How do you stay positive??
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.....when you're out of whacks, feel like whole world is on your shoulder or when all odds are against you.. How do you stay positive in such difficult times??
I count my blessings
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try to remain calm. Try to solve one problem at a time
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go shopping
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hahahas, talk on the phone.meet up friends, let it all out.surely you'll be thinking positively?
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Originally posted by sbs8104h:
try to remain calm. Try to solve one problem at a time
how to remain calm when the world is upon u?? easy to say, but sooo hard to do.. always tell myself that, but when problems come, I always feel so crushed and cannot breathe, how to be calm
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dont add fuel to the fire. find a solution to end the problem faster and lastly dun offend ppl too much.. it doesnt make u feel good if u dwell against the negative side
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I take a gun and point it to my head or a knife at my throat.
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Originally posted by candiz:
how to remain calm when the world is upon u?? easy to say, but sooo hard to do.. always tell myself that, but when problems come, I always feel so crushed and cannot breathe, how to be calm
i know how does that feel. But still, take one step at a time to solve things
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just be glad for who you are and what you have. be glad you're not a starving malnutrition victim of a country with internal strife and war..
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I don't know why, but being negative is automatic. And to be positive, you need to put in some effort. Its like lying down and standing up. Lying down just let go, standing up you need to put in the effort. Doing nothing is easy, achieving something takes effort.
To be positive, you need to counter years of negative conditioning. Negtative habits cannot be eradicated, it can only be replaced by another habit.
So thinking positively for one day cannot over write years of negative thinking.
Only years of positive thinking, speaking, action, and believing would result in a positive frame of mind.
It won't gurantee you success and wealth, but you would be happy, whether you have less than$10,000 or have $10 million in you bank account.
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Originally posted by mancha:
I don't know why, but being negative is automatic. And to be positive, you need to put in some effort. Its like lying down and standing up. Lying down just let go, standing up you need to put in the effort. Doing nothing is easy, achieving something takes effort.
To be positive, you need to counter years of negative conditioning. Negtative habits cannot be eradicated, it can only be replaced by another habit.
So thinking positively for one day cannot over write years of negative thinking.
Only years of positive thinking, speaking, action, and believing would result in a positive frame of mind.
It won't gurantee you success and wealth, but you would be happy, whether you have less than$10,000 or have $10 million in you bank account.
well said. totally agree. positive results only come with positive effort.
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by sending everyone msgs to let them know they are being remembered.
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i keep dreaming of the girl i like...
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Tell yourself that this are only minor things ... If these things also cannot tahan .. how to do even bigger things ...
Use bu fu shu de jing shen
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i try to focus on God rather than the situation.
so far, so good.
it also helps for close christians to keep me in prayer, to encourage me and just be there.
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Originally posted by NeverSayGoodBye:
.....when you're out of whacks, feel like whole world is on your shoulder or when all odds are against you.. How do you stay positive in such difficult times??
I count my blessings
learn to live day by day n dun plan to far till u r in better position -
Originally posted by rlsh07:
by sending everyone msgs to let them know they are being remembered.
.....you sent them once a week or ...? -
Originally posted by Herzog_Zwei:
I take a gun and point it to my head or a knife at my throat.
.....yeah, toy gun and plastic knife
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I'll tell myself to live for others and not myself.
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There is still time for me to finish my workk.....i will just rest for one more minute...
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I either go shopping or try looking forward to something good. Other times I just go sleep, hoping the next day will be a better one.
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i headbang .
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Live in the moment/now. When you think or live in the past, regrets surfaces. If you think about the future, fear creeps in. So don't live in the past or future because you can't do anything in both situations. Only solution is living here and now; focus on what you can do now.
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Live in the moment/now. When you think or live in the past, regrets surfaces. If you think about the future, fear creeps in. So don't live in the past or future because you can't do anything in both situations. Only solution is living here and now; focus on what you can do now.