MaleOriginally posted by skycrawler:u female or male?
I regretted it becoz i know i dont stand a chance to be with her. If i did not confess my feelings to her, we r still good friendsOriginally posted by Storm:hey man...
i think it's perfectly fine to tell someone that you like him/her... now its up to the recipient to see how he/she will react lor. If the recipient is mature enough and does not think that way about you, then you can still remain friends, no problem.
on your part, you can tell her that you like her, but you also don't want this to affect the relationship. i think she already said no to you, so just tell her that it's cool... but don't overdo it lor. if she overreacts and turns cold on you, don't try too hard to get her to become your close fren again. it'll probably backfire...
Originally posted by skycrawler:u female or male?
errr.. not entirely true. there are guys who react that way as well hehe.Originally posted by Parka:When I see this question. Needless to say. Must be male. Cause it's always the female who cause all this we-can-be-the-kind-of-friends-we-used-to-be-sorry problem. I am biased, I know. But am I right?
Originally posted by www:errr.. not entirely true. there are guys who react that way as well hehe.
well, similar thing happen to me too...Originally posted by Storm:hey man...
i think it's perfectly fine to tell someone that you like him/her... now its up to the recipient to see how he/she will react lor. If the recipient is mature enough and does not think that way about you, then you can still remain friends, no problem.
on your part, you can tell her that you like her, but you also don't want this to affect the relationship. i think she already said no to you, so just tell her that it's cool... but don't overdo it lor. if she overreacts and turns cold on you, don't try too hard to get her to become your close fren again. it'll probably backfire...
Well, I guess it's inevitable, but to me, I think it'll be perfect (maybe even idealistic) if an adult confesses his/her feelings to another adult, but if the feeling is not reciprocated, just be big boys or big girls, tell the other person "Thanks, but I don't feel that way for you" and just continue as if nothing happened... Just know that you have to watch your words/actions from now on in case you are inadvertently leading the other person on...Originally posted by kuaigirl:well, similar thing happen to me too...
i used to be very close to one of my colleague. i confessed my feelings to him when i knew i like him alot... maybe too eager... in the end, he sort of avoided me and we began to drift very far... i was reali so sad... though till now, i know we cant be as close as what we used to be, i stil never regret coz at least i know how he feel towards me... sometimes, it reali hurts to know who he is after but then, i stil sincerely hope that he will be with the best and of coz someone who love him too...
Originally posted by BearBear®:Well we r like good friends in the past. I had become her closest friend…one who knows her secrets…one who appreciates her and laughs with her….we talk about any thing under the sun…
IÂ’ve regretted confessing my feeling to her and now we r like strangers. I really do not want our friendship to turn out like that. I had tried very hard to save this friendship and I believe I had done my best. Perhaps, itÂ’s something that I just canÂ’t change no matter how hard I work.![]()
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Originally posted by jOhO:parka, www:
how about pple that confess then get rejected but it's not the confessee that throws the cold shoulder but the confessor?? ahhaha probably too shy and ashamed to face the person again after getting rejected...![]()
why u post the same in so many topicsOriginally posted by toothie:*cHeErS*