wah got so jialat or not.....or maybe I havent been hanging around enough.
sama sama, men also the same.
Funny thing is...how come Singapore can beat China in this aspect.
power lah... we need more such women...
Originally posted by white.jewel:Funny thing is...how come Singapore can beat China in this aspect.
Countryside too big, difficult to trace.
Originally posted by DailyFreeGames.com:power lah... we need more such women...
Lol, you would say that !!
the survey result bluff one la. I don't see them interviewing me leh. :\
who in the right mind believes in surveys?
No wonder nowadays I see/hear so many married ladies here having affairs. I believe it is because many are working and meeting more men like never before. Unlike our granny days, where ladies usually kwai kwai stay at home and take care of kids and their own families.
Pls la.....in the first place the guy got the earning power to let the girls stay home boh....singapore women u want them stay at home u make sure ur wallet loaded la....anyway sg women nowadays no different from their china counterparts.....all will cheat behind their guys back...dunno how many guys walking on the street are all cuckoos.....tat's why smart guys wun get married la....just stay together...when the women stray just kick them out la....
I think many Singapore women are too confident of themselves nowadays. They are far more better educated, better groomed and hold better jobs than before . If they are not happy with their men, they will just go for the next best, caring , capable men who can make them feel desired, wanted, fulfilled. The plethora of social media sites and Facebook are also examples of sources that allow these women to have access to more men like never before. To these women, they feel that if men can stray, why can't they? Financial independence from men and further downgrading moral values will continue to see more adulterous married Singapore women in time to come. The world has indeed changed very drastically.
Sad to see that .Maybe modern women are stressed about work and family and men are too busy to bother much about them. So in the end, the women just seek diversions in extra-marital affairs.
sad.
Originally posted by white.jewel:Funny thing is...how come Singapore can beat China in this aspect.
China gal actually do more than Singapore women in cheating their spouse, just that lots of china gal tho married, are not officially recorded.
For once, I do not agree with the statistic and would like to know what kind of surveys they did to arrive to such statistic and conclusion.
Affair is secretive, it is not easy to survey unlike MRT survey on their services.
Originally posted by winsomeea:sama sama, men also the same.
True, this type of news are nothing more than make up by cheating sg men who want to get even with women of singapore. So now, if they can say, singapore women also cheat mah...so they can go on and cheat on their wife like no tomorrow.
My office alone can see the a few married ladies and other men very close. But we just close one eye nia. They everyday meet one another and spend many hours at work -so much more than at home with their husbands, ofcourse sure will have affairs lah.The women in office also many damn chio although they already have children.Men there still want to tackle. Who cares married or no married. Happy just come ( no pun intended) together . Now who want to care so much liao.
Originally posted by Summer120706:My office alone can see the a few married ladies and other men very close. But we just close one eye nia. They everyday meet one another and spend many hours at work -so much more than at home with their husbands, ofcourse sure will have affairs lah.The women in office also many damn chio although they already have children.Men there still want to tackle. Who cares married or no married. Happy just come ( no pun intended) together . Now who want to care so much liao.
These close working relationships resulted in these disturbing trends.
Ya true, romance in office very common nowadays. If men can help it , better dun let the wives work outside. Too much temptations liao.
Maybe someone should invent the chastity belts for married women - and men all must make their wives wear that to work .Hahahaha!!
Originally posted by Summer120706:If men can help it , better dun let the wives work outside. Too much temptations liao.
Hard lah, now the women all educated and so materialistic.
There is this NS male female gap in Singapore also where female have the advantage of not serving NS.
This is ultimately a western way of organising society and is alien to chinese, malay or indian traditional ways.
Maybe Singapore society will degenerate like the U.S.
A record-low 51 percent of adults aged 18 and older in the United States were married in 2010, compared with 72 percent in 1960, according to a Pew Research Center analysis of U.S. Census data.
The most dramatic decline in marriage has occurred among adults ages 18 to 29. Just 20 percent of them were married last year, compared with 59 percent in 1960.
The median age at first marriage is also at its highest -- 26.5 years for women and 28.7 years for men -- and over the past 50 years has risen by about six years for both women and men.
The decline in marriage has been accompanied by an increase in cohabitation, single-person households and single parenthood. If current trends continue, the percentage ofU.S. adults who are currently married will fall below half within a few years, the researchers said.
Dun marry also good lah. Save money.The most old liao go do volunteer work or just save enough money to rot in an old folk's home. Now marriage is like a joke .So many divorces and lousy marriages. So many unfaithful people .Sg also expensive to stay happy with a partner.
Another paradigm I want to establish is a difference between two kinds of civilizations, which means a difference between two kinds of governments in them.
Asiatic civilizations, which I call Class B Civilizations, generally do not attempt to deal with individuals or with the problems of individuals; they leave interpersonal relationships to the local or kinship community.
Class A Civilizations include Classical Civilization, our own Western Civilization, or the first Chinese or Sinic Civilization, whose dates are 1800 B.C. to 400 A.D.
In Class A Civilizations, although the civilization begins as an area of common culture made up of communities, there is a long term trend to destroy and break down those communities.
The way I would like to express this would be -- and I used to draw it on the blackboard -- by saying that all civilizations start out as aggregations of communities.
Those communities are generally of two types, either local, such as parishes, neighborhoods, villages, or manors; or kinship communities, families, clans, and so forth. When a civilization begins with such communities, as ours did in 550, there is no state, and there are no atomized individuals.
I will not go into the details of this, but in such communities, there are no written laws; all law is customary. Most controls on behavior are what I call internalized, that is, they are built into your hormones and your neurological responses.
You do what is necessary to remain a member of the community, because if you were not a member of the community, you would be nothing.
You would not be a man. As you may know if you have ever studied linguistics, the names which many primitive and not-so-primitive peoples have for themselves is their word for man.
The communities from which Classical Civilization came were clans, kinship groups; the communities from which Western Civilization came were local villages and manors.
Lucky civilizations, such as Chinese Civilization over the past 1500 years, generally have communities which are both kinship and local.
What happens in the course of a Class A Civilization, over a thousand or more years, is that the fundamental communities are broken up and gradually disintegrate into smaller and smaller groups, and may end up simply as what we call nuclear families, a father and a mother, who eventually lose all discipline and control of their children.
The result of this process is a state which is not only sovereign but totalitarian, and it is filled with isolated individuals.
Of the four civilizations which came out of Classical Antiquity's wreckage, two, Islamic and Byzantine, clearly are Class B Civilizations, that is, they continued to work for communities.
Their governments were governments of limited powers, of which the most important were raising money and recruiting soldiers.
The finest example of such an Asiatic Despotism was the Mongolian Empire of Jenghiz Khan about A. D. 1250, but its origins go back to the Persian Empires of the Achaemenids and the Sassanids. Good examples of such a structure are the Chinese Civilization of 220-1949, the Byzantine Empire after 640, and the Islamic sultanates which eventually culminated in the Ottoman Empire.
The efforts of the Carolingian Franks to establish a similar empire in Western Civilization collapsed and led to the Dark Age of 860-970.
http://www.carrollquigley.net/Lectures/The-State-of-Communities-AD-976-1576.htm
I reject the western way of organising society where the long term trend is to break up the community.
Dun marry also good lah. Save money.The most old liao go do volunteer work or just save enough money to rot in an old folk's home. Now marriage is like a joke .So many divorces and lousy marriages. So many unfaithful people .Sg also expensive to stay happy with a partner.
I think Singapore society must be reorganised, de-westernised and de-anglicised.
This destructive western way of organising society must be totally rejected.
The society have to be open minded.
Not all wives that strayed are materialistic and too educated.
They are not into more material gains as they can buy any thing they want themselves.
Men that strayed are always forgiven so what about the wife ?
Wearing the green cap is not acceptable by society standard.
But, the guy in the office also controlled themselves and dun tackle other pple wife.
End up like the other post on his wife having affair in their house.
Western world is in decline, if Singapore continues to ape the west, it too will go into decline.
Another thing which may serve to point out the instability of the power system of the state: the individual cannot be made the basic unit of a society, as we have tried to do, or of the state, because the internalization of controls must be the preponderant influence in any stable society.
http://www.carrollquigley.net/Lectures/The-State-of-Individuals-AD-1776-1976.htm