Trust
Your score = 71
Security
Your score = 71
Conflict Resolution
Your score = 50
Sexuality
Your score = 76
Your score on the trust component of the test indicated that you are generally trusting of your partnerÂ…but there may be some danger signs. If you are not aware of your slight tendency to be possessive and don't learn to keep it in check, it may explode in your face one day. Yes, occasional bouts of jealousy are normal and the odd visit from the green-eyed monster may be unavoidable. You may often be torn in two directions - flattered if someone finds your mate attractive, yet somewhat threatened. The important thing, however, is how you react to these feelings.
There are various possible reasons for your jealous tendencies; you may have been burned in the past by someone that you trusted, be afraid of having your heart stomped on, or have slight doubts about your ability to keep your partner interested. This is an issue you may want to investigate - do you sometimes feel unworthy, or suffer from low self-esteem? You may want to remind yourself that your partner chose to be with you for a reason, and being jealous will certainly not make you more attractive in his/her eyes. People with confidence are less jealous, and when they do experience this nasty emotion they keep it under control. You already seem to have this awareness, but may need to work on it. Notice your reactions when your trust is testedÂ…do you over-react? Do you think before you accuse your partner or jump to conclusions? Do you try to control or monitor him/her? Promise yourself that you will stop and think before you resort to these relationship-damaging behaviors. If you find that the problem grows or you are no longer able to control yourself, you may want to probe into the roots of these feelings. Be honest with your partner about your difficulties with trust, work on yourself, and remember; jealousy is poisonous to any healthy relationship.
Security
Your results show that you generally feel secure in your relationship, but may have occasional moments of doubt. You may not be completely confident in the strength of your relationship. In that case, you may want to examine the following questions: Is this a result of some difficulties in your relationship at the moment, or is it a reoccurring issue? Do you, for example, feel that it could fall apart if under pressure or in situations of conflict? This may be either a reflection of the actual relationship or a personal issue. Have you reached a level of closeness and intimacy in your relationship, or is it still in the forming stages? Or does your partner give you real reasons to question the stability of your relationship? For example, is he/she inconsistent with his/her affection or actions? Is he/she distant at times, or unreliable? If you truly feel the problem is this relationship, you should consider having a serious talk with your partner. Voice your concerns, without making angry accusations, and try to find ways that you could build the strength of your relationship. If you have a tendency to question all your relationships, however, you might benefit from examining your own insecurities. Do you worry about losing your partner without any real threats in sight? Do you wonder if you are good enough for him/her, or think that you could break up from any little fight? The root of doubt in love is sometimes a lack of self-confidence - it takes two stable individuals to build a strong relationship, after all. Try doing some soul-searching, and you may discover that if you work on your self-esteem your relationship has more chance of blossoming.
Conflict Resolution
Congratulations! Like the great politicians and businessmen of history, you know that compromise is the key to success. Your results show that you are generally able to listen to your partner, consider his/her opinions and present your views in a diplomatic way. This doesn't mean that you can't assert yourself; when it's an important issue, you are able to stand your ground, but you have the common sense to know when it is worth your while to just let it go. As we all know, couples often argue about the silliest things, like toilet seats and the best way to wash the dishes. You seem able to talk about these small, day-to-day things in a calm, non-threatening way so they don't escalate into a relationship-damaging war. In general, you fight the big battles, and let the little ones go. This is a reflection of the confidence you have in yourself - you know that your partner won't judge you or fall out of love with you if you express a different opinion. In fact, he/she most likely respects that you are unique individuals with different views. Perhaps you still enjoy the occasional argument (let's be honest- who doesn't?) but it's the way you fight that allows this to be a natural, harmless part of your relationship. You are aware of the common pitfalls of arguing, such as personal attacks ("You're an idiot!"), generalizations ("You never ask me how I feel!"), dredging up old issues from the past ("Remember two years ago, when you ate the last donut!"), accusations ("You're in love with my best friend, aren't you!"), and mind-reading ("You think my family is boring!"). You realize that occasional arguing is a natural event in any relationship, and does not mean the end. A great way to learn more is by taking Queendom's Arguing Styles Test.
Keep up the good work, and your relationship shouldn't fall into the pit of constant bickering. Happy arguing!
Sexuality
You had a high score on the sexuality aspect of the test, indicating an adventurous attitude. You are comfortable with your sexual side, which probably stems as much from your confidence as from lust and sensuality. You are willing to try new things your partner suggests, and are able to come up with new ideas yourself. This openness will allow you and your partner to keep the flames of passion burning with a sense of fun and creativity. You know that routine can be the killer of a vibrant sex-life, and have got the perspective necessary to avoid such a trap.
------------------
Theory Of Relativity
Eating a lot of good food will make 1 hour seem like 5 minutes while eating lotsa horrigible cooked veggies will make 5 minutes seem like 1 hour
~~~
Waiting for Diablo 2 Add-on