Gift for soon to be ex-girlfriend?
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My girlfriend and I are about to break up, not because of any tension or anger in our relationship, but simply because we're going separate ways to study.
Both of us were well aware that this would happen long before we even started dating. Yet, as we reminisce about all that we've been through, we both know that we don't have any regrets, except that circumstances don't permit us to be together.
We don't quite take this as a break up, but rather a mere removing of the 'couple' status from our friendship. It's something we've both discussed together and agreed that it's whats best for the both of us. Of course that doesn't make it any less painful as we really do have deep feelings for each other.
Anyways, I want to get her a gift that says thank you for all the great memories, and I hope we can still be friends forever. So what would be the best thing to get her? I also plan to get her flowers to go with the gift, so which ones are best for this occasion?
Considering we're just students, please be practical in the ideas- I don't have a 5-figure paycheck. And I would appreciate if you would refrain from immature and childish or impractical suggestions.
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这�情况下 give gift is want to make her think of u everytime she sees it?
make her feel guilty?
and in u, u are still harbouring a strand of hope for reconciliation..........................
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Forever friends figurines loh
sure meaningful ones
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webcam ?
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Originally posted by FireIce:
这�情况下 give gift is want to make her think of u everytime she sees it?
make her feel guilty?
and in u, u are still harbouring a strand of hope for reconciliation..........................
rite?nope. I just want to leave on a good note. Besides, its flowers. something perishable like that isn't gonna do anything at all...
and like i said, its not like we're breaking up and then never gonna talk to each other again...
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clenches his heart.. breathes...
How about flowers, then a nice pendant or something.. something she can wear n remember u by and also timeless.
Then u have a great dinner.. enjoy each other's company. Savour the final moments... like its Armageddon.
And end it with sweet love. Oh sweet sweet love.
sniff..
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A nice warm hug is all that is needed.
Really.
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do not use the word "forever", or give gifts to exlovers lightly ..... you're creating unhealthy soul ties .......
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I suggest something like a scrapbook, something more to the DIY side. I believe you guys have photographs of the good and bad memories and I guess you can develop them and paste into scrapbooks and hopefully if you may, include the date and time and what you guys did that very day. It allows you to reminiscence of all the good times you had besides going on your separate ways. However, the most meaningful part is not just the pictures but what you write as a caption. For example of what you did that day, how you felt that day. Put in effort when you paste the photographs or decorate it because either party can definitely feel it. Just my two cents worth.
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There is this shop in PS at the corner of level 2/3 where you can buy materials to make your own scrap book and cards. Go have a look and you may get some inspiration.
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give her a soft toy/T-shirt/pants/ panties with your photo printed on it for rememberance. Together with some photos or whatever triggers memories of places you guys spent alot of time in.
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wonder if there is a small ancient pocketwatch which got cover one, u need to open the cover to see the time... best is the watch only moves when it senses sunlight... afterall it is watch not clock, (not song zhong)... and it also can mean cheer up, see the bright side and move on.. ...
just my great imagination running wild... maybe there really is such thing exist, or something similar at least.. good luck... wish u a happy ending :) -
Hmmm... A photobook with photos of u 2 together?? tat sounds soooo sweet...
Or maybe just a special photoframe with a nice pic of u both together?
Actually I would agree with charlize's suggestion... Really a nice hug would do... It's not really like the end of the world or forever "Good Byes"...
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go out for a dinner~
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Scrap books, photos, soft toys - all these are nice gifts.
The trouble with it is they remain as physical entities signifying love/commitment or whatever you used to have with each other.
This might be an obstacle in the other party's future relationships if their partners are not comfortable with it which will ultimately lead to them being tucked away in some cardboard box or drawer, never to see light again. (Let me know if there are any married couples who put their ex's pic or soft toys in their homes for display)
Why not just stick to that nice warm hug?
One, it belongs to the both of you which nobody can take away. Two, you can keep it in your heart or memory for as long as you want. Nobody will question you about it.
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then give rice cooker
or microwave oven
more practical
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Originally posted by Cukaracha:
My girlfriend and I are about to break up, not because of any tension or anger in our relationship, but simply because we're going separate ways to study.
Both of us were well aware that this would happen long before we even started dating. Yet, as we reminisce about all that we've been through, we both know that we don't have any regrets, except that circumstances don't permit us to be together.
We don't quite take this as a break up, but rather a mere removing of the 'couple' status from our friendship. It's something we've both discussed together and agreed that it's whats best for the both of us. Of course that doesn't make it any less painful as we really do have deep feelings for each other.
Anyways, I want to get her a gift that says thank you for all the great memories, and I hope we can still be friends forever. So what would be the best thing to get her? I also plan to get her flowers to go with the gift, so which ones are best for this occasion?
Considering we're just students, please be practical in the ideas- I don't have a 5-figure paycheck. And I would appreciate if you would refrain from immature and childish or impractical suggestions.
Thanks in advance.So you and your GF are in sec sch before breaking up?
anyway, the best thing to get her is to wish her the best, not monetary gifts
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a good fark?
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I think u should get her something in red...something that shouts u...somethin......
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Originally posted by gasband:
I think u should get her something in red...something that shouts u...somethin......
Leopard Prince is also good.
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haha. something booms then.. :P
anyways, i think a lot of people are missing the point. I don't want to get her something that screams 'oh my god!! don't ever forget me!!!'.. so things like a photo frame, scrap book, pendant with our picture in it, or anything at all that bears any memories of us being together is out of the question...
what i mean is maybe something like a Tatty Teddy or something along that line. Its not overly sentimental, nor it is too simple.
any suggestions?
PS. i've already gotten her a tatty teddy, so thats out of the question...
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One last sex.
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get her a Gucci
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Originally posted by Hanagata:
a good fark?
Originally posted by gunner77:One last sex.
Damn you... I thought he said NO immature and childish or impractical suggestions...Maybe one last blowjob????
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Originally posted by charlize:
A nice warm hug is all that is needed.
Really.
Just joking for the one last blowjob....Actually, a nice hug is sufficient. Send her off at the airport and give her a nice warm hug and wish her all the best.