Girls Treat Your Man With Respect
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i dunno y and i dun understand y i cried over ur passage...
a nice passage...i agree abt ur view abt how guys shld treat gers and vice versa...sometimes i wonder things lydat myself too...really food-for-thought 
Originally posted by cwill:
[b]SOmething to Share.................
I have been thinking quite a bit lately about the statement "All the good ones are taken". I have a few meandering thoughts on this subject. Please excuse me while I dust off my soapbox and state my thoughts on this. (These are just my thoughts, and I could be wrong.)
First off, I have been married for almost 5 years to a man that I consider to be a good husband. He puts the kids and I before himself, and I know that he will eventually make it possible for us to reach the amazing dreams that we have for our future. It's not like I am drop dead gorgeous or anything, and I have a few (maybe more) personality flaws.
I watched a friend of mine treat her boyfriends like crap for years. I always thought that she was so fortunate to have these guys do anything and everything she wanted and then was horrified when she treated them like dirt. None of these guys were perfect, but they were genuinely decent people and it really bothered me to see them treated in that way. Perhaps it is we, as women, who take the good ones, use them up and then spit them out. If being the good guy isn't going to get the job done, then who can blame some of them for being jerks? I am not saying that it is okay for guys to treat women poorly, but maybe if we weren't so caustic and callous with guys, perhaps some of them would still be good guys. Look at it this way, if you kept getting smacked every time you smiled, sooner or later, you'd stop smiling.
With this in mind, I've come to these conclusions:
Guys, my advice to you is this, never let a woman treat you badly. (Okay, the exception to the rule is when she is legitimately mad.) Don't let your girlfriend walk all over you, stand up for you rights, not as a man, but as a human being that deserves to be treated with dignity and respect. Treat her like a princess, even if you don't have the money to get her everything she wants, let her know that she is your number one priority. Pay attention to the things that she likes so that you will know how to please her.
Girls, some of us need to cut guys some slack. If you want to be his princess, then you have to give something in exchange for being treated like royalty. Appreciate him. Let him know that he has pleased you and the next time he makes you mad, say your piece and move forward. Trust me, it is worth it. My husband may not buy me everything I want right away, but he has made it a habit to know what I want and then get it for me when he is able to. One of those things happened to be a big fat diamond ring on our fourth anniversary, in case you are into that kind of stuff.
I think that most guys want to take care of their women. Being that this is the 90's, it doesn't necessarily mean that women have to stay home, clean the house and be barefoot and pregnant while the man goes out to earn a living. But, as a woman, I think that we need to let down our guard a bit and allow ourselves to be taken care of, at least a little. I think there are still some good ones out there.
Having said that, just be good to each other. It is not so much a man vs. woman thing as it is a human/human thing. Treat each other the way you would like to be treated. Incidentally, my friend is now married and I know that neither of them are particularly happy. She still treats him like crap.[/b] -
for me...i see a married couple as a happy ending wif kids..dat's love...like my mom and dad...tho they quarrel once in awhile...but they never quarrel in front of us...but they oways get together once again soon...to me...dat's love...Originally posted by beetle:would u kill for "love"? what is "love"?
love = understanding+mutual respect+giving and forgiving+kids
however, it can be as this
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yes...it takes 2 hands to clap...some times, 2 heads r better den one (*tsk tsk* dat's y God gave guys 2 headsOriginally posted by Si|verGer:i think it take both hands to clap anyway i believe only when a person meet his/her luv ones den will u treat him/her gd
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anyway...u can possibly clap wif one hand rite? -
killin for love is stupid...cos killing = crimeOriginally posted by beetle:would u kill for "love"? what is "love"? -
I always feel that no matter u r guys or gers,
u gota treat ur love with the below equation
love = understanding+mutual respect+4giv&4get
+accept d -ve pts & look @thm in +ve pt of view
try not to treat ur love as below
love=blind+selfish
love can b selfish at times... but its unhealthy...
love can b blind at times...so dun lead ur love blindly
tink not oni as the topic says "Girls Treat Your Man With Respect"
there r oso many guys who dun respect gers
tink its oni fair+square if we respect @other, thn tis world will b a better place2live in... -
Originally posted by zacken99:oic... then zhu ni xing fu mei man...
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Originally posted by cwill:You jump, he don't jump izzit????
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hehehe..... me england beri bad...... ang mo wun noe wat i toking deOriginally posted by cwill:Hi rain tree long time errrrrrr...... no post heehee!!! How the going??? Why ur bf no gd ar??? Wan some ang mo I can intro...heeheee!!!!
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yar loh yar loh....seeing parents loving each other is really important...whenever i lost hope in love....i would look at my parents and start to believe againOriginally posted by aHGer^83:for me...i see a married couple as a happy ending wif kids..dat's love...like my mom and dad...tho they quarrel once in awhile...but they never quarrel in front of us...but they oways get together once again soon...to me...dat's love...
love = understanding+mutual respect+giving and forgiving+kids
however, it can be as this love=blind+selfish -
u make it sounds like maths....... heheheOriginally posted by CroW:I always feel that no matter u r guys or gers,
u gota treat ur love with the below equation
love = understanding+mutual respect+4giv&4get
+accept d -ve pts & look @thm in +ve pt of view
try not to treat ur love as below
love=blind+selfish
love can b selfish at times... but its unhealthy...
love can b blind at times...so dun lead ur love blindly
tink not oni as the topic says "Girls Treat Your Man With Respect"
there r oso many guys who dun respect gers
tink its oni fair+square if we respect @other, thn tis world will b a better place2live in... -
Nebermind you eat more potato can liao...Originally posted by rain_tree:hehehe..... me england beri bad...... ang mo wun noe wat i toking de
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Hi guys & gals words of advice this life is yours. Take the power to control your own life. No one else can do it for you. Take the power to make your life happy. Knowing others is wisdom, knowing yourself is Enlightenment. Always remember that and you will learn to give and take with eachother. I'm really happy to start this topic and see so much of you really open up...keep it coming people.
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Maybe next time you can try me, my doors is always open.....Originally posted by rain_tree:yar loh yar loh....seeing parents loving each other is really important...whenever i lost hope in love....i would look at my parents and start to believe again -
Here's another Life story unfolding :-
I've learned that just because two people argue, it doesn't mean they don't love each other. And just because they don't argue, it doesn't mean they do.
I've learned that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them.
I've learned that no matter how much I care, some people just don't care back.(Sad but true & it's Hurts...*sob*sob*)
I've learned that it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it.
I've learned that it's not what you have in your life but who you have in your life that counts.
I've learned that you shouldn't compare yourself to the best others can do but to the best you can do.
I've learned that you can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life. (This one is for myself...+_+ )
I've learned that no matter how thin you slice it, there are always two sides.
I've learned that it's taking me a long time to become the person I want to be.
I've learned that it's a lot easier to react than it is to think.
I've learned that you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them.
[Is true my friend of 6yrs just die in a car accident 5 months back]
I've learned that either you control your attitude or it controls you.
I've learned that regardless of how hot and steamy a relationship is at first, the passion fades and there had better be something else to take its place.
I've learned that communication between the parent and the child is the key.
I've learned that learning to forgive takes practice.
I've learned that there are people who love you dearly, but just don't know how to show it.
I've learned that my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time.
I've learned that sometimes when I'm angry I have the right to be angry,but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.
I've learned that true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance.
I've learned that just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.
I've learned that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had and what you've learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you've celebrated.
I've learned that no matter how good a friend is, they're going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.
I've learned that it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others. Sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself.
I've learned that no matter how bad your heart is broken, the world doesn't stop for your grief.
I've learned that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become.
I've learned that sometimes when my friends fight, I'm forced to choose sides even when I don't want to.
I've learned that you shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret.
I've learned that two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different.
I've learned that no matter how many friends you have, if you are their pillar you will feel lonely and lost at the times you need them most.
I've learned that even when you think you have no more to give, when a friend cries out to you, you will find the strength to help.
I've learned that writing, as well as talking, can ease emotional pains.
I've learned that credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being. [Trust Me]
I've learned that the people you care most about in life are taken from you too soon.
I've learned that although the word "love" can have many different meaning, it loses value when overly used.
I've learned that it's hard to determine where to draw the line between being nice and not hurting people's feelings and standing up for what you believe.
I've learn all these the hard ways thru my years up in the working world and the different culture people live in, where people or even your friends will betray you for their own interest......trust me "what goes around comes around" -
You need a shoulder??? Dun cry is the past come I sai yang you.Originally posted by aHGer^83:i dunno y and i dun understand y i cried over ur passage... a nice passage...i agree abt ur view abt how guys shld treat gers and vice versa...sometimes i wonder things lydat myself too...really food-for-thought -
u all guyz wei qing shou kun
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thanx...Originally posted by cwill:You need a shoulder??? Dun cry is the past come I sai yang you. -
i always shown respect.....
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U r welcome need tissue??Originally posted by aHGer^83:thanx... -
Why u look confuse or r u confuse??????? Need some enlightenment????Originally posted by toothie:i always shown respect..... -
Originally posted by milkshake:u all guyz wei qing shou kun