Yes there are, but very few and far between. Personally I know one girl who is not only pretty, but kind hearted. I know I have no chance but to admire her from afar.
Cheers.
only 1?
thats pretty bad
no try no chance
why dun u intro her to me and let me admire her from near... ![]()
of coz there is good ger out there.... even those bad one are great in a certain ways... ![]()
there is no good or bad gers... only ger that suit u. or not... ![]()
a loser like me where got chance ![]()
cannot give her good life, cannot give her money to spend etc, what for. follow me only give her suffering nia
u starting to sound like me.... ![]()
somehow losser then to give more love and sensitive to a women need....![]()
so... i think there is always demand for everything.... just need to find the rite market.
you mean find the right girl that are of same value and qualifications and earning power? this I couldnt agree more.
Originally posted by Rooney9:a loser like me where got chance
cannot give her good life, cannot give her money to spend etc, what for. follow me only give her suffering nia
u watch too much drama isit..
Originally posted by Rooney9:you mean find the right girl that are of same value and qualifications and earning power? this I couldnt agree more.
in a way...
but if u are the rite guy for that ger, it dun matter if u are earning 10x lesser then her....
we all seek to find what we are lacking or dun have to fill a certain void inside all of us. so the rite one are the one that fit us. be it $$ or education, etc
if both are happy.. then that is the rite one.... or close to it.... esp when fight erupted... ![]()
the problem with sg guys are they are very scare of getting rejected, i think singapore guys are grown and nurture or pampered in a way of success in everything, of course they can have good career or score well in studies, but to girls, they are hopless, and reject to them is like a big failure which they feel is like getting a D or E in their grades, that is wrong. Once i reject a guy and his mother can call me up to ask for any chance of me accepting his son, because he when into depression for a month, and that worry his dear mommy. I went to his house and settle the problem.
Unlike my taiwan native guys, they are more open to rejection, and that make them more willingly to go after girls, to taiwan guy, as long as the girl is not engaged, he has all the right to go after her even if there is only slim chance.
As a girl perspectives, i think sg guys need to buckle up on relationship and take as a give and go kind of relationship.
No, the trouble is that most girls are educated, which means they have much higher expectations. A guy cant just be a good guy. He also has to be...(add lots of criteria) Attractive girls are too in demand, and there are very very very few attractive girls who a decent good girls.
There are so many attractive girls who do slutty things like taking nude videos, nude photos and posting online, or photos in bras and panties. Great for guys to perv at, but shows the girls is very self centred and a slut.
Good thing is that it helps to eliminate the undesirable ones
Most attractive girls are definitely not a good girls- one who is friendly to all, smiles naturally, doesnt judge others by job, bank account, number of friends etc. Most of them judge and dont give 99% of guys the time of day.
As for the person who said guys are too shy etc, I've approached girls before, and let me say that firstly, I have almost never found an attractive girl to be single- ie available, and secondly, since they judge extremely quickly, I rarely even get 2 seconds before they make "that" face. Approaching is only a small reason- again, they have this long list of criteria which they make snap judgements on.
There are so many... I know quite a fair bit of girls who are pretty and kind hearted..
Originally posted by angel7030:the problem with sg guys are they are very scare of getting rejected, i think singapore guys are grown and nurture or pampered in a way of success in everything, of course they can have good career or score well in studies, but to girls, they are hopless, and reject to them is like a big failure which they feel is like getting a D or E in their grades, that is wrong. Once i reject a guy and his mother can call me up to ask for any chance of me accepting his son, because he when into depression for a month, and that worry his dear mommy. I went to his house and settle the problem.
Unlike my taiwan native guys, they are more open to rejection, and that make them more willingly to go after girls, to taiwan guy, as long as the girl is not engaged, he has all the right to go after her even if there is only slim chance.
As a girl perspectives, i think sg guys need to buckle up on relationship and take as a give and go kind of relationship.
lol that sg boy...
sure or not... depression.. lol. wtf.
becos taiwan pple are more friendly.. they go around '' ba mei '' make fren..so to them is very common 1..
Originally posted by Rooney9:Yes there are, but very few and far between. Personally I know one girl who is not only pretty, but kind hearted. I know I have no chance but to admire her from afar.
Cheers.
Have is have la, but how? You already think u have no chance liao ma.
Originally posted by ChingAlvin:There are so many... I know quite a fair bit of girls who are pretty and kind hearted..
Really?
Then I humbly prostrate myself at your mercy in the hope you will find it in your heart to allow me to meet some of these wonderful, wonderful ladies.
There are many good girls in Singapore, but competition is fierce.....
You need to be able to defeat all the other contenders....
And the nature of the gender roles is that......it is normal and common for older men to court younger women.....so what does that mean....It means the men must fight even tougher competition to woo his peers.......because the more formidable seniors have come down from the mountains.....
KK hospital got alot
Originally posted by angel7030:the problem with sg guys are they are very scare of getting rejected, i think singapore guys are grown and nurture or pampered in a way of success in everything, of course they can have good career or score well in studies, but to girls, they are hopless, and reject to them is like a big failure which they feel is like getting a D or E in their grades, that is wrong. Once i reject a guy and his mother can call me up to ask for any chance of me accepting his son, because he when into depression for a month, and that worry his dear mommy. I went to his house and settle the problem.
Unlike my taiwan native guys, they are more open to rejection, and that make them more willingly to go after girls, to taiwan guy, as long as the girl is not engaged, he has all the right to go after her even if there is only slim chance.
As a girl perspectives, i think sg guys need to buckle up on relationship and take as a give and go kind of relationship.
so angel i got chance? ![]()
Originally posted by OneWithTheForce:No, the trouble is that most girls are educated, which means they have much higher expectations. A guy cant just be a good guy. He also has to be...(add lots of criteria) Attractive girls are too in demand, and there are very very very few attractive girls who a decent good girls.
There are so many attractive girls who do slutty things like taking nude videos, nude photos and posting online, or photos in bras and panties. Great for guys to perv at, but shows the girls is very self centred and a slut.
Good thing is that it helps to eliminate the undesirable ones
Most attractive girls are definitely not a good girls- one who is friendly to all, smiles naturally, doesnt judge others by job, bank account, number of friends etc. Most of them judge and dont give 99% of guys the time of day.
As for the person who said guys are too shy etc, I've approached girls before, and let me say that firstly, I have almost never found an attractive girl to be single- ie available, and secondly, since they judge extremely quickly, I rarely even get 2 seconds before they make "that" face. Approaching is only a small reason- again, they have this long list of criteria which they make snap judgements on.
now society different. but inlife there are more goals thanjust girls and fashion. anyway ot os better if people have this kind of mentality. they thus have weaker mind. i am just glad i am from another generation. for the years ahead in a modern society it is better to have a stronger soul and mind to forge the way ahead. for i foresee tthe newer generation will need a strong fabric of the brain to even exist.
ya..... pretty girls they demand very high standard...... when i was in my teen,i find it easier to go after girls..... cause they dun look for money, if you are good looking and funny then everything will be ok..... but as i grow into a young adult, i find it harder to go after pretty girls...... mostly likely they are pampered by all the suiters by gifts and most of them get angry easily...... but is like that one, the theory of demand and supply.... handsome guys also not very patient with girls..... so must see the girl more pretty or the guy more handsome.... but singapore guys face another problem, which is money...... in singapore nor matter how ugly or fat you are, if you got the money, you WILL get a girl.....
I know many guai guai girls~ but they like very quiet and shy type...
Those guai guai and sporty type very hard to find wor...
then clarice is a good choice for u sg men.....
she's not choosy and she likes burgers....
foreigner maid alot, foreign wives also. 60 years old ah pek also can. now that's love
Originally posted by theme_and_guess:then clarice is a good choice for u sg men.....
she's not choosy and she likes burgers....
and 20yrs down that road, u would have a oil drum next to u.... ![]()
Originally posted by Rooney9:Yes there are, but very few and far between. Personally I know one girl who is not only pretty, but kind hearted. I know I have no chance but to admire her from afar.
Cheers.
For the sake of your future offsprings, I would encourage you to find a girl who is pretty to you, kind-hearted to many, and you can admire her in macro mode.
sg girls are pampered an in dreamland.