Do you keep friend's quota?
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I met this guy who said that he did not want to befriend with me because he has enough closed friends. I was stunned. So do you all keep closed friends' quota?
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he is giving excuses
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Originally posted by Lokey:
I met this guy who said that he did not want to befriend with me because he has enough closed friends. I was stunned. So do you all keep closed friends' quota?
He is giving you an excuse, as he does not want to be friends with you.
Close friends are not pokemons, I am pretty sure one can have more than six of them at anytime.
However, it is not the quantity of close friends that matter, it is the "quality" of them that matters.
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nice stunt
He said that right at your face??
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I ask him directly through email because after knowing him for a year, I find his behaviour funny.
That why I think it is very funny for people to say that "I have enough closed friends and I dont want to make anymore friends"
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He thinks he is a computer application in facebook?
Cannot accept more than x number of friends?
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bump! I need more people opinion to decide what to do?
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he is tellin u the truth.
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There is no "enough friend(s)".
If I hear that, I would feel the hurt too.
You should tell him, "Enough of this BS!"
On a serious note: move on without him. Befriend someone who is more worthy of you who knows what the meaning of friendship.
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Originally posted by Lokey:
I ask him directly through email because after knowing him for a year, I find his behaviour funny.
That why I think it is very funny for people to say that "I have enough closed friends and I dont want to make anymore friends"
If you feel that his behaviour is "funny" ( I believe you mean weird ), why would you want to be close friends with him to begin with?
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Maybe you too gay if you're guy or you're too fat and ugly if you're girl or he realised you're a transformer...
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He doesn't wanna befriend you. So just leave the matter as it. Why crack yr head figuring his motive?
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Originally posted by Forbiddensinner:
If you feel that his behaviour is "funny" ( I believe you mean weird ), why would you want to be close friends with him to begin with?
"Funny" because when I meet him in person he is friendly. But through SMS or email he appears to be unfriendly. So I am confused by his mixed signal if he is interested to befriend me or not.Usually, if you dont like the person, you would not bother to interact with him, right?
I just wanted to befriend with him, but he say he have "enough friends" so he dont want to befriend me?
Is there such a thing as "enough friends"?
Usually, I met a stranger, through some events I get to know him. When we have things in common we interact more and eventually developed mutual understanding and later become good friends. That is the normal way. But guy just stunned me by rejecting my friendship saying he has "enough friends"!!??
I have things with him now, so if he is not worthy as a friend I would ask for return of my property. Hence, the concern.
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y u die die muz oly mk frds wif him leh.
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If you're a chio bu me wonders what would he have said then... hmm...... =\
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Originally posted by Hello Kitty:
y u die die muz oly mk frds wif him leh.
Friendship comes in natually? -
Originally posted by Lokey:
"Funny" because when I meet him in person he is friendly. But through SMS or email he appears to be unfriendly. So I am confused by his mixed signal if he is interested to befriend me or not.Usually, if you dont like the person, you would not bother to interact with him, right?
I just wanted to befriend with him, but he say he have "enough friends" so he dont want to befriend me?
Is there such a thing as "enough friends"?
Usually, I met a stranger, through some events I get to know him. When we have things in common we interact more and eventually developed mutual understanding and later become good friends. That is the normal way. But guy just stunned me by rejecting my friendship saying he has "enough friends"!!??
I have things with him now, so if he is not worthy as a friend I would ask for return of my property. Hence, the concern.
I was thinking that you are a girl and you really want this guy to be your "friend".
But it turn out that you are worry about your items which you lent to him ( Fortunately, as the fore-mentioned case will be more difficult to handle ).
In this case, since he had never been rude to you or whatsoever, just ask politely for your items back. Be direct about it, and then see what kind of reaction he gives you. I have no idea what you lent to him, but the reason why he is friendly towards you might be because that he doesn't want you to chase after him for those things.
It is worth a try, and after you asked him, you could post here and tell us what kind of reaction he gave you.
In case you are interested, the reason why I suggest that you do so, is because this could easily tell you what does he think of you as : an acquaintance, a not-so-close friend, or just a living loanshop.
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Maybe he kena played out to often.
"I have ENOUGH of friends".
Get the meaning?
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Originally posted by Forbiddensinner:
I was thinking that you are a girl and you really want this guy to be your "friend".
But it turn out that you are worry about your items which you lent to him ( Fortunately, as the fore-mentioned case will be more difficult to handle ).
In this case, since he had never been rude to you or whatsoever, just ask politely for your items back. Be direct about it, and then see what kind of reaction he gives you. I have no idea what you lent to him, but the reason why he is friendly towards you might be because that he doesn't want you to chase after him for those things.
It is worth a try, and after you asked him, you could post here and tell us what kind of reaction he gave you.
In case you are interested, the reason why I suggest that you do so, is because this could easily tell you what does he think of you as : an acquaintance, a not-so-close friend, or just a living loanshop.
I serve NS.
I am more interested the concept of "Friends Quota".
May be there are people out there who actually count how many pokemons balls he has. Only kept the legendary ones??
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Originally posted by Lokey:
I serve NS.
I am more interested the concept of "Friends Quota".
May be there are people out there who actually count how many pokemons balls he has. Only kept the legendary ones??
It will be better for you to stay away from these "trainers" who are only interested in keeping "strong pokemons", as they only view their friends as tools or someone to make use of.
They will throw you aside or ignore you once you have no value to them.
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Originally posted by Forbiddensinner:
It will be better for you to stay away from these "trainers" who are only interested in keeping "strong pokemons", as they only view their friends as tools or someone to make use of.
They will throw you aside or ignore you once you have no value to them.
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Originally posted by Lokey:
Friendship comes in natually?
it shld b a two way tingy rite.so y wan force me b ur frd leh.
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Hahaha, I gave the same reason when I don't wish to extend my friendship to some people.
Yes, i do keep friends quota
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how can u count the number of friends you have then?