Will you guys allow your gf to wear a bikini?
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Cos my fren says that his bf does nor allow her to wear it cos he felt it is too revealing. I dun know if she is considered a good figure, I think it is 33c-24-34. and she is about 1.66m and weigh about 48kg..not too sure...anyway, she have not worn one before, only those two piece tank tops.
I think it is alright though but I dunno what the guys think though.Most guys think she is pretty too if that helps.
But one thing I realise that guys keep ooking at her boobs when she wear a a spagetti strap top...and I dun think it is advisable to catch too much of unwanted attention...What am I blabbering about??:blush:
[This message has been edited by Rinoa Heartilly (edited 04 January 2000).] -
Hmmmm anyways. It is alright if a gal doesn't wear too revealing though. But hey,
a gal choose what to wear right ? SO i think her boyfriend has to be a bit wary on some people who just might take advantage on her.
I don't really a Boyfriend won't allow his stead not to wear what for nothing. Maybe he is concerned. or rather he doesn't want a lot of attention........ -
Everyone has the right to wear what he/she wants, and as many posts have mentioned before, boyfriends do not OWN girlfriends and vice versa.
BUT... if the girl is wearing it purposely to seduce guys, then the boyfriend has the right to express his views/get a little sensitive.
People should just wear whatever they like as long as its comfortable and its not some attempt to pose. Boyfriends should also be more open-minded cause I'm sure they would have lurved to ogle another girl in a 2 piece.
But ultimately, if the attention is uncomfortable for either party, then forget it.. with a world full of sex perverts, showing a little less flesh won't kill.
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Is it cold in here, or is it just me? -
i think ur friend have a good figure based on her height.
that's always something strange about guys. we like to see girls wearing as less as possible but when come to our g/f, NO, NO, NO. -
Judging by your description she will SURE to catch lots of attention when she wears a two piece.
Maybe her bf just don't want the extra attention on his gf esp on her boobs.she should be happy that her bf is so concern abt her but then over protective is no good.
Bikini is good for tanning. -
Hmm....with that kind of figure, I suppose most guys would look at her, spag straps or less.....
Well...i suppose if the bf is proud of his gf's stats, then mebbe (a real mebbe) he wouldn't mind....
lots of guys dun have gfs with that kind of figure (i think), and wouldn't mind the view... -
That guy has no business meddling with his
gf's attire, or the lack thereof
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If the guy truly loves her, he will not
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But his bf can't stand guys looking at her everytime they go out needless to say if she wears a bikini! So my fren dunno what to so since she feels that she is only young once. Anyway, she lives in the western country so it is not that bad. I guess her figure is ok considered that she is an Asian and she really do sports to keep it trim and fit anyway she is quite like me can never out on too much weight no matter how much we eat,
Her bf is quite traditional kind.So how??
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well ur friend like her as what she is, so just accept it and he will not be so miserable.
as for ur gal friend, tell her to be more considerate, what will she feel if her b/f got a lot of attention from many gals.....
a relationship will work well if both know how to give & take..... -
Oh.....her bf have a good bod too...and he even won the Manhunt in his university and of cos girls look at him too and even tried to date him out but she dun really mind as long they dun seduce him or what. Well...she can make do without it of course but it is all her frens influencing her cos most of her frens wear it and stuffs.Oh well!
[This message has been edited by Rinoa Heartilly (edited 04 January 2000).] -
Like i said in a relationship, its abt abt mutual trust and tolerance. On one side, the girl has the right to wear what she wants. But if she wears too revealing cloths and attract lots of attentions and ogling from the other guys, her bf( depending on the guy, some guy dun mind, but some do) may feel very uncomfortable. If he does, then i think its advisable for the girl not to wear bikini. If the guy dun feel comfortable, i think its ok.
Well true, the bf do not own the girl, but the girl, i feel should, should not do things which the bf is uncomfortable. Afterall, being together is abt accomodating each other. Same thing goes for the guy. The guy also should not do things which the gf is unhappy abt eg like ogling at girls when she is ard or something .....
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With that kind of figure, sure will catch a lot of unwanted attention...esp in a bikini
As for me, I dun really fancy a bikini, but my bf wants me to wear one (IN HIS PRESENCE) I dun think I will wear one in one of those public swimming pools in Singapore, but if I might wear one for my honeymoon
It's normal for your fren's bf to mind... which guy won't try to bash up another guy staring at his gf? As for your fren who is pretty and well-endowed, her bf will definitely be anxious about it. But your frend can always try to get her bf to understand... -
Yup i would let her wear it if she's comfortable with the idea.
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Why? Why me? -
the boyfriend so scared?
i think he should let her wear what she likes.... the bf should have not only confidence in her(loyalty to him) but also on himself... so scared might as well stand beside her 24hours a day....
he should be happy got ppl looking at the preety chick he have .... how sad isit when you go into a party and no one comment you have a preety girl!!!!
oh ya... that figure of her is for sure
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i personally think tht it's alright for a gal to wear a bikini(quite common nowadays)....morever she's got a good figure
however,if her bf really can't stand those lecherous eyes looking around,i think she should try to understand her bf loh....if she really must wear...then just secretly wear it for her bf to see loh...hehe -
To Rinoa :
I will let her wear it.. Afterall, if she has it, let her flaunt it... I am sure that my gf is still my gf whether she is wearing a bikini, and I will be so happy if the other guys who are gawking at her, are so jealous of me that she is my gf... So, why be jealous where you can think of it this way? Why be a masochist and suffer, be a sadist instead...
[This message has been edited by prodigal (edited 05 January 2000).] -
With your gf's figure, you should let her wear bikini. But bear this in mind, that in Spore a gal appearing in bikini will cause a lot of stir. Be it at a public pool or at the beach, unless it is a private pool, the gal will be the centre of attention. To be honest, we guys like to look at gals wearing short short, but when it comes to our gf, no no.
Can anyone pass me some tissue for my nose bled ? -
I think that this gal should have a heart-to-heart talk with her bf and see whether they can come to a solution...If the bf really uncomfortable with the idea...the gal...as a gf...should be sensitive enough to his wishes....no..no...I am not saying that this gal doesn't have her right to wear watever she likes...but having this right doesn't mean that she must exercise the right...Compromise here and there...give and take lor....
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Oh...well...my fren is a model before in Singapore and was even asked to catwalk for triumph ...of cos she say NO! but since now she is overseas studying and bikini seems like a norm, she feels that it is alright. Well, the bf still still negative about the whole thing. My gf dun wanna provoke him but I think the bf is trying to give way by choosing the bikini for her...haha!
..I wonder what will he choose..my fren would like a white one or a black one...Must be a real sight man!!Woo hoo! -
On wearing bikinis or other revealing clothes, somehow guys will always tell girls who are not related to them to wear those revealing clothes, but when it comes to their gfs, i think they will say," NO! NO!"
"... and I will be so happy if the other guys who are gawking at her, are so jealous of me that she is my gf... So, why be jealous where you can think of it this way? Why be a masochist and suffer, be a sadist instead..."
Hehehe, prodigal, u know, when my frens and i look ( or ogle or whatever u call it), we are not jealous of the guy. We are juz trying to get a feast for our eyes.
And i think many guys think in the same way as us, that is why i think guys dun want their gfs to wear revealing clothes.
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riona:
come on, u think the girls trying to date that handsome guy are not trying to seduce him????
i think u can 'date' him out without being branded by ur gal friend as trying to seduce him. ha ha ha..... -
huh??no lah...That guy is too good for me..I am not good enough...Wait my fren kill me then U know...I did ask him before if a very gorgeous seduce him and ask him for one night stand..He said NO! Cos he feels that it is so unethical...even though he does not have a gf, he would not do it....Such a nice guy where to find..and good looking somemore..haiz....
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u probably wait till that guy cannot stand his g/f than u have a chance.....
this kind of guy not difficult to find, just u don't have the luck to see a lot of them only...... -
NO...actually I have met lotsa nice guys but I always think they are too nice for me..wel .....maybe I am not prepared for a relationship yet....anyhow...life still goes on without a relationship...
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ya man, study hard, get good grades, earn more money then think of relationship.
wish u can find the right one in the future...........