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Hi all
are guys in singapore really weezers or just pretending to be weezers? Girls are WAITING to be picked up. And fear of rejection is not a good reason because rejection is part of the game. Sure, all of you make eye contact. So? what next? My unfortunate experinces have prompted me to do something about this. For god's sake, how can you say "Can i have your number?" as a first opening line?? stupid or what?
At least say "hi" and make some attempt at conversation first?
Tip: good pick-up line(for guys)--- "Excuse me, did you just touch my ass? ...No? Damn it." Give it a shot. -
How many forums u wanna post?!?!
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Sorry. Accidents happen. new here. so how to delete topics?Originally posted by reallieRAW:How many forums u wanna post?!?!
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SORRY. U cant unless u r the Moderator of the Forum.Originally posted by Herself:Sorry. Accidents happen. new here. so how to delete topics?
Nvm lah.....ignore tt or Post for the MODERATOR to see so they can delete Topic lor
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Even though guys suffer setbacks they can't stop trying! they have to understand and learn to expect rejection---that succeeding is rare and rejection is common-place.
In fact i think guys have it easier than girls. if we girls approached a guy we really really liked we'd be labelled cheap or flirtatious. and we can't flirt because its not alright to be a buayi while its ok for guys to be a buaya; its even a status.
So do we just sit and wait? We'd all die virgins just because guys fear rejection. sad truth innit? -
Aiyo i more respect girl start the ball rolling 1st!!!
dun belive u try lor or else
u cum n get my no: lor
hehe.... just kidding
but i dun tink girl take guy no: is filrt or wat -
I think this depends on e guy's mentality... if e guy is lookin for ONS then he will go try out every gal... but if a guy is really into making frens.. he will take precaution and wont do anything foolish to make a fool out of himself... maybe the guy is just chillin out n enjoying himself... i tink gals sometimes should make e first move first... i don't feel that by doing that is cheap or bimbo or what... it depends on what u say... how u talk... your gestures etc...
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Totally agree.. Its not a problem that a girl approach a guy anymore... anyone who brands them as sluts are just old fashioned.
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Male and Female are now equal...
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It's kind off difficult for a guy to just walk up to a girl and start a conversation.
Especially, if the guy shy or lacking in self confidence, coming from a school where there are only boys.
Think abt it, .....
shy guy approach chio bu at bus stop
SG : 'ehrr... hello'
CB : 'hi'
SG : 'ehmm .. waiting for bus ah'
CB : 'of course, at bus stop waiting for aeroplane meh'
SG : 'weather very hot hor '
CB : 'singapore only 2 weather, hot and humid or wet and humid'
SG : 'ok, ..... ...' (mind blank)
CB : (thinks what a dork!)
SG : (swallows saliva) gulp. You very pretty, can give me your number'
CB : 'creep!' -
Ohhh, sound so familar...
Maybe tat shy guy is me~!!!
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heh.....
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Desperated???Originally posted by Herself:Hi all
are guys in singapore really weezers or just pretending to be weezers? Girls are WAITING to be picked up. And fear of rejection is not a good reason because rejection is part of the game. Sure, all of you make eye contact. So? what next? My unfortunate experinces have prompted me to do something about this. For god's sake, how can you say "Can i have your number?" as a first opening line?? stupid or what? At least say "hi" and make some attempt at conversation first?
Tip: good pick-up line(for guys)--- "Excuse me, did you just touch my ass? ...No? Damn it." Give it a shot. -
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Agree.. Old fashioned or so call Out datedOriginally posted by nefnuy:Totally agree.. Its not a problem that a girl approach a guy anymore... anyone who brands them as sluts are just old fashioned. -
haha, herself must be looking at all the cute guys out there and thinking y nvr approach herOriginally posted by Herself:Hi all
are guys in singapore really weezers or just pretending to be weezers? Girls are WAITING to be picked up. And fear of rejection is not a good reason because rejection is part of the game. Sure, all of you make eye contact. So? what next? My unfortunate experinces have prompted me to do something about this. For god's sake, how can you say "Can i have your number?" as a first opening line?? stupid or what? At least say "hi" and make some attempt at conversation first?
Tip: good pick-up line(for guys)--- "Excuse me, did you just touch my ass? ...No? Damn it." Give it a shot. -
If a girl approaches you and say hi, would you be wary of her?Originally posted by nefnuy:Totally agree.. Its not a problem that a girl approach a guy anymore... anyone who brands them as sluts are just old fashioned. -
Originally posted by Mozzy:haha, herself must be looking at all the cute guys out there and thinking y nvr approach her They look at me with the "jio" look but just shy away or even blush when I look back at them! Question is--why?
Also, sharr, , shy guys are sweet...so just go with something like this:
SB: "erm...hi."
CB: "oh, er...hi." (not all chiobus are so confident. they're human too!)
SB: (say something that you notice, maybe like "your shoelace has come off". if you can't think of anything to say, just say simply and directly.--- "I think you're very attractive"
Then silence, for her to react.Gauge her reaction and decide how to proceed.
In the silence that ensues, say "Eh, don't be so quiet leh, you're making me very nervous."
It works! Go pick up a girl at a bust stop near you.
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Girls are extremely nervous when they get approached by a stranger too. Its just that some are good at not showing it much so don't think girls are superhuman gods invunerable to nerves. -
Really? hmm...but he will think that this girl does what she did to him to everyone she knows, so it will still damage her integrity/reputation/whatever. Knowing its a major ego boost for guys, girls tend not to try approaching strangers because that is too bold and intimidating for certain types of men, like say, shy guys.Originally posted by Xiong84:Agree.. Old fashioned or so call Out dated -
Originally posted by Herself:
They look at me with the "jio" look but just shy away or even blush when I look back at them! Question is--why?
Also[b], sharr, , shy guys are sweet...so just go with something like this:
SB: "erm...hi."
CB: "oh, er...hi." (not all chiobus are so confident. they're human too!)
SB: (say something that you notice, maybe like "your shoelace has come off". if you can't think of anything to say, just say simply and directly.--- "I think you're very attractive"
Then silence, for her to react.Gauge her reaction and decide how to proceed.
In the silence that ensues, say "Eh, don't be so quiet leh, you're making me very nervous."
It works! Go pick up a girl at a bust stop near you.
P.S.
Girls are extremely nervous when they get approached by a stranger too. Its just that some are good at not showing it much so don't think girls are superhuman gods invunerable to nerves. [/b]
you heard it guys !! go use it !!!
herself, you are quite attractive -
Erm.... halo.... Can i get to know you??Originally posted by Herself:Hi all
are guys in singapore really weezers or just pretending to be weezers? Girls are WAITING to be picked up. And fear of rejection is not a good reason because rejection is part of the game. Sure, all of you make eye contact. So? what next? My unfortunate experinces have prompted me to do something about this. For god's sake, how can you say "Can i have your number?" as a first opening line?? stupid or what? At least say "hi" and make some attempt at conversation first?
Tip: good pick-up line(for guys)--- "Excuse me, did you just touch my ass? ...No? Damn it." Give it a shot. -
Herself is telling us to be....
BUAYA~!~!~!~!
see... who says nobody appricate (dun koe hw to spell) buayas??? -
Originally posted by Herself:
i koe u are serious abt tis topic tat u set... but hey, everyone has the right to express themselves, hope u dun take it too serious
[b]Xiao long nu: Because if you don't think so much or better yet, don't think at all, then what are you on earth for? We don't need another zombie on earth. Bush administration got enough zombies already. No offense, but doing without thinking, do for what? Living life without knowing what you live for, live for what? For who?
hai...no wonder need to remake singapore. [/b]
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Originally posted by Herself:
Why do I get the feeling that she very bitter??
[b]Xiao long nu: Because if you don't think so much or better yet, don't think at all, then what are you on earth for? We don't need another zombie on earth. Bush administration got enough zombies already. No offense, but doing without thinking, do for what? Living life without knowing what you live for, live for what? For who?
hai...no wonder need to remake singapore. [/b]
She thinks guys who are shy are wimps, girls who approach guys are sluts and people who care less are zombies.... Bush administration are zombies too!!! WOW!! -
well said.....i hav to agree wif this one. just dun tok as if u r a James Bond 007, women dun like guys to talk big or think they r gonna get the gal. Just stay calm & be yurself & always remember that a little witty humour goes a long way,man.....Originally posted by GIJOE:C'mon guys... just say what u have in mind... the more u think about how to speak to e gal without flaws.. the more unnatural u will get... e best is just be urself... its so fake to be so prepared...sometimes gals will be shunned off by this kinda guys.