Dearest bluejeans,
You seem to have looked everywhere for that "perfect" person, and you haven't been successful.
Many teens feel the same way you are right now.
"There aren't any good people out there for me!"
Why do people nowadays go for looks instead of what matters in their heart?
Yes, i know. Finding yandaos and chiobus in heartland Singapore may be a thing of the past right now but the question is,
Are you sure you know what you are looking for? Try making a list of what you think is important in the person you want i.e. has to be friendly, and care about others feelings. Making a list can sort of help you zoom in on who you really want, and who you don't want to get close. But, don't be too picky, with things like, has to have nice hair and nice eye and plan on going to university with a medical degree. Being that picky, you may overlook some people who would really be awesome.
Are you looking EVERYWHERE? Are you sure that you aren't overlooking some people. I know a lot of times it may seem "uncool" to go out with someone from another "clique" but if you don't look there you may be passing up even more opportunities to find a great relationship. A lot of times relationships come where you least expect them, so keep a watchful eye for someone special, you may just find them someplace you never dreamed of
Try getting involved in activities you enjoy What better way to meet someone that you have something in common than at marching band? Basketball? This way you are one step ahead of the game, you found someone you have something in common with!
Just keep your hopes high, and your eye watchful, because relationsips come where you least expect them! And try not to judge how good looking that guy/girl is but take it for granted that he/she maybe the next person u will yearn for
Cheers