My mother earns $1.5k a month. After deduct cpf she is left with $1200. She gives my grandmother $800 a month and my uncle gives her $200 a month too.
So my grandmother gets $1000 a month allowance. She does not need to pay any house bills. The bills are all paid by my mother. My grandmother only uses the money for food expenses and the rest of the money goes to her own savings account so she is the richest in my family
Very good life hor for a grandmother to get $1000 allowance a month. Some people work also don't get $1k a month
She old already just let her be lah.
I am wondering when I become a grandfather will I also get 1k allowance a month.
Wait. By than money will have dropped due to inflation and I should be getting 2k for what is worth 1k now
~-~ The money will go somewhere eventually, probably a family member's bank account.
There's nothing wrong giving one's mother money.
Your grandmother will know deep in her heart who's good to her. By complaining, you are not very good to her.
I thought this is some form of respect and gratitute for the elderly.?
Oh... envious? then faster grow old and see your children got so good to you or not lor...
perhaps TS just thinks that she doesnt need thhat huge amount of money, besides
1200-800 = 500 left for family expenses at the mother side
we dont even know if the father salary is enuff.
oh well, at the end when she die also all go bak to u guys de, she cant carry it to her grave can she -.-
if you have the ability to, take all the money back from ur grandmother lor. anyway she kick bucket tt time all the money also fly back to ur mother wat.
our parents spend about 20 -30 years raising us and providing for our education and other expenses, it is without question that we should give something back
Originally posted by alancia:My mother earns $1.5k a month. After deduct cpf she is left with $1200. She gives my grandmother $800 a month and my uncle gives her $200 a month too.
So my grandmother gets $1000 a month allowance. She does not need to pay any house bills. The bills are all paid by my mother. My grandmother only uses the money for food expenses and the rest of the money goes to her own savings account so she is the richest in my family
Very good life hor for a grandmother to get $1000 allowance a month. Some people work also don't get $1k a month
your parents raise you up, your grandmother raise ur mum up.
you complain what?
i am sad for your mum got a child like you.
pui.
That is becuase your mom still lives with your grandmother and you ought to find your own place too>LOL
Originally posted by Shao Wei:your parents raise you up, your grandmother raise ur mum up.
you complain what?
i am sad for your mum got a child like you.
pui.
I got say I complain meh?
Stupid idiot who can't read. I am sad your mum got a child who can't read
Pui
Originally posted by Short Ninja:That is becuase your mom still lives with your grandmother and you ought to find your own place too>LOL
Haven't get married yet so can't buy my own hdb
Originally posted by Mybluemoon:if you have the ability to, take all the money back from ur grandmother lor. anyway she kick bucket tt time all the money also fly back to ur mother wat.
She got other sons and daughters too what. Don't need to give to my mother what
Originally posted by yiha093:perhaps TS just thinks that she doesnt need thhat huge amount of money, besides
1200-800 = 500 left for family expenses at the mother side
we dont even know if the father salary is enuff.
oh well, at the end when she die also all go bak to u guys de, she cant carry it to her grave can she -.-
Sort of.
Father divorce already lah. He only give my mum $200 a month.
She got other sons and daughters too what don't need to be give to my mother back
Originally posted by eagle:There's nothing wrong giving one's mother money.
Your grandmother will know deep in her heart who's good to her. By complaining, you are not very good to her.
Do you know my grandmother? If not how can you say that she knows deep in her heart who's good to her?
Wow........
How sad you arent able to look beyond material wealth and be happy for her. Why dont you get a job so that everyone has more money?
This topic is very sensitive, and I think you should be very careful.....
If you are not careful, you will end up with resentment and bitterness.....and if you voice out something, or take some action, not only that, you will also experience some frayed relationships with other family members.
I recommend you to do some self-evaluation and enviromental-evaluation first.
Originally posted by yiha093:perhaps TS just thinks that she doesnt need thhat huge amount of money, besides
1200-800 = 500 left for family expenses at the mother side
we dont even know if the father salary is enuff.
oh well, at the end when she die also all go bak to u guys de, she cant carry it to her grave can she -.-
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what's wrong to enjoy her life? u mean u wont do the same when your parent get old?