Do you trust what the other is saying during conversation?
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whether colleagues, friends or family and relatives, do you treat them with a pinch of salt since you do not know whether they are telling the truth, lies or exagerration or worse, hearsay and even rumours.
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nwadays, me will tell dem to shadup one.
coz lao niang hav no time for their lubbish.
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words and cinversation serves the basic purpose of letting one understands another, so that things can be done. It also serves as a bridge for people to understand and know one another better by character. however with voice people tends to use it more than what it is designed for, gossip tok rot and idel tok. when they saart toking the problem you know they got.
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People i know for long, i know when they talk cock
rumours, hearsay, i treat them with a pinch of salt. this applies to all
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tok tok mah....
watever we all tok about, those u think is reasonable or sounds right for u then u heed loh
if not then just listen
no harm
u know, like sgf..... u cant expect everyone to agree with u
u oso dun need to agree with everyone
and tts when the flames come in -
thr's a gd reason y god gives us 2 ears & 2 blains bt oly 1 mouth.
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some things u know tat person tua kang when u hear it...
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bt me knew me cld trust u when u promised me the stars...
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haha i think i got post about this b4...
what i wrote was this... which i find it quite true...
dunno how many months back.. or maybe yr.. i read an article... the part that caught my eye and taught me was that it said, during REALLIFE conversation, we only use words to convey 7% of the message... well not like they got some powerful machine to measure... but it is very true that body language, sign, eye contact, anything from u and ur gesture, do play a part in conveying the message...
this makes SMS, MSN or internet chatting a bit hard... for example... "haha" <-- this can mean a lot when u cannot see the person face all these... cuz it can be a genuine laugh, or maybe a sarcastic one....
what i am trying to say here is that, to believe the person anot, u will have to look at his body language, sign, gesture, eye contact and many more.... u will then understand the message even clearer.... and from the body language, u can tell whether the person is exasgerating (dunno how to spell) or lying....
at the beginning... u might not really understand the body language that is being received... just keep trying to read his/her movement, signs all these.. u will start to understand a person more and read behind the message through body language and all.. some might say u can read mind.. but it is human ability (brain) that u can read the body language signs all these, which directly reflects on the conversation partner mind and thoughts...pardon my bad english... just wanna write my point down... :)
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it really depends on who you are talking to, if the person someone you already knw for many many years and you knw his or her character, then should be quite ok to trust.? If just get to knw, then also depends dee....coz sometimes u see this person, then u realise like actually you hv knw him/her for years despite miting first time??
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tok lor if not nothing to do mah. like this one LOTR actually can end in a few minutes logically http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1yqVD0swvWU&feature=related
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i usually wont doubt
cuz no pt lying to me ma
if they wan lie to look good
then sui bian lo
in the end still will kena find out one