I am worthless in SG!

• Catknight

  6 Jun 10, 18:26

  I feel worthless in SG when people worship material success...and as a man feel even worse...how many of you guys feel worthless in SG and how do you overcome the sense of worthlessness?

• TTFU

  6 Jun 10, 18:48

  Hmm Worthless is a very strong word. Upgrade yourself i will say.

• Uncertain

  6 Jun 10, 18:55

  U worth something .... and that is scolding. In fact, u are also a useless whine. 

• ahjenn

  6 Jun 10, 19:07

  u got earn money ?  if yes, then why feel worthless ?

• Lokey

  6 Jun 10, 19:37

  every1 is worth something. it is just how you see the value.

  Some people say gold worth alot, but what can you do with a gold bar in the desert. There are plenty of water in the ocean, but they are not drinkable. 

   

• Fenixx

  6 Jun 10, 19:53

  Seems like TS is suffering from a loss of self-confidence......... Try to go slow at this time. Spend some time doing some soul searching. Find out what you ultimately want in life. Assess your goals, short-term, medium term and long term. Perhaps you need a goal to give you some direction in life.....?
• I-like-flings(m)

  6 Jun 10, 19:58

  Originally posted by Catknight:

  I feel worthless in SG when people worship material success...and as a man feel even worse...how many of you guys feel worthless in SG and how do you overcome the sense of worthlessness?

  
  ask ur parent this question lor... they will tell u .. u worth more than their life...

• Catknight

  6 Jun 10, 20:38

  I dun know lah....is life abt money and sex...what's our ultimate destiny here in SG?

• Catknight

  6 Jun 10, 20:39

  Find our lives here in Sg very mundane and gross base...you know nothing grows here...I can't find the human spirit here!!

• mancha

  6 Jun 10, 20:49

  You only feel worthless, but you are not worthless.

  What you have is labour. You can provide labour for financial gains, or  you can give it out for free.

  Go find some work.

• I-like-flings(m)

  6 Jun 10, 21:01

  u about my age one is it.. recently i also everyday asking this question hahaha sianz dunno what to do with my life... it's all about money.... si bei sianz leh this kind of life.. but no money really cannot survive nowadays...

• Catknight

  6 Jun 10, 21:13

  I wish Ican go up the mountain and stay there for some time

• I-like-flings(m)

  6 Jun 10, 21:51

  Originally posted by Catknight:

  I wish Ican go up the mountain and stay there for some time

  
  hahaha same here.. just that i wan to stay there forever..... sick of this kind of life... knn..if they ask ppl to go on a 1 way trip to stay on moon or mars i sure go one... just need to basic things then go with ur love one can already.. no tv no internet so what?

   

   

  oh ya.. add one more thing..... the worst thing about sg is that u cant find a mountain for u to go up to stay even if u wan to lor..

• mh2

  6 Jun 10, 21:51

  Originally posted by Catknight:

  I dun know lah....is life abt money and sex...what's our ultimate destiny here in SG?

  
  live out your dream.

• mh2

  6 Jun 10, 21:58

  Originally posted by I-like-flings(m):

  
  hahaha same here.. just that i wan to stay there forever..... sick of this kind of life... knn..if they ask ppl to go on a 1 way trip to stay on moon or mars i sure go one... just need to basic things then go with ur love one can already.. no tv no internet so what?

  i understand your feeling. i also fucking sick of working in this business environment in singapore, all about money la.when you are 50, and you look back , u ask ,so have i live a meaningful life making money for a living, that really a shit feeling, ... whatever la ... understand that you are single, finding some good friend that share you thinking may be helpful. 

  when you are lost, find jesus, or he will find you?

• Catknight

  6 Jun 10, 22:01

  Many things want to do llike travel wanderlust and getting a good wife...but no time and money to do everything how feel stress,,,,,

• Catknight

  6 Jun 10, 22:03

  Wanna know your guys opinions any sg girl will marry a man who only able to fork out 3k for dowry and wedding dinner...

• Catknight

  6 Jun 10, 22:03

  I dun know leh many ppl said if sg girl love you then no need dowry and dinner..but in today's woprld is it possible??

• Kuali Baba

  6 Jun 10, 22:07

  If you maintain such a defeatist attitude, you won't be worth anything elsewhere too.

• Catknight

  6 Jun 10, 22:14

  What to do>? I do not have a rich and beautiful wife like pastor kong of course I feel worthless lah

• mh2

  6 Jun 10, 22:15

  Originally posted by Catknight:

  I dun know leh many ppl said if sg girl love you then no need dowry and dinner..but in today's woprld is it possible??

  possible. just keep looking for the woman.
  foreigner is acceptable?

• Catknight

  6 Jun 10, 22:17

  Got Sun Ho type a not , religous yet sexxy! If she did not say, no one will know she's a pastor wife!!Times have changed....more men in SG will feel worthless

• Catknight

  6 Jun 10, 22:21

  A pastor can have a MTV singer wife who start Skin couture. boutique...if you guys dun feel worthless..I rest my case liao!!Pastor kong talk about domination of the world, this guy really scares me ,man!

• mh2

  6 Jun 10, 22:25

  dun need go for look, it wont last, hoha 

  ho is pretty but cant sing,

   

• Catknight

  6 Jun 10, 22:30

  I wonder how many  contribute to Pastor church to avoid feeling worthless