Many times, when we're in a friendship with a certain someone, we seem to be more forgiving, more tolerant with the person. then as time goes by, when it grew to a relationship, you tend to get angry over things you have always been fine with.
the expectations differs from a friend and a girlfriend, or a boyfriend. the source of conflicts. how many of you have faced this issue?
eg. you know this girl/guy has a lot of friends and activities when you're still friends with him/her, and when you got together with him/her, you sort of try to control those activities. you know you should respect him/her and he/she should still be himself/herself yet the uncontrollable possessiveness takes over and conflicts happens.
What do you do when you face with this kind of situation? will you succumb to change for expectation that is for the better? or will you insist that you are who you are? will you throw those friends away for the "right" one if the "right" one don't like you going out with them?
familiarity breeds contempt...!!!!!
My friends say things get worse after marriage.
Originally posted by xavier1979:My friends say things get worse after marriage.
omg.. that's one reason why we fear marriage and commitments..
you got it all right.
but think far,if after marriage still continue having lots of friends and activities,then very jialat.surely alot problems one.
friends can have,but one or two close ones will actually be sufficient.