherwise it is not love...the ability to
give and take
forgive and forget
being love and love the other
cherish and treasure
receive love and give love
trust each other
will ultimately bring glory to your love life here.
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Originally posted by angel7030:
Whether being love or love, it must be a two way concept that reciprocate each other, otherwise it is not love...the ability to
give and take
forgive and forget
being love and love the other
cherish and treasure
receive love and give love
trust each other
Easy to say then done, angel. Love can only be proved through time, not by momentary reciprocation.
That is, can a couple survives through time of hardship, being loving as ever when old, take care of the other part when mishaps strike....
If u can ever do it, this is love.
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i believe that most girls nowadays love a guy for theirmoney...............true?
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Originally posted by Ed11790:
i believe that most girls nowadays love a guy for theirmoney…............true?
guys keep on thinking this way, which makes them feel so much pressure, and make their life miserable. for what? i dunno. becos really, i dont think MOST girls love a guy for their money. some yes. not most.
if it was 'it's better to love than to be loved', then i'd agree with wat FI said. but this one....i really have no comments....as in, i dont agree, but cannot explain why. hahaand fatum, it doesnt apply to all girls. not even sure if it can apply to most girls.
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there're many different answers to this base on different perspective la.can't be determined one lo
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Originally posted by Ed11790:
i believe that most girls nowadays love a guy for theirmoney…............true?
This will start another why sggirls are materialistic war... it is a pointless argument. Its pointlessness lies in the fundamental fact that this is the 21st century... it is not like the 20th century where gals will find suitable mates, now is guys looking for suitable gals as some are more capable than guys.But most importantly, gals want guys who can give them a better life, not so much being rich or what. If u marry a gal and make her suffer for the next 30 yrs of ur life, dont u think u are being very selfish. It is ok if u are useless but don't bring other gals with u.
If u want a gf, make sure u are serious about providing her a good living. Dun just think, act. If you are ugly and no girls like u, then most probably u are not fated to have one. I dun have any till now, every confession ripes my heart knowing that i am too ugly for them.
However, this is life. We still have to move on no matter how sad u are. There are always better things to do than finding gf. Let her comes to u, attracts her with ur capability and ur heart. If it never comes, dun force as a forced r/s won't last and can be even more hurting.