Girls Treat Your Man With Respect
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SOmething to Share.................
I have been thinking quite a bit lately about the statement "All the good ones are taken". I have a few meandering thoughts on this subject. Please excuse me while I dust off my soapbox and state my thoughts on this. (These are just my thoughts, and I could be wrong.)
First off, I have been married for almost 5 years to a man that I consider to be a good husband. He puts the kids and I before himself, and I know that he will eventually make it possible for us to reach the amazing dreams that we have for our future. It's not like I am drop dead gorgeous or anything, and I have a few (maybe more) personality flaws.
I watched a friend of mine treat her boyfriends like crap for years. I always thought that she was so fortunate to have these guys do anything and everything she wanted and then was horrified when she treated them like dirt. None of these guys were perfect, but they were genuinely decent people and it really bothered me to see them treated in that way. Perhaps it is we, as women, who take the good ones, use them up and then spit them out. If being the good guy isn't going to get the job done, then who can blame some of them for being jerks? I am not saying that it is okay for guys to treat women poorly, but maybe if we weren't so caustic and callous with guys, perhaps some of them would still be good guys. Look at it this way, if you kept getting smacked every time you smiled, sooner or later, you'd stop smiling.
With this in mind, I've come to these conclusions:
Guys, my advice to you is this, never let a woman treat you badly. (Okay, the exception to the rule is when she is legitimately mad.) Don't let your girlfriend walk all over you, stand up for you rights, not as a man, but as a human being that deserves to be treated with dignity and respect. Treat her like a princess, even if you don't have the money to get her everything she wants, let her know that she is your number one priority. Pay attention to the things that she likes so that you will know how to please her.
Girls, some of us need to cut guys some slack. If you want to be his princess, then you have to give something in exchange for being treated like royalty. Appreciate him. Let him know that he has pleased you and the next time he makes you mad, say your piece and move forward. Trust me, it is worth it. My husband may not buy me everything I want right away, but he has made it a habit to know what I want and then get it for me when he is able to. One of those things happened to be a big fat diamond ring on our fourth anniversary, in case you are into that kind of stuff.
I think that most guys want to take care of their women. Being that this is the 90's, it doesn't necessarily mean that women have to stay home, clean the house and be barefoot and pregnant while the man goes out to earn a living. But, as a woman, I think that we need to let down our guard a bit and allow ourselves to be taken care of, at least a little. I think there are still some good ones out there.
Having said that, just be good to each other. It is not so much a man vs. woman thing as it is a human/human thing. Treat each other the way you would like to be treated. Incidentally, my friend is now married and I know that neither of them are particularly happy. She still treats him like crap. -
Hmm.....maybe i can agree to wat u've shared wif us
I've know of women who treat their BFs like shit
Why not we say this?
Men & Women, treat each other with Respect!
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YA gers must treat guyz gd
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hMm. . .
i tHiNk uR SaYiNg cAn tUrN tHe oThEr wAy r0uNd 2. . . c0z m3 wAiT 4 1 yR 4 m0ntHs ++ tHeN mY bF sTaRt 2 tReAt m3 g0oD. . . s0m3 GaLs aRe aLs0 VeRi *kE LiAn* 1. . . 
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I think it takes both parties to compromise.
it's pointless to spend hours and thousands of dollars trying to pamper your love one.
Loving and pampering are two different things. You DON'T have to spend loads on money to make each other happy. Little things do WONDERS. (Guys, take note. Girls who are materialistic are unworthy of your love and time and that includes MONEY!)
But i've noticed that there are many girls out there whom are clueless about guys who are out to cheat them. Don't be naive and open yours eyes BIG! -
within those 1 yrs n 4 mths u kana abused uh?Originally posted by 3vA:hMm. . . i tHiNk uR SaYiNg cAn tUrN tHe oThEr wAy r0uNd 2. . . c0z m3 wAiT 4 1 yR 4 m0ntHs ++ tHeN mY bF sTaRt 2 tReAt m3 g0oD. . . s0m3 GaLs aRe aLs0 VeRi *kE LiAn* 1. . . 
go report police!! -
touching....some1 out there finaly say some sensible stuff....
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LoLzOriginally posted by milkshake:within those 1 yrs n 4 mths u kana abused uh?
go report police!! 
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i'm pretty speechless...
firstly. i congratulate u on a seemingly wonderful marraige. then i respect u for speaking up as a woman to women.
i have to agree that it seems men statistically mis-treat their women more than vice versa. this leads many (especially young) women to have a preconception that all guys are like that. to an arbitrary man, he is guilty until proven innocent. maybe life is like that, but to any lady out there who gives me that impression, i will say fuck off, go find another guy. i'll just hope my impression isn't wrong.
to the ladies out there who really have had bad experiences with a number of bastards, i believe that if ANYTHING, after these nasty experiences, you should be able to tell when getting to know another guy whether he's different or not. and "being able to tell" is by rationalising, not by feelings. ur heart my be hardened, but ur mind still (i hope!) has the ability to be rational. it is ur hardened heart that puts up barriers and warnings that any being with a penis is gonna cause u hurt.
i guess there's not much more to say, except that u may wanna put the guy on trial after he's commited the crime, not to put him on trial first then let him get acquitted. -
i agree with u wor~~~~~Originally posted by 3vA:hMm. . . i tHiNk uR SaYiNg cAn tUrN tHe oThEr wAy r0uNd 2. . . c0z m3 wAiT 4 1 yR 4 m0ntHs ++ tHeN mY bF sTaRt 2 tReAt m3 g0oD. . . s0m3 GaLs aRe aLs0 VeRi *kE LiAn* 1. . .
some gals really really ke lian de...... *sigh*
like my friend.....bf dun treat her gd one -
love is blind mah..... even if i noe my bf is out to cheat me also like tat..... love too deep liao den will do anything for him deOriginally posted by lyonen3:I think it takes both parties to compromise.
it's pointless to spend hours and thousands of dollars trying to pamper your love one.
Loving and pampering are two different things. You DON'T have to spend loads on money to make each other happy. Little things do WONDERS. (Guys, take note. Girls who are materialistic are unworthy of your love and time and that includes MONEY!)
But i've noticed that there are many girls out there whom are clueless about guys who are out to cheat them. Don't be naive and open yours eyes BIG! -
would u kill for "love"? what is "love"?Originally posted by rain_tree:love is blind mah..... even if i noe my bf is out to cheat me also like tat..... love too deep liao den will do anything for him de 
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agree wif you some girls is really ke lian but mostly is she dunno wat to doOriginally posted by rain_tree:love is blind mah..... even if i noe my bf is out to cheat me also like tat..... love too deep liao den will do anything for him de
if he mean harm still stead wif him meh
love too deep liao then cannot see meh
i tink is you tink too much liao -
i think it take both hands to clap anyway i believe only when a person meet his/her luv ones den will u treat him/her gd
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wah u r so wei qiu and so wei da...... time to change bf liao... u r stilll yooung...neeed my help?Originally posted by rain_tree:love is blind mah..... even if i noe my bf is out to cheat me also like tat..... love too deep liao den will do anything for him de 
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liew..... i said IF...... dun misunderstand worOriginally posted by zacken99:wah u r so wei qiu and so wei da...... time to change bf liao... u r stilll yooung...neeed my help?
lolz..... my present bf is the best guy i ever seen.... treat me like princess... how to wei qiu leh
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nV aBuSeD LaR. . .Originally posted by milkshake:within those 1 yrs n 4 mths u kana abused uh?
go report police!! uSe sUcH hArSh w0rDs. . . 
0nLi wAt hE sAy 0r 1 m3 2 d0 tHeN i g0 d0 LoR. . . iF n0t h3 WiLL n0t t0k 2 m3 oR c0mPaNy m3. . . k3k3. . . 
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k3k3. . .Originally posted by rain_tree:i agree with u wor~~~~~
some gals really really ke lian de...... *sigh*
like my friend.....bf dun treat her gd one u LiKe tAt GaL Si b0h. . . tHeN sHe KeNa BuLLy tHen u HeArT pAiN iZziT? oR sHe iS uR gD bUdDy? LoL. . . 
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she is my best friend..... tats why i see liao so angryOriginally posted by 3vA:k3k3. . . u LiKe tAt GaL Si b0h. . . tHeN sHe KeNa BuLLy tHen u HeArT pAiN iZziT? oR sHe iS uR gD bUdDy? LoL. . . 
she so nice and her bf always make her cry..... hmph -
just give and take, no one and nothing is perfect. 1st look at your own flaws then criticise about the other party.
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i think when u luc dat person u will giv & take forgive & forget...no matter hw nasty he is to uOriginally posted by rain_tree:she is my best friend..... tats why i see liao so angry
she so nice and her bf always make her cry..... hmph
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HmM. . .Originally posted by rain_tree:she is my best friend..... tats why i see liao so angry
she so nice and her bf always make her cry..... hmph tHeN sHe MuSt bE a NiCe gAL tHeN. . . k3k3. . . nExT TiMe hEr bF BuLLy hEr yu TeLL m3. . . i g0 *AhBiSh* tHaT gUy. . . LoLx. . . -
oic... then zhu ni xing fu mei man...Originally posted by rain_tree:liew..... i said IF...... dun misunderstand wor
lolz..... my present bf is the best guy i ever seen.... treat me like princess... how to wei qiu leh
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Originally posted by rain_tree:
You jump, he don't jump izzit????
love is blind mah..... even if i noe my bf is out to cheat me also like tat..... love too deep liao den will do anything for him de -
Hi rain tree long time errrrrrr...... no post heehee!!! How the going??? Why ur bf no gd ar??? Wan some ang mo I can intro...heeheee!!!!