really regret thinking it now ...
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jus a story to let u all know....
there was a guy whose name is jon he got to know a girl call pearlyn in chinablack and he fell in love wif the girl at first sight .. and say to him self " i will make the girl mine one day" on tat nght he went to approch the girl to know her after that he got her num for next few day they did have some conversation over the phone the next following week he ask tat girl "will u be mf girl and let me dote on you for the rest of my life" .. at the end of the day they got together.. the guy say to him self i will love the girl more then my life i will dote her more then i dote my self evry thing was ok in the start... sowly every thing begin to change.. the guy begin to realise the girl temper is not very good but he still control him self not to throw his temper at the girl cos he love her too much but thing start to change after one year the guy start to flirt around out side and have ons wif other girls but pearlyn does not know any thing abt it... he started to throw his temper to her for no reason he wish tat she will break up but in the heart he still like her but he jus wan too much freedom... and on the 14/10/2002 was tis pearlyn birthday the guy celebrate her birthday 4 her at 12/10/2002 on the 13 the girl and her family was going out for dinner the jon was staying at her house ... so she ask him to join them" she say dear can u pls join us for dinner jus to celebrate my birthday... at first the guy say ok.. but after a while he dun wan to go for the dinner instead he wanna go home... at tat day they had a big arguement at the girl house.. he scolded the girl u go and die la... f#$k one side... and the girl was hurt badly by his words.. why did some one who once love me and even willing to die for me use tis words on me ... they had a break up on the following days...
the reason the guy did not wan to go for the dinner was b cos the girl was from a rich family... and the guy for poor he cannot get uesed in eating at good places.. more over he was once a popular person from the ang soon tong traid he went to prison b 4 and he looks down on him self although he has change now he still think tat he is not good enough for the girl... now he look back he really regret why did those things to the girl once he love alot.. and why did he join the traid to ruin his own future he kept thinking to him self and he has neve been happy again since tat incident.. although he still went clubbing alot but he onli sit alone at a conner drinking and thinking back of the past he once had... may be who knows one of these days you all will saw him at one of the club in singapore -
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dat jon is you ah?
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cheer up man.... the person is u right?
well... see if u can still get her back... else, stop what u r doing and get on with ur life lor.... what to do? what is done cannot be undone......
cheers!
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who is tat jon is up for u all to decide jus remember treasure the things u once had dun regret till one day u lose it
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Nobody has the right to look down on another person. He shouldn't look down on himself either. He may be seeing his flaws without realizing how much he can contribute to make this world a better place.
Whoever that guy is, just wanna let him noe that he is not alone. Even total strangers like me will show support and encouragement to him.
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[quote]Originally posted by xavier1979:
[b]Nobody has the right to look down on another person. He shouldn't look down on himself either. He may be seeing his flaws without realizing how much he can contribute to make this world a better place.
wat to do wat done cannot be undone -
Then start anew again.
Dun be chained down by what had happened.
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[quote]Originally posted by xavier1979:
[b]Then start anew again.
a person who have done good nobody know but a person who have done bad every body know .. and ppl will look at ppl wif diff eyes u understand tat.. -
Yes... That is part and parcel of the society we live in... Regrettably, many people are still prejudiced against people with criminal records.Originally posted by ccoqm:a person who have done good nobody know but a person who have done bad every body know .. and ppl will look at ppl wif diff eyes u understand tat..
But this is not the reason for not wanting to pull yourself out of the mire. There are ex-convicts who may have started their own business, their own stall, their own shop. And by working hard, building good connections, they still get by along well in life.
I see the future in you. You do not see it in yourself. -
[quote]Originally posted by xavier1979:
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there have been ppl who have get up and fall down many time and ppl who kept trying some are lucky some are not.. -
Such a sad story.... but don't feel sorry for urself... go chase her back
This story makes me realise my problem with my ex is soso childish
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[quote]Originally posted by The Den:
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Such a sad story.... but don't feel sorry for urself... go chase her back
why are u so sure it me den -
Cheer up man. That cup cake choose another one then u pretend that day never even see her loh...
Channel r emotion as follow 
After all we=men. Must 'zi zai shi fang' & do great things in life. -
anyway the ending is the ger is no more wif ther guy rite? but i think mayb the guy shld let her knw dat his real feelings.. . .it abit wasted. . .haiz anyway hope dat guy will try to lt the ger knw his true feeling even though they break. . .Originally posted by ccoqm:who is tat jon is up for u all to decide jus remember treasure the things u once had dun regret till one day u lose it
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wellwell...
tell the guy, not 2b dishearten n look down on himself...
u koe, i used2b like him... feel inferior .... in the end always do the wrong things....
then i realise... the ger like who u r.... not who she wan u 2b.... so b urslf... u try2change 2suit her... as times goes by, she will like 2c the exact u rather...
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shit happens, learn from it, not dwell on it
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Originally posted by Cyclops:shit happens, learn from it, not dwell on it
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[quote]Originally posted by duotiga83:
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haizz dun need to keep it ... the guy is me lo... but as u know lo how to let it when u really put so much effort in the releationship -
dn give up on urself........
others can look down on u bt .dn look down on urself...forget abt the past.....life still have to goes on...time will heel -
thanks for the support really hope tat time will wash away the pain haizz have been thinking it every now and thenOriginally posted by Xiao Long Nu:dn give up on urself........
others can look down on u bt .dn look down on urself...forget abt the past.....life still have to goes on...time will heel -
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i agree abt wat u are saying lo.... it is hardOriginally posted by reallieRAW:ÈË×î´óµÄµ�ÈËÊÇ×Ô¼º
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[quote]Originally posted by ccoqm:
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the reason i let ppl know tis story is b cos i see alot of ppl looking for sex or ons stand ... jus wanna let them know sex is not every thing u got to treasure the things around u dun regret after u found out tat the thing mean alot to u after u lose it