Lunch's on me.....
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How often do you give a treat and who are the people ya usually treat if ya do?
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everyone. sometimes its the ole ole grandma sitting down to share a table with me at a foodcourt and hawker centre.
most times is the girls that drops my place just to meet me for kopi.
occasionally is the boys that i know are cash strapped cos they are students, ns boys or just plain broke.
rarely, I will give treats to males that is old enough, working a long time and is irresponsible with a penchant to live off their parents, wifes or g/f's money. It actually depends on whether the fella is considered a brother, or just another scum. giving treats to scum is detrimetal to the society as a whole.
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4 mi i treat best friends or buddys or close girls-friends.....
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I treat.. n also get treated, somehow it balances out by itself. lol
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Originally posted by BadzMaro:
I treat.. n also get treated, somehow it balances out by itself. lol
as a female, i do tend to get away with the guys treating me. I dont ask them to, and so, I developed a habit of buying something else for the guys on another day to make up for them treating me to meals.Like a whole pandan chiffon cake; some A1 curry puffs and even a foot long subway sandwich cut into smaller pieces. Sometimes its just a $10 bag of fruits, like magosteen, chicku & gao lat (chinese chestnuts.)
or sometimes, they buy me a meal, I buy them 2 mugs of beer.
Or with the riders gathering, they buy my teh peng, I buy plates of guyu kaya roti so they can snack on them, as late as 1am.
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Originally posted by viciouskitty74:
as a female, i do tend to get away with the guys treating me. I dont ask them to, and so, I developed a habit of buying something else for the guys on another day to make up for them treating me to meals.Like a whole pandan chiffon cake; some A1 curry puffs and even a foot long subway sandwich cut into smaller pieces. Sometimes its just a $10 bag of fruits, like magosteen, chicku & gao lat (chinese chestnuts.)
or sometimes, they buy me a meal, I buy them 2 mugs of beer.
Or with the riders gathering, they buy my teh peng, I buy plates of guyu kaya roti so they can snack on them, as late as 1am.
ya ya . i dun think its much of an issue . sometimes its like who open wallet faster. With the guys, its like everyone open wallet so damn fast. n sometimes bigger notes wont trump smaller notes depending on what situation. lol. quite funny sometimes n start to have ridiculous argue over who paying n it gets funny. haha.
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if its me with the big note, I will insist that I need to break down that note.
if i succeed in paying, i always waive off the pay me cash thing with' you can buy me meal next time.'
I usually wins because I always carries around a lot of coins and always asking the hawker whether they want coins so they can lighten my load. friends usually canot fight with me because a: hawkers needs coins, b: its heavy and I am carrying around the coins. c: they can always top up whatever amount still outstanding if the coins not enough to pay the bill.
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hahaha..
yeah.. if those stalls one confirm they accept the small notes n coins.
Most of the time if pay for the girls most of the time they will say , treat dinner or what. N i'll just say 'done' keke.. its a date then. he he..
but this kind of treat lai treat qu .. its all good ah i think. Sometimes if got friend/s who is not as well off or dun have much money atm n sometimes majority decides to eat at some expensive place, treating him is all good. Cause its understandable n it sucks if he/she cant make it as a group.
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i used to treat people often when my income was much higher...
sometime i get some kinda satisfaction from treating people...
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U treat those that deserve to be treated. Not assholes. LoL! he he
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Originally posted by BadzMaro:
U treat those that deserve to be treated. Not assholes. LoL! he he
not completely true...i think assholes deserve one big dildo
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we ish poor stoodents.
when we go out, we get seperate bills.
all pay for ourselves.
nobirdie expecting a treat. and nobirdie expecting to get treated.
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Originally posted by Deino:
not completely true...i think assholes deserve one big dildo
hahaha..
treated to a durian up his ass u mean.
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Originally posted by udontknowme:
we ish poor stoodents.
when we go out, we get seperate bills.
all pay for ourselves.
nobirdie expecting a treat. and nobirdie expecting to get treated.
feel you dude...
my dad gives me like only 20 bucks a week...he makes noise if i ask him money to go watch movies or something...
shit luck...have to work to cover costs...irresponsible adults...
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Originally posted by viciouskitty74:
everyone. sometimes its the ole ole grandma sitting down to share a table with me at a foodcourt and hawker centre.
Yea..i frequently do that..those aunties selling tissue paper..i would ask them sit down..buy them drinks..some fruits..unless they said something about a certain food, then i would buy coz if not, i wun know if they like what im gonna buy for em.. very poor thing see them
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Originally posted by Master -_-:
Yea..i frequently do that..those aunties selling tissue paper..i would ask them sit down..buy them drinks..some fruits..unless they said something about a certain food, then i would buy coz if not, i wun know if they like what im gonna buy for em.. very poor thing see themwow
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Originally posted by udontknowme:
we ish poor stoodents.
when we go out, we get seperate bills.
all pay for ourselves.
nobirdie expecting a treat. and nobirdie expecting to get treated.
I treat u next time dun worry. lol! All u can eat until u pong.
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Originally posted by Master -_-:
Yea..i frequently do that..those aunties selling tissue paper..i would ask them sit down..buy them drinks..some fruits..unless they said something about a certain food, then i would buy coz if not, i wun know if they like what im gonna buy for em.. very poor thing see themwhoa.. u really altruistic in nature ar. even i not until... that level ..
good on you man.
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Originally posted by BadzMaro:
I treat u next time dun worry. lol! All u can eat until u pong.
when's next time
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Originally posted by udontknowme:
when's next time
next time when i see u or u see me. lol!
Question:
Arent u supposed to be sleeping ? mmmmm ??
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I do give treats....But at most to about 5 people...
It's just a simple meal...I dare not treat them to exotic stuff at restaurants...
I have no $$$ as yet...
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when there is occasion, or to flash my female ego to guys who always refuse to let me pay
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Originally posted by FireIce:
when there is occasion, or to flash my female ego to guys who always refuse to let me pay
That's interesting....
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I usually treat after pay day... the days that near pay day are the driest days.
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I am usually the one who pay the bills. When I'm with my female friends, it seems like I'm the leader/big sister, so I always pay and convince them to let me pay. Telling them next time they can treat me back... hahaha.....
Hmm as for guys... not much experience, but those who asked me out for meal usually paid it cos' they are trying to woo me... so, u know u need to throw some money in your investment...... I do pay bills for my brothers...lol......
