lets say If a man is a virgin
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will be kenna looked down? my fren steady wif this gal for like 2+ years.... they both 20+...then one day the topic of virgnity came up when they reading mag... then the guy say "i think virginity shld be for the person u really love. I'm a virgin." (my fren got gf before her, but nv has sex before cos scared responsiblity). Then the gf diam diam... then sensing the akwardness, he said "i think watever a person's history, wats more impt is who he/she is wif now, thats more impt..." Then the gf just nod... then now, the gf like v cold to him for 1 wk le. Guy virginity will be looked down one izzit? I am guessing the gal is not virgin cos she got like 2 yrs r/s before my fren... but c'mon la, my fren dun mind, why the girl mind the guy's history? izzit cos the gal feels inferior to the guy now? scared wun live up to his expectations? pls advise
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Its not about virginity....its the skill, the skilllllllll
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what toking u?
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have to give ang pao
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so u looking down on virgin guy feeling he is stupid for sticking to his principles
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never doubt urself...
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Originally posted by bittertears:
so u looking down on virgin guy feeling he is stupid for sticking to his principles
Theres nothing wrong in sticking to principles...just go and find another woman who shares the same principles...
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yes
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it is a shame for a guy to be a virgin?
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everyone is a virgin (once)
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“i think virginity shld be for the person u really love
maybe that was the magical line. . . -
one qns. what if the whole story is the opp one. the girl's virgin. the guy's nt. will the guy look down on the girl. (erm, i guess not?? the guy will be happy to be the FIRST to make love with the girl ho)
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fact: guy think virginity is for person you really love
fact: guy never screw the gfconclusion: guy don't really love gf
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Originally posted by skythewood:
fact: guy think virginity is for person you really love
fact: guy never screw the gfconclusion: guy don't really love gf
x2. . .
guy bad choice of words. . . -
i think the girl must have felt that my friend is against non-virgins since he say till lytat... poor choice of words lah. Now maybe the girl thinks the guy hinting to the girl that she is "indecent" or the girl "dun like him" etc since she didn't give her virginity to him.... but at this age, this type of guys hard to find
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Originally posted by bittertears:
it is a shame for a guy to be a virgin?
This question should be in whinehouse...
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Well I think no matter whether we guy or gal, we should try to protect our virginity until we get married. Coz you might not know whether he or she might be the right one for you. If you commit to much in terms of body intercourse, you might be at the losing end esp for gals. What if you get pregnant with the wrong guy? Or you get to marry a wrong gal which you get her pregnant. I think yomgsters nowadays seldom thinks of the consequences. Furthermore STDs are so common among young ppl today. To be frank, I admire young girl or guys who are still virgin before marriage. They are gems and respect their partners. This ppl should be proud and not shy to admit they are virgin. What is so happening and cool being a non virgin? They should do some soul searching. Of course, if your partner is a non virgin, pls respect and love them too. They may have made the wrong choice but they deserve a better second chance which is you. There's nothing call she non virgin, I virgin means I lugi. It is only lugi when you have not love someone with all your heart. Be it your family members or your partner.
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Originally posted by bittertears:
i think the girl must have felt that my friend is against virgins since he say till lytat…
poor choice of words lah. Now maybe the girl thinks the guy hinting to the girl that she is “indecent” or the girl “dun like him” etc since she didn’t give her virginity to him….
but at this age, this type of guys hard to findi tot ur fren virgin?
y he against virgin? -
It depends on the girl. Some girls are very conservative about sex, some prefer an "experienced" guy. If the girl thinks there's nothing wrong with pre-martial sex, thinks it makes a couple closer and wants pleasure, she might think a virgin guy is inexperienced but if she really loves the guy it shouldn't matter.
Maybe the girl was cold because it was just a bad day, not cos of virginity?
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sorry my friend is a virgin. Correction: the girl must have felt that my friend is against non-virgins
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my friend jia lat lar,not sensetive to the girl's feeling mah. The gal might be thinking "I am not a virgin what will he think of me, will he think that I am a loose woman?" my friend might have hurt her feelings unknowingly
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Originally posted by bittertears:
my friend jia lat lar,not sensetive to the girl’s feeling mah. The gal might be thinking “I am not a virgin what will he think of me, will he think that I am a loose woman?”
my friend might have hurt her feelings unknowingly
yeah. . prolly she thinks he look down on her. .
and oso maybe she tinks that he don realli love her, cos thats wad he's saying. . -
Seriously i think that.... for most of the girls do not mind whether her bf is virgin or not...... they just hope that their bf do not mind that they are not a virgin...... As for most of the guy hope their gf is a virgin lahz.. of coz..... but if she is not a virgin, then i would rather say that some of guy mind and some do not mind..... Overall nowadays is very hard to find a girl that is virgin.. as sinkapore culture is becoming open and open..... going to western style le.
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TS, is the guy you?? Virginity is subjective leh. Some females like the bfs to be virgins while others prefer guys with sexual experience. On the other end, I believe among guys, guys will tease other guys who are still virgin.
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Originally posted by Fantagf:
TS, is the guy you?? Virginity is subjective leh. Some females like the bfs to be virgins while others prefer guys with sexual experience. On the other end, I believe among guys, guys will tease other guys who are still virgin.
everything's kinda subjective. . .
i wont tease a guy if he's a virgin. . .
unless we're in bar, then those lurkers deserve it. . .