Is it wrong for girls to be materialistic?
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Elementals, let me know if you want me to remove ur name.Originally posted by Elementals:
Why is it not wrong for a man to like a beautiful girl but it is sort-of "wrong" for any girl to go after any rich man ?
Any ideas ? Social stigma perhaps?
everyone has their ways to live their lives and to pursue their desires.
what you deem sinful could be another person's dream.
somehow, many of us are brought up sharing the beliefs that being materialistic is kinda incorrect, not to mention a girl in sought of a rich husband.
if today, your good friend breaks the news saying that she is seeing/marrying this guy, particularly because of his wealth, how would you feel?
and if you are in her position, would you have done the same? -
see it this way man...it's much more clearer
somehow, many of us are brought up sharing the beliefs that being superficial is kinda incorrect, not to mention a guy in sought of a beautiful wife.
if today, your good friend breaks the news saying that he is seeing/marrying this gal, particularly because of her looks, how would you feel?
and if you are in his position, would you have done the same?
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ouch. hahaha.Originally posted by reallieRAW:see it this way man...it's much more clearer -
yah...hahhaOriginally posted by www:ouch. hahaha.
if u shld noe wat i mean -
Well, if a man can *publicly* admit that he is interested in marrying *only* Rich and Sexy girls then he will have to deal with the stigma consequences (eg. whether he care a damn how people will view him where ever he goes/does).
Same will apply to any gal.
I suppose nobody will publicy admit over the news/media, don't ya think ?
For me I don't think it's morale-ly wrong. Coz Rich or Sexy or Handsome are all distinguishable attributes/characteristics like cute, nice, outspoken, frank, tall, short, fat, skinny, caucasian, black, fair, kimMo, redhead, tuaLiap, tuaKee, hoLang, paiLang , sporty, intellectual, caring, boChap etc.
All these are how people choose/characterize their potential bf/gf. What's wrong with preferences ? -
There is a special somebody for everybody, aiyah if this doesn't workout find somebody else lor.
This is wat i've told my fren Mr. A. Every other solution is better than ramming against an already proven impossible relationship right? Life must continue mah. -
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if today, your good friend breaks the news saying that she is seeing/marrying this guy, particularly because of his wealth, how would you feel?
and if you are in her position, would you have done the same?
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That depends. Who knows whether the rich person can be
as caring, loving and faithful as any other not so affluent
guy ? Am I going to hold it against him just becoz he is rich?
Certainly not!
Personally I've witnessed some not so affluent guys being even more *jerks* than rich guys? How do you explain that, then?
Is it wrong to be rich or not rich ? That is another slew of
social stigma that perhaps nobody can explicitly answer. -
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There is nothing wrong with wanting to marry because of wealth or because of looks. However, such a relationship might not last long. What if the guy becomes poor or the girl loses her looks ???
having said that, it might be more socially acceptable for a guy to go after a beautiful girl, than a girl to go after a rich guy, although not by much.
To each his own I would say. After all, I doubt they would be happier than I am. -
that's beside the point, right ?Originally posted by Elementals:---
That depends. Who knows whether the rich person can be
as caring, loving and faithful as any other not so affluent
guy ? Am I going to hold it against him just becoz he is rich?
Certainly not!
I'm sure everyone wouldn't mind their other to be rich, sexy, handsome/beautiful too. -
It dont think it is wrong....every being got their hope and desire. But if you look at thing from a different perspective, then then might have some agurement.
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Hi all
Time for my cavemen theory.
In the past, cavewomen look for cavemen who can smash a rock into a lion and bring home the meat for them to eat. And also those who know how to start a fire. Whether they are hairy, hairless, smelly wasnt of much relevance then. What is the use of looks if you are going to starve.
Cavemen care for cavewomen who appreciates this particular skill of his.
I suppose that is also nature's way of removing the weak humans from the system and ensuring that the fittest survive.
Fast forward to today, granted relationships these days are more complex compared to something that was so simplistic in the past. But the underlying principle still exists, which is women will always look to those who would be able to support her, be it in emotional or financial. Thats why we have rich gals marrying poor guys, or poor guys marring rich gals.
Guys deep now inside, as long as a gal knows how to appreciate him for the skills or talents that he has, the guy will go for her.
If you notice, guy's needs quite simple one. -
Feeling counts
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NOPE... Just like there's NOTHING WRONG with guys tobe BUAYAs.... ~WAHAHAhaha...
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erm i think dat nutin wrong abt it. . . anyway differ gers differ thinkings sum might 1 better life while sum might bcoz of luv. . .
materialistic is a harsh word preharps better life sound nicer. . .
anyway i think everyones want a better life dun u agree juz dat 4 ger mayb tis is 1 of the shortcut to a better life. . .even for guys sum'll b women kept boy coz of the 'better' life they can get frm tis women rite? so dat nutin wrong wif dat. . .
everyone has the rite to choose to choose wic road it up to u juz dun regret. . .if she choose to hv better life den the opportunity cost'll b a true love & lose of trust by the luv ones. . . -
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