Advices pls
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U decide urself. U asked for advice. We gave. But it is up to u whether u want to heed our advice or not.
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Originally posted by milkshake:u might as well say, grab her breast from behind, then tear off her clothers, then rape her n make her urs oni
Wah... I thought I bad, but u badder than me. -
the story from milkshake is so touching... remind me of my secondary school time i fell in love wif tis girl and i have been waiting her for 5 years but she but she is already married tis years haizz
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well....... i agree with u on the part abt not telling her u like her.... but erm.... holding her hands and hugging and kissing her when she is not even ur gf wouldnt be too gd rite.... like dun respect her enuff like tatOriginally posted by highflyer:Never never tell her that you like her. You are just opening up yrself for rejection. It's like selling your soul to the devil. If you dont know wat she thinks about you, just test her, keep testing her. This how i read one's mind. It may take a few days to weeks. For instance, tell her what happened[ any incident you experienced or u just make up 1] to you then see her reaction. Ask whether she believe you.
If she has been out with you but you still have not held her hands, hug or even kiss her, dont expect her to answer you positively. She's probably still not ready or you've not done enough and are seen trying to rush things.
But if you have done all the things i've mentioned above, good luck to you! What's the point of asking ? Both of you are just a few steps closer to being together. Right? Then just enjoy the prsent moment..
personally.... if ppl anyhow hold my hands when i am not their gf.... immediately no chance liao wor.... hehehe..... is other gals like tat or maybe is juz me lar -
or go listen to jay's "Ban Dao Tie He"...Originally posted by Xiao Long Nu:let her listen to jay "kai bu liao ko 
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looks familiar...issit cut out from my post one??or issit just pure coincidence??Originally posted by milkshake:read the below story n decide for ya future
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A guy and a girl can be just friends...
but at one point or another one of them will fall for the other, maybe temporarily, maybe at the wrong time, maybe too late or maybe,
just maybe...forever....
As I sat there in english class, I stared at the girl next to me.
She was my so called 'best friend'. I stared at her long, silky hair, and
wished she was mine. But she didn't notice me like that, and I knew
it.
After class, she walked up to me and asked me for the notes she had missed the day before.
I handed them to her. She said thanks' and gave me a
kiss on the cheek.
I want to tell her, I want her to know that I dont want to be
just friends, I love her but I'm just too shy, and I dont know why.
11th grade
The phone rang. On the other end, it was her. She was in tears,
mumbling on and on about how her love had broke her heart.
She asked me to come over because she didn't want to be alone,
so I did. As I sat next to her on the sofa,
I stared at her soft eyes, wishing she was mine.
After 2 hours, one Drew Barrymore movie, and three bags of chips, she decided to go to sleep. She looked at me, said 'thanks'.
I love her but I'm just too shy, and I dont know why.
Senior year
The day before prom she walked to my locker. "My date is sick"
she said, he's not gonna go" well, I didn't have a date, and in 7th grade, we made a promise that if neither of us had dates,
we would go together- just as 'best friends'.
So we did.
Prom night, after everything was over,
I was standing at her front door step. I stared at her as she smiled at me and stared at me with her crystal eyes.
Then she said- "I had the best time, thanks!" and gave me a kiss on the cheek.
I want to tell her, I want her to know that I dont want to be just friends but I'm just too shy.
A day passed, then a week, then a month. Before I could blink, it
was graduation day. I watched as her perfect body floated like an
angle up on stage to get her diploma. Before everyone went home, she came to
me in her smock and hat, and cried as i hugged her. Then she lifted her head from my shoulder and said-'you're my best friend, thanks'
and gave me a kiss on the cheek.
Now I sit in the pews of the church. That girl is getting
married. That girl is getting married now. I watched her say 'i do' and drive
off to her new life, married to another man. I wanted her to be mine,
but she didn't see me like that, and I knew it. But before she drove
away, she came to me and said 'you came!'. She said 'thanks' and kissed me on the cheek.
Years passed, I looked down at the coffin of a girl who used to
be my 'best friend'. At the service, they read diary entry she had
wrote in her high school years. This is what it read: I stare at him wishing
he was mine; but he doesn't notice me like that, and I know it. I want to tell him,
I want him to know that I don't want to be just friends, I
love him but I'm just too shy, and I don't know why. I wish he would tell me he loved me! 'I wish I did too...'
I thought to my self, and i cried.
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Originally posted by rain_tree:well....... i agree with u on the part abt not telling her u like her.... but erm.... holding her hands and hugging and kissing her when she is not even ur gf wouldnt be too gd rite.... like dun respect her enuff like tat
personally.... if ppl anyhow hold my hands when i am not their gf.... immediately no chance liao wor.... hehehe..... is other gals like tat or maybe is juz me lar
No Guts, No Glory. -
Hey, do u need me to help u xian her? Then shang her for u?
Decide on yourself... Don't take us for granted...
i guess u misunderstood my meaning. wat i mean is tat everyone take a different stand, and all tat u guys said r all possible ways. it's very hard 2 make a choice. every method hav their pros n cons so got 2 consider...
to: all the gals in tis forum
which method do u prefer a guy 2 approach u (assuming u noe the guy)? thru sms/letter or tell u directly? -
i agree wif u. how can u do tat when u r juz frens wif the gal? it's not logical...Originally posted by rain_tree:well....... i agree with u on the part abt not telling her u like her.... but erm.... holding her hands and hugging and kissing her when she is not even ur gf wouldnt be too gd rite.... like dun respect her enuff like tat
personally.... if ppl anyhow hold my hands when i am not their gf.... immediately no chance liao wor.... hehehe..... is other gals like tat or maybe is juz me lar -
Originally posted by milkshake:u might as well say, grab her breast from behind, then tear off her clothers, then rape her n make her urs oni haha! u can only do tat in ur dreams...
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my dear bro.... patient.. planning....slow n steady win the race
its 2002 liao this type of things need tatic...all those advice given by those sg heroes r worth to try but at a slow pace please dun scared ppl... -
From what i know, not your gf nevermind. She has bf also doesn't matter. What matters most is that she has interest in you. If you've been dating her for sometime and she's really happy every moment spent with you, why not ?Originally posted by rain_tree:well....... i agree with u on the part abt not telling her u like her.... but erm.... holding her hands and hugging and kissing her when she is not even ur gf wouldnt be too gd rite.... like dun respect her enuff like tat
personally.... if ppl anyhow hold my hands when i am not their gf.... immediately no chance liao wor.... hehehe..... is other gals like tat or maybe is juz me lar
Of course all these holding and hugging depends on your approach, the distinct period of dating, place and also how good you are. If it's only casual friends and you do that to her of course no chance lar...she might even slap you..
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Originally posted by :my dear bro.... patient.. planning....slow n steady win the race
its 2002 liao this type of things need tatic...all those advice given by those sg heroes r worth to try but at a slow pace please dun scared ppl... -
slowli date her out...take ur time...
no rush in getting into a relationship...u will regret it if u do..
however reveal ur feelings n tell her u wana date her out slwoli as frends to c if u2 feel comfortable or not...
if she feel comfortable wif u...congrats 2u...
if not..slowli...it takes time...it takes 2 hands to clap...
aniway..all the best to u!!! hope u can get her soon... -
how would i noe whether she's feeling comfortable wif me or not?Originally posted by CroW:slowli date her out...take ur time...
no rush in getting into a relationship...u will regret it if u do..
however reveal ur feelings n tell her u wana date her out slwoli as frends to c if u2 feel comfortable or not...
if she feel comfortable wif u...congrats 2u...
if not..slowli...it takes time...it takes 2 hands to clap...
aniway..all the best to u!!! hope u can get her soon...
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how do i test her?Originally posted by highflyer:Never never tell her that you like her. You are just opening up yrself for rejection. It's like selling your soul to the devil. If you dont know wat she thinks about you, just test her, keep testing her. This how i read one's mind. It may take a few days to weeks. For instance, tell her what happened[ any incident you experienced or u just make up 1] to you then see her reaction. Ask whether she believe you.
If she has been out with you but you still have not held her hands, hug or even kiss her, dont expect her to answer you positively. She's probably still not ready or you've not done enough and are seen trying to rush things.
But if you have done all the things i've mentioned above, good luck to you! What's the point of asking ? Both of you are just a few steps closer to being together. Right? Then just enjoy the prsent moment.. -
no copyright applyOriginally posted by SuRfBoY:looks familiar...issit cut out from my post one??or issit just pure coincidence??
i check things n dun get sued easily