Do most girls do that?
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relli?Originally posted by Forever84:feels like more and more good guys
but less nice girls
how about this case regarding my male fren
he was chatting happily with this ger in a chatroom......then arranged to meet up
so they told each other wat they wearing tt day and venue to meet
then the guy purposely went late and ambush himself behind a pillar nearby to "preview" the ger....
the ger was rather plump.....not wat u call pretty those type...
then my guy fren see liao immediately zao lor.....
made the ger wait there for a few hours....
actually the ger was bery nice lah....i got to know her later.....
and she is actually bery gentle.....during one of the BBQ sessions, she offered to take charge of the food and all.....although tt day she was real busy and there was not many ppl ard to help her, she did not complain or mess things up....everything was in order and by the end of it....she was bery tired oredi but still cleared the mess and cleap up and all....
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You misunderstand my statement
i said less nice girls, not 'no more'
yes guys would be jerks, but there are more nice guys these days its seems
i am just saying how the erm 'tables have turned?' -
you misunderstood my point
there is no statistics to prove how many gers are "nice" or "not nice"....same for the guys.....in this matter
so u can't say more or less.....
u can oni derive ur own conclusion from ur own experiences (which may be different from other ppl's) -
i think the best is nv be together without seeing b4, coz there's surely 1 side going to get hurt...
wanna go for a online relationship, nv meet the person ! -
Yes
but i did say 'feels' -
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what a superficial gal! you mean all those months of understanding each other online meant absolutely nothing to her? .Though not face to face but still a bit of communication mah!
she's not worth the MRT fare to Somerset. Well...unless your friend lives nearby, then i got nothing to say liao. Glad that your friend cut loss fast. 
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i think for online "relationship/s"... in order to avoid
leading , i would recommend you guys exchange photos online first lah...
good luck!
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Originally posted by narz:
i rber got this guy tell me last time
i would recommend you guys [b]exchange photos online first lah...
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he exchange pic with this ger
the ger sent him her pic....those make-over pic
woah~ chio chio!
then meet liao......
eh? an zua so different leh?
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but even after send online each other pics liao then other party don't like the face can think up some lousy excuse to call it quits. that will be letting him/her off too easily. better to meet up personally and see the person expose the superficial person that he really is
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Originally posted by FireIce:relli?
how about this case regarding my male fren
he was chatting happily with this ger in a chatroom......then arranged to meet up
so they told each other wat they wearing tt day and venue to meet
then the guy purposely went late and ambush himself behind a pillar nearby to "preview" the ger....
the ger was rather plump.....not wat u call pretty those type...
then my guy fren see liao immediately zao lor.....
made the ger wait there for a few hours....
actually the ger was bery nice lah....i got to know her later.....
and she is actually bery gentle.....during one of the BBQ sessions, she offered to take charge of the food and all.....although tt day she was real busy and there was not many ppl ard to help her, she did not complain or mess things up....everything was in order and by the end of it....she was bery tired oredi but still cleared the mess and cleap up and all....
exactly the image she portrayed in the chatroom....... did u scold this friend of yours? -
Originally posted by FireIce:i rber got this guy tell me last time
he exchange pic with this ger
the ger sent him her pic....those make-over pic
woah~ chio chio!
then meet liao......
eh? an zua so different leh? at least he got to see the "potentially" beautiful side of her? -
makeover studios bery good biz.........
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To me i dun believe in online relationship... Sometimes ppl inside are jus having fun.. Often those un-chio girls will tend to act chio online.. or acting as handsome guy which in fact they are not..Originally posted by Master -_-:My friend told me at school that he broke up after 8 months. Nothing unusual? He broke up last Sunday after the first time he met with his gf. You see, he has been in this relationship for about 8 months since knowing her through irc. Well, he is a quite fat and not so good looking guy while she, according to him, looks like a model and would be any trophy girlfriend for any guy. When they met up for the first time at Somerset, he told me that after identifying each other, she went straight to my friend's fae and told him that she doesn't like the way he looks and immediately told him to part off.
My question to the floor is..
If you have an online relationship and if ur expectations are not met when you meet... would you break off? By the way, he is not the only one i know.. i got other friends like that..
In reality these people are not what they seems like in their real-life.. They have no confidence and feel inferior or maybe they are jus out for fun! And yes.. there are still a number of good people online.. And those are the people who really wanna make friends online.. and not jus playing fool around...
Online relationship how long can it ever last? I'm not saying those have already met with each other n then went into a relationship.. But i'm referring to those who even don;t know how the other party looks like and they can be in a relationship thru online?? I can guarantee most guys/gals (i say most not ALL) will tend to go for looks when chosing their partner.. Moreover is an online.. If you describe yourself as so good.. so handsome.. but in the end turn out to be like not what you have mention.. Of cos there will be disappointment.. But to continue this relations is up to individual..
For your friend case.. I feel sorry for him.. That girl is out to look for handsome guy and nOTHING ELSE!! No matter what happen in those 8 months.. Jus one day or jus one sentence from her.. everything goes down the drain.. Jus be cos she doesn't like his looks or he's too fat?? What about all the time they spend talkin to each other.. ALL the efforts, caring and loving that your friend has give and put in?? If your friend were to turn out to be some macho guy tall and handsome, do you think the situation will still be same?? NO! Is it all worthwhile ?? She also dun say such things to your friend.. IS very hurting to him!! Well, I don't know how they lasted for 8 months... and they never even meet up before considering into a relation..
In a cyber r/s its hard to find true love in it... They can meet better woman offline.. who is willing to accept for who they are and what they are... Why wanna chose to go online and look for a decent gf?? After such an incident.. i guess your friend has learned his lessons.. Even if he were to find someone really click with him.. Come out n meet first.. Dun straight away go into a relationship without even knowing her EXACTLY! YOu only know her by online.. But what about offline?
Many ppl do act differently in online and offline.. certain things you may not take notice of.. But others can tell the difference for you.. Sometimes offline you dun dare to show your another side of you.. but when comes online.. you will show it out.. cos ITS ONLINE.. noone knows who you are, how you look like.. One in online can be so arrogant and speak whatever that comes to their mind without considering... BUt when he's offline.. You get to see him.. he may not be what he seems in online.. Unreasonable or aggressive type..
If one were to show exactly what they are online and offline the same... i'm very impressed.. Even myself.. i think i'm somehow different online and offline bah.. Not sure too! If in my case.. i would not go into a relationship online.. SOmehow i dun trust or believe in cyber relations...
Remind your friends that not only online you can find girls.. There are lots of them out there.. Make more friends first.. Then later slowly consider whether should you or should you not go into a relations where both has feelings for both.. AND provided they have already know each other and met up with one another!!
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darling i believe u....[f][r[][d]Originally posted by BufPuf:i tht this kind of things mostly is guys do 1?
maybe i a bit biased or wad..but sometimes..when gers say that she is fat n ugly...the guys always think that..aiya..mai k k lah..must be pretty then always say fat n ugly..those kind of stuff...den when meet liao..dun turn out to be what he expected..he won't contact the ger anymore....but how the ger look..also not within her control mah...not say she lie to you in the first place..but she told u..just tht u dun believe loh -
kam xia leh, but i dun like to da ban one.Originally posted by nismoS132:ok lah i think if u da ban abit will look not bad oso
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Online relationships aren't exactly great. The condition of anonymity can work against you sometime. I never get hitched online.
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Relationships online (b4 meeting) often clashes up after meeting when the image that he/she gives u is totally out from ur imaginations. but not every relationship is like that..
e.g my brother know his current gf thru icq. and they chat for quite a time b4 my bro went all over from singapore to canada just to see her and it has been 2 yrs from then, and they are heading to walking the red carpet very soon... kekekkee
so it's gonna depend a person's mentality and how realistic you can be.. -
wahhh dar dar.. congratulations to ur brother...Originally posted by IamAngeline:Relationships online (b4 meeting) often clashes up after meeting when the image that he/she gives u is totally out from ur imaginations. but not every relationship is like that..
e.g my brother know his current gf thru icq. and they chat for quite a time b4 my bro went all over from singapore to canada just to see her and it has been 2 yrs from then, and they are heading to walking the red carpet very soon... kekekkee
so it's gonna depend a person's mentality and how realistic you can be.. 
and by the way, re: the topic.. that friend of mine just got another gf via irc -
keke dar dar so ur ur friend got over it already hahahha...Originally posted by Master -_-:wahhh dar dar.. congratulations to ur brother...
and by the way, re: the topic.. that friend of mine just got another gf via irc
hmm not bad... this is the life in irc :p -
dicuss in my topic ... !! LOve or lust ... you think men go for love or lust?
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got over it?? he got another gf~!Originally posted by IamAngeline:keke dar dar so ur ur friend got over it already hahahha...
hmm not bad... this is the life in irc :p -
yahyah that's y i say he 'got over' it kekekekOriginally posted by Master -_-:got over it?? he got another gf~! -
orhhhhOriginally posted by IamAngeline:yahyah that's y i say he 'got over' it kekekek -
think guys should act more gentleman..if the gal is totally out of ur expectation, dun turn her down straight, cos its really hurting..so wat if she's fat n ugly??...she still need some pride right??..the most is dun contact her next time lor..