Advices pls
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i like a gal fr my class 4 abt 2 yrs now. we went out 4 a few times but i dare not tell her tat i like her. wat should i do? oso, i dun noe wat she tinks abt me. can any1 help me? thx.
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let her listen to jay "kai bu liao ko
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Hmm... Time for "Auntie Raw" to make a GRAND entrance...
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Originally posted by Xiao Long Nu:
how does tis help?
let her listen to jay "kai bu liao ko[/b] -
that gal got bf yet? if not....here is yr chance lo.... date her out ...get a gift for her...and express ya feelingOriginally posted by mashimaro83:i like a gal fr my class 4 abt 2 yrs now. we went out 4 a few times but i dare not tell her tat i like her. wat should i do? oso, i dun noe wat she tinks abt me. can any1 help me? thx.
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[quote]Originally posted by Ralliart_Ray:
that gal got bf yet? if not....here is yr chance lo.... date her out ...get a gift for her...and express ya feeling
currently she dun hav a bf yet. i juz gave her a necklace 4 her birthday. -
it's juz how 2 find a chance n how 2 tell her...
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be abit more daring and just ask her lah wait she kanna taken by others then u know... u guy or gal sia :/
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read the below story n decide for ya futureOriginally posted by mashimaro83:i like a gal fr my class 4 abt 2 yrs now. we went out 4 a few times but i dare not tell her tat i like her. wat should i do? oso, i dun noe wat she tinks abt me. can any1 help me? thx.
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A guy and a girl can be just friends...
but at one point or another one of them will fall for the other, maybe temporarily, maybe at the wrong time, maybe too late or maybe,
just maybe...forever....
As I sat there in english class, I stared at the girl next to me.
She was my so called 'best friend'. I stared at her long, silky hair, and
wished she was mine. But she didn't notice me like that, and I knew
it.
After class, she walked up to me and asked me for the notes she had missed the day before.
I handed them to her. She said thanks' and gave me a
kiss on the cheek.
I want to tell her, I want her to know that I dont want to be
just friends, I love her but I'm just too shy, and I dont know why.
11th grade
The phone rang. On the other end, it was her. She was in tears,
mumbling on and on about how her love had broke her heart.
She asked me to come over because she didn't want to be alone,
so I did. As I sat next to her on the sofa,
I stared at her soft eyes, wishing she was mine.
After 2 hours, one Drew Barrymore movie, and three bags of chips, she decided to go to sleep. She looked at me, said 'thanks'.
I love her but I'm just too shy, and I dont know why.
Senior year
The day before prom she walked to my locker. "My date is sick"
she said, he's not gonna go" well, I didn't have a date, and in 7th grade, we made a promise that if neither of us had dates,
we would go together- just as 'best friends'.
So we did.
Prom night, after everything was over,
I was standing at her front door step. I stared at her as she smiled at me and stared at me with her crystal eyes.
Then she said- "I had the best time, thanks!" and gave me a kiss on the cheek.
I want to tell her, I want her to know that I dont want to be just friends but I'm just too shy.
A day passed, then a week, then a month. Before I could blink, it
was graduation day. I watched as her perfect body floated like an
angle up on stage to get her diploma. Before everyone went home, she came to
me in her smock and hat, and cried as i hugged her. Then she lifted her head from my shoulder and said-'you're my best friend, thanks'
and gave me a kiss on the cheek.
Now I sit in the pews of the church. That girl is getting
married. That girl is getting married now. I watched her say 'i do' and drive
off to her new life, married to another man. I wanted her to be mine,
but she didn't see me like that, and I knew it. But before she drove
away, she came to me and said 'you came!'. She said 'thanks' and kissed me on the cheek.
Years passed, I looked down at the coffin of a girl who used to
be my 'best friend'. At the service, they read diary entry she had
wrote in her high school years. This is what it read: I stare at him wishing
he was mine; but he doesn't notice me like that, and I know it. I want to tell him,
I want him to know that I don't want to be just friends, I
love him but I'm just too shy, and I don't know why. I wish he would tell me he loved me! 'I wish I did too...'
I thought to my self, and i cried. -
You can just date her out then just tell her straight (guts is a must) cos i feel that SMSing or ask frenz to tell her doesn't leave a good impression ... seems in sincere to me ...
all the best -
Guess ur prob is juz "Not Daring" rite?Originally posted by mashimaro83:i like a gal fr my class 4 abt 2 yrs now. we went out 4 a few times but i dare not tell her tat i like her. wat should i do? oso, i dun noe wat she tinks abt me. can any1 help me? thx.
Need a PUSH
If u find out tt in fact she's has a Crush on u all along.....but then giving up when u've not taken the initiative to 'Confess' ur feelings to her (maybe she thinks u dun like her?)...how wld u react?
There r many things in Life....not juz u but including me.....
We fear to do many things. This FEAR in us juz eat us away.....to accomplish the simplest thing such as to tell someone 'I'm Interested in u' Tt's human's nature but no excuse. Overcome tt to receive more returns
Never easy to do so.....but be Prepared to accept if she rejects U. No more frenz as well....can u take it? OR wld u rather let this chance slip by when she has so much to offer like u do? But anyway, to prepare for the worst, Frenz can still be if u handle it well
Let her know tt u r "Interested to know her better" instead of juz "Interested" in her.....there's abit of difference though 
"Interested in her" alone is lame.......try harder
"Interested to know her better" is much more Sincere (yes...show ur Heart)
Before u make ur confession, probably do ur homework 1st? Know wat she likes n blahx3.......promote urself as well but not too agressive will do....let her know abt ur EXISTENCE 1st. Frenz do not mean tt she'll 'notice' u.......tt's a diff kinda attention.
All the Best
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Originally posted by xavier1979:
My Job's done...so where's my Pay?!
Hmm... Time for "[b]Auntie Raw" to make a GRAND entrance... [/b]
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Originally posted by Xiao Long Nu:let her listen to jay "kai bu liao ko
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*clap clap clap clap clap*Originally posted by reallieRAW:My Job's done...so where's my Pay?!
Good good... Remind me to buy you a drink at our next outing...
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Never never tell her that you like her. You are just opening up yrself for rejection. It's like selling your soul to the devil. If you dont know wat she thinks about you, just test her, keep testing her. This how i read one's mind. It may take a few days to weeks. For instance, tell her what happened[ any incident you experienced or u just make up 1] to you then see her reaction. Ask whether she believe you.Originally posted by mashimaro83:i like a gal fr my class 4 abt 2 yrs now. we went out 4 a few times but i dare not tell her tat i like her. wat should i do? oso, i dun noe wat she tinks abt me. can any1 help me? thx.
If she has been out with you but you still have not held her hands, hug or even kiss her, dont expect her to answer you positively. She's probably still not ready or you've not done enough and are seen trying to rush things.
But if you have done all the things i've mentioned above, good luck to you! What's the point of asking ? Both of you are just a few steps closer to being together. Right? Then just enjoy the prsent moment.. -
letter lor if not sms ...i knw if face to face abit paiseh ...gd luck~Originally posted by mashimaro83:it's juz how 2 find a chance n how 2 tell her... -
Pls let me add to my suggestion...This is a win-win situationOriginally posted by reallieRAW:"Interested in her" alone is lame.......try harder
"Interested to know her better" is much more Sincere (yes...show ur Heart)
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"Interested in her" wat if u find her not someone whom u've 'imagined' to be.....after much analysis tt'll be tricky then........gd luck?! 
"Interested to know her better" at least u've gotten her attention & she's aware of ur possible advancements. At the same time, u r able to give urself some time to observe if she's really the ONE. If not the ONE, u r able to remain as frenz mah......u dun have to clear up any Mess by then 
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Dude. U go to her, grab her by her shoulders & kiss her deep, ya!
Let that cup cake feel the strength in ur arms... That'll wake up her idea & make her fall 4 u. -
Originally posted by Spear:Dude. U go to her, grab her by her shoulders & kiss her deep, ya!
Let that cup cake feel the strength in ur arms... That'll wake up her idea & make her fall 4 u. 
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u might as well say, grab her breast from behind, then tear off her clothers, then rape her n make her urs oniOriginally posted by Spear:Dude. U go to her, grab her by her shoulders & kiss her deep, ya!
Let that cup cake feel the strength in ur arms... That'll wake up her idea & make her fall 4 u. -
Best not to keep it bottled up cos if u do, she will never know.... Try to hint her and let her know that u have feelings for her lor.... This kind of thing u keep inside will only make yourself more miserable.... Remember if u dun try, you lose all hope but if u do try there is still chance of success....
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erm.. for mi, i think that it would be better if u dun reveal ur feelings to her yet.. since the basic "bridge" for the both of ya is not as strong yet.. wad i was thinking was... if u so suddenly reveal ur feelings, she mightOriginally posted by mashimaro83:i like a gal fr my class 4 abt 2 yrs now. we went out 4 a few times but i dare not tell her tat i like her. wat should i do? oso, i dun noe wat she tinks abt me. can any1 help me? thx.
1) ignore u
2) reframe from ya
3) cook up lame excuses to break off this friendship
4) giving ya cold shoulders etc.. etc..
erm.. in my point of view.. loving a person.. doesnt mean tat u have to possess her in order to prove that u really love her.. u should let her to be happy yet keeping a close friendship with u.. leave everything to fate.. and who knows.. several period later.... u 2 might click.... naturely! -
ppl here hav different kind of views... dunno whose advice is the best. should i write a letter, sms or tell her face to face? which method do u ppl tink is better?
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[quote]Originally posted by Si|verGer:
[b] letter lor if not sms ...i knw if face to face abit paiseh
if u r the gal, which method would u prefer the guy 2 use? -
Hey, do u need me to help u xian her? Then shang her for u?Originally posted by mashimaro83: ppl here hav different kind of views... dunno whose advice is the best. should i write a letter, sms or tell her face to face? which method do u ppl tink is better?
Decide on yourself... Don't take us for granted...