a little help at the clubs!!!
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Alright. I love clubbing. But I have a bit of a problem.
You see when I start dancing in the clubs. Sometimes there are girls who come up and dance really close. Okay. Sometimes 4 girls. So Ill be dancing with one of them, as in really close dancing. they know im dancing with them. Sometimes they push their friends toward me. they have their backs really close to my front.I try not to go too close, just enough room for my hand to put through. to avoid any discomfort.
My problem is. I have no idea what they want, whether they are interested or not, and what am i going to do with 4 girls? ask all of them to go for a drink? Wouldn't taking one girl out be like making the other 3 jealous? So............ I just dance.
And after 10minutes they move on. okay sometimes it can get hurtful, I have to be honest. lol.
There was once a girl came up to me, she was sweet had a great smile, great sense of fashion, mongolian, around 21 years of age. We had a great time. we even had a passionate kiss at the end. Before her friend took her away to the toilet, and she ignored me the whole night after that.
Now can anyone help me with this? how can I make the night more interesting for them and me? or one of them and me? I would like to have a girls point of view on this.
I can't share this with any of my girlfriends, because most of them are my so called "gay buddies".( ignore that if you don't understand lol)
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girls' gay buddy? most likely u r the sissy type metrosexual...
easily... just whisper to the girl at her ears "let's go hotel for ONS?" -
ts sure those r gals?
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pervert.
没水准。
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gay buddies as in they don't go to the clubs to wait for guys to pick em up ya know. most of my girlfriends have boyfriends already lol. so nothing we can do but remain faithful :P
rednano: you know that won't work ! if that happens every guy would be a father somehow by now.
Hello kitty: I came here for advice whoever you are. not to judge me. Hey these kinda things could be fun. maybe your missing out?
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go do community service is better then spending hard earn money on clubbing..
pay back to the society
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Originally posted by Benny1987:
Alright. I love clubbing. But I have a bit of a problem.
You see when I start dancing in the clubs. Sometimes there are girls who come up and dance really close. Okay. Sometimes 4 girls. So Ill be dancing with one of them, as in really close dancing. they know im dancing with them. Sometimes they push their friends toward me. they have their backs really close to my front.I try not to go too close, just enough room for my hand to put through. to avoid any discomfort.
My problem is. I have no idea what they want, whether they are interested or not, and what am i going to do with 4 girls? ask all of them to go for a drink? Wouldn't taking one girl out be like making the other 3 jealous? So............ I just dance.
And after 10minutes they move on. okay sometimes it can get hurtful, I have to be honest. lol.
There was once a girl came up to me, she was sweet had a great smile, great sense of fashion, mongolian, around 21 years of age. We had a great time. we even had a passionate kiss at the end. Before her friend took her away to the toilet, and she ignored me the whole night after that.
Now can anyone help me with this? how can I make the night more interesting for them and me? or one of them and me? I would like to have a girls point of view on this.
I can't share this with any of my girlfriends, because most of them are my so called "gay buddies".( ignore that if you don't understand lol)
just go up, simple 'can i buy u gals a drink?' is enough
oh ya, don't ever try those cheesy pickup lines, becos 1)we most prob can't hear it over the music or 2)it's so lame that it just turn us off
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Originally posted by Benny1987:they have their backs really close to my front.I try not to go too close,
happens to me in the crowded LRT everytime!!
edit: my bad, forgot to change it
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Just go with the flow, need lots of patience.
You need to entertain all her girl friends, especially the leader of the group. The leader is usually the most outspoken and confident, the girls will usually listen to her advice because the leader is more experienced in clubbing. So when the group likes you, you can get your girl.
If you focus too much on only the girl and ignores the rest, most likely will fail.
No 1 rule: Dont be desperate. If girls think that you are desperate, there goes your chance.
My 2cents worth.
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how old are you? or are u new to clubs? lyk tt also need to ask ar??
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firstly community service is boring ! Sadly i don't get any satisfaction or learning out of it. :/ But I do lend a hand to a colleague in need :)
candiz: yeah thats what my friend told me. Seriously its really loud in the clubs lol. It's like they don't want people to talk haha.
Evangel: thanks heh. i ain't desperate. I'm just looking to have a fun night ya know.
Lipgloss: I'm 21 and turning 22 this year. im fairly new coz most of my friends dun go there. and yes girls look and behave alien sometimes, maybe its because of all the judging on the first look.
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Originally posted by Benny1987:
firstly community service is boring ! Sadly i don't get any satisfaction or learning out of it. :/ But I do lend a hand to a colleague in need :)
candiz: yeah thats what my friend told me. Seriously its really loud in the clubs lol. It's like they don't want people to talk haha.
Evangel: thanks heh. i ain't desperate. I'm just looking to have a fun night ya know.
Lipgloss: I'm 21 and turning 22 this year. im fairly new coz most of my friends dun go there. and yes girls look and behave alien sometimes, maybe its because of all the judging on the first look.
ouh..so u're new.. if u want juz buy them a drink, or if u want u can alwaes ignore them and leave d dancefloor if u aint comfy..go back to ur table, sit n drink for abit n then return to d dancefloor..
dont worry, its ok to ignore..if everytime u go dancefloor n ur luck every single time got a grp of gerls come n dance wit u n u buy drinks for them, think u'll go broke in tt single nite.. cheers!
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ha one thing i learnt about clubbing. don't go in with ure pockets empty. I know some of my girlfriends who just go there waiting for guys to buy them drinks only la. Lol! Why can't they just turn it down?!
well i'd probably bring a bunch of other guys, and introduce all of em heheheehe. (save money also) XD