ns and gf
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Alright been hearing rumours that NS = no more GF
and that having GF = completed NS.
How far do you agree
Ex-Ns men here, pls share thine wisdom
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doesn`t really mean so..
my frens haf gf even during NS days..
some of them..
even 2 yrs after NS also no gf..
totally depends on individual..
however,
it` sort of true many ppl breakup upon entering NS..
if they survived the 1st 6 mths..
mostly will last throughout thier NS careers.. -
it depend loh
most of e r/s cant last long if their bf is servin ns loh
due to lots of reasons
but there are some will last must depend on hw firm is the r/s loh keke -
depends.
i know tt is as good as not answering
but i think tt is the best ans liao...... -
no such "rule"Originally posted by men_@_arms:Alright been hearing rumours that NS = no more GF
and that having GF = completed NS.
How far do you agree
Ex-Ns men here, pls share thine wisdom
*bows* -
rubbish.Originally posted by men_@_arms:NS = no more GF
having GF = completed NS. -
depends one lah
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break up due to NS?
then the relationship can forget about going long term. -
Guess does affect the relationship esp if the girls go to U or start working. They will meet older & more mature guys who are able to spend time with them.
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NS is still can come back on weekends right? so can go out with GF what.
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If break up due to NS, then the relationship isn't that strong in the first place.Originally posted by kopiosatu:break up due to NS?
then the relationship can forget about going long term.
This is only short-distance seperation only, furthest both can be apart is gf lives in Jurong and the guy posted to Tekong, but then still can meet every weekend.
People in long-distance relationship gets to meet like once in a blue moon and can still last together, so it really depends on how strong the relationship is in the first place. -
couples can sure endure the NS period.. its much depends on the girls too.. guys inside camp duno wad girls do outside.. its oso quite depend on wad type of frend ur gf haf outside..
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ok lets do a numbers count shall we?
How many NS Men here have had slightest possibilities of their gfs leaving them for other guys while they were in NS at the time? Pls RAISE YOUR HAND! -
Love Bounds No Barriers Cum Obstacles
BLOODY RECRUITS wake up your idea, this kind of logic can't get u to be adequetly enlightened..........
If r/s can't last then let it be lor morever the world would not be the end if u 2 break up mah get a new one man.............
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so... u spend your weekends with your GF while other guys are hitting on her the rest of the week?Originally posted by the.raven:NS is still can come back on weekends right? so can go out with GF what.
its hard to maintain lah... but like what everybody says, it depends. -
TOTALLY AGREE!!! Really!! Guys, if u r going NS, betta not find a gf.. i'm a very good example liao.. actually found a gf during my NS.. but only lasted half a yr..cos the girl went uni..and i can't spend much time with her..when i free she say she muz study or go out with frens.. den when she is free, i'm in camp.. den she keep telling me uni many guys going after her.. make me feel very insecure..the worse thing is she NVR try to make me feel secure loh.. whenver we got time to go out, she will be busy replying sms or talking on hp to other guys.. haiz.. den she told me she can't relate to me as much as before cos on her mind is her sch work and i can't help her much.. in the end broke up le.. guys if u r serious in maintaining a r/s during ns.. it will take A LOT A LOT of effort..
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it all depends on both parties...
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True....true....
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i've heard of this urben legend that the soldiers in army who are going to ord will snatch the girlfriends of the ppl who are enlisted.
so the new batch of recriuts are very sad as they got enlisted and their gf all gone... then when they going to ord they go snatch the next batch of resruits gfs. -
Cool. Encouraging.Originally posted by ChrisYX:If break up due to NS, then the relationship isn't that strong in the first place.
This is only short-distance seperation only, furthest both can be apart is gf lives in Jurong and the guy posted to Tekong, but then still can meet every weekend.
People in long-distance relationship gets to meet like once in a blue moon and can still last together, so it really depends on how strong the relationship is in the first place.
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Simply bastardic.Originally posted by heroine1980:i've heard of this urben legend that the soldiers in army who are going to ord will snatch the girlfriends of the ppl who are enlisted.
so the new batch of recriuts are very sad as they got enlisted and their gf all gone... then when they going to ord they go snatch the next batch of resruits gfs.
But then, all humans are. -
Really not so sure about this. But of course, like anyone else, I've heard most cases didn't work out.Originally posted by men_@_arms:Alright been hearing rumours that NS = no more GF
and that having GF = completed NS.
How far do you agree
Ex-Ns men here, pls share thine wisdom
*bows*
Heard from an ex-officer, whom told me something quite direct and straightforward when he knew that I have a girlfriend.
"Young man, NS is a phase when your girlfriend leaves you."
How nice, and he said that when we first and last met. Just an acquaintance.
Whatever he said, do make sense. You are in camp for 5 days. You get to book out only on weekends. The first thing on your mind, is your bed. During meet-ups with your girlfriend, whatever you say, will be just about the army life. You know nothing much about her life out of Tekong. And you can't do a lot since your monthly intake is only around 350. Then conversations and relationship starts to get boring.
So efforts count a damn big part. Don't ever take things for granted. Try to fresh up the relationship in every way you can. At least, do your part.
I am entering this phase soon. And I mean well... take it as a challenge.